HE SAID “I’M NOT DATING ANYONE ELSE”…ARE WE AN EXCLUSIVE COUPLE?

[Amazongirl]

I’ve been seeing a guy for a while and had a conversation about what we are. I asked if were a casual
relationship, an exclusive relationship, etc. His reply was, we are more than casual relationship. Then he said, I am not dating anyone else. And I said, I am not dating anyone else either.

I told him I really care about him and he replied the feeling is mutual.

Are we an exclusive couple?

[TheLoneTerran]

Instead of beating around the bush and asking internet strangers, ask him directly. It's rather important to establish when a relationship becomes exclusive. If one person thinks it is exclusive while another does not, that's not a recipe for happiness.

[htmndg183]

Did the conversation end there? Or did it continue? If it ended there, then it seems like you two are definitely a thing as in you both are a couple. But again, the conversation details are a bit vague. Some more details about you two would allow me to give a better understanding/interpretation of your relationship as i would have more material to work with.

[Amazongirl]

No, we talked about going to a sex club together and how that is an intimate adventure between a couple.

[htmndg183]

Oh wow that sounds amazing.

[htmndg183]

I guess you're both defo an exclusive couple then. by the way, can i ask the inspiration behind your username? Thanks :)

[Amazongirl]

At the time I created the profile I was going to the Amazon in Peru.

[htmndg183]

Oh ok. My guess was either related to the Amazon river/forest of that you're a tall and strong Amazonian women. Anyways. Thanks for letting me know. Hooe you're havinf a lovely weekend.

[DryGermanGuy]

And... why did this conversation stop at exactly this point... obviously you were one question away from your answer?

[Amazongirl]

We talked further and I said I want a committed relationship. He agreed with what I said and never countered it saying he didn’t want the same thing.

[AviatorTom]

"Exclusive couple" means that you are only dating each other and that neither of you is dating someone else. You can draw your own conclusion.

[slatyb]

That's the definition of exclusive. It could change tomorrow, but so can any relationship.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's unsure of how you feel and going with the flow. What you should do now is ask him how he feels about being an exclusive couple now? Because you're open to it now.

[Jamesshinobi]

no. not unless you both sign a legally bindimg contract with 2 eye witnesses and a representative of your church...

[KrakenAttackin]

@Jamesshinobi. Actually that document just gives her permission to cheat.

[exitseven]

It sounds like it is. He is too afraid to actually come out and say it.

[SiberFox]

"So you're my man?" Should be a question he's eager to answer "yes" with if thats the case

[maximumpower]

by definition, yes.
you should be able to figure this out w/o having to ask the question here.

[LazerBean]

If you aren't sure, the answer is no.

[BarryLiverstone]

No you are not exclusive

[PatriceONeal]

You're acting exclusively. Whatever that is

[Fuentes]

Say what every girl says " so what are we?" Lol

[Guy13]

It sounds like it...

[Guy13]

He irritates me though... sounds like he wants you to lead in everything. Lacking in the Man-Up department. Hope you can deal with that crap...

[Amazongirl]

Funny…I have thought the same thing. I seem to have to take the lead.

[Guy13]

That's usually no fun for the women... especially the 30-40... who want it made clear but, whether 20 or 50... LEAD, until I "feel" like leading...

[TheSpaceGnome]

PROBABLY.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Yes 🙌