How to get my parents to let me kiss my boyfriend on our first date?

[Anonymous]

[Gent207]

Rule #1.) Never kiss on first date.
Unless you want risk a flame out.

[Asker]

What do you mean by that?

[Gent207]

Studies have shown that people who kiss on the first date within a serious monogamous relationship they increase in intimacy. They feel closer and more familar with this person than they are in reality. As a consequence they are more likely to be blind to the red flags. Also it runs the risk of the relationship burning jot and bright for the honeymoon phase and then burn out the moment reality sets ini. e the first real argument.
So to temper the flame of a new relationship it's best to wait till the second or third date to kiss.

[Frio33]

They will be on your date?

[Asker]

Yes they will

[Frio33]

it is weird

[Asker]

Yep it’s weird

[serious]

If you are above 18 then why should your parents decide if you can kiss your boyfriend or not?

[Asker]

I don’t know why

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You Willa need a minimum of 70 alternative accounts and convincing acting. Tip, never get super defensive when confronted/accused of something, always act… uh, I guess meh-ish

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You could also just, do it but say you won’t. L U L

[Drumlin2001]

You're an adult. Live your life your way. Don't let anyone dictate how you do

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Fuentes]

Um? Are you not 18-24? You should be able to do what you want lol?

[Asker]

I am 20

[mermaidcancermoon]

Kissing on the first date is pretty ambitious.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Guy13]

You are to young to kiss.

[Asker]

I am 20

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Are you an adult? Then you make your own choices

[Asker]

I am 20

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Then you’re an adult and you don’t need their permission

[Asker]

My parents need my permission for my parents

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I felt my brain crashed trying to understand that

[Asker]

Oh my parents need their permission to let me kiss my boyfriend

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Yet again, you’re an adult. Adults don’t need permission to make decisions

[Asker]

Ok i am special needs and my parents are kinda strict by that

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

See now that’s important because changes the conversation. Then just ask them

[Avicenna]

Just do it and don’t tell them. It’s only kissing!

[Asker]

My parents are going to supervise us when we go on a first date though

[Avicenna]

Well then they won’t let you kiss him. What country are you on?

[Asker]

Texas, USA

[Avicenna]

OK, I didn’t realize you were special needs. It’s understandable that they want to ensure that he doesn’t take advantage of you. They may lighten up if he proves himself to be a gentleman, but it will take time.

[Asker]

I want to kiss him on our first date with my parents permission but I don’t think my parents have my permission to do that

[exitseven]

Are they going to tagging along on the whole date?

[Asker]

Yes they are

[exitseven]

I think this would be a hard sell. Maybe wait until you are alone with him.