I SERIOUSLY want my first girlfriend. Where is she at?

[LonelyTimes]

I am 27, almost 28, and I never had a real girlfriend. I have been wanting one so bad my whole life. I have been patient enough. Where is she?

[OlderAndWiser]

You are waiting for her to come knocking on your front door?

[Daniela1982]

You can try Meetup. com that pairs people by their interests. Everyone meets up at a venue, be it bowling or hiking. You all have a good time and it is hoped that you meet someone there during the meet ups at different places.

[rachel776]

take masters degree courses in education, there will be girls around you all the time and not too many guys

[LonelyTimes]

Sadly, I still need to get my Bachelor's. Although, ai have already held some very well paying jobs as a software developer.

[rachel776]

no just take the classes, not for a degree. just to meet the girls. if you decide to go for a degree, even better

[MCheetah]

She died in the latest mass shooting in America. Sorry bro. It's okay though, cause she was secretly a Neo Nazi. You wouldn't have known that, though.

[Chris_7565]

Rule #1. If you want to attract a woman you have to be attractive to women.
Make yourself attractive to women and then they are easier to attract.

[LonelyTimes]

I am going to the gym and I am very career drive. Although, my loser, normally homeless friend gets more action with women than me.

[Chris_7565]

Look at the guys who have women after them and learn.
Whatever he looks like, and the way he acts is working.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you could go to places where people like you go. For example, if you like art, reading, history, go to a museum, art/reading clubs, art/book fairs.

[LonelyTimes]

It is hard to find interesting ways to meet people here, although, I am gonna start looking harder.

[Opinion Owner]

ah, is a "cold" culture where you live?

[LonelyTimes]

Not really, I live in Knoxville, TN, but this town is great if you are in college but sucks for young adult professionals.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, ok. Well, good luck.

[Drumlin2001]

I'd relax about it. Sounds like you're quite intense.
Get out, meet new people, either dating sites/events or just general hobbies etc.

[Whatever2929292]

Well ask some people out and I am sure you will get one

[PatriceONeal]

Qomen smell your neediness from a mile away. Its very unnatractivr to them. Men might like being needed but not women.

[serious]

I wish you best of luck for the same.

[Anonymous]

I hate human nature at times

[fonduegirl]

You seem desperate.