If you don't want to be serious with him then don't date him. That's part of his criteria and he may actually want to be with you. And then do what your parents being traditional, the point is about what you want at this point. Just know that he may get upset and may actually not want to take you seriously. I really don't know what kind of relationship you expect to have. Because it's very clear that he doesn't want to fool around. If you do, then you need to find another partner. I know for a fact I believe the same way and I do not want to be involved with somebody who haven't already met mine and I haven't met theirs either. You being 19 have nothing to do with this. If you're so concerned about him then again why are you dating him? What's wrong with him wanting to marry you? Are you afraid of a serious relationship such as marriage? You can expect to date forever. Because if you want something more and you don't you might as well just nip it in the bud now. Don't waste his time. And don't allow him to waste yours. Dating is about processing and elimination. Start thinking about whether or not he's actually someone you actually want forever.
I'd say have him meet your parents and be clear with your parents that you like him but you have goals you want to complete before you marry anyone. In a way if you don't let him meet your parents it could feel like you are disrespecting in that he's not good enough to meet your parents. Eventually you are going to have to this whether be this boyfriend or another one in the future. Make the setting as casual as you can and you pick the setting not your parents.
To be fair to your parents, why are you dating if he isn't someone that you might consider marrying one day? Just explain that you aren't ready yet, and want some time to get adjusted to the idea.
Tell him not yet lol.
Easy. It can't make or break your relationship, dont worry.
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simply say no, this is not something you particularly enjoy doing regardless of who you are dating and would only put yourself through it when you know for sure its a very serious relationship or one you feel is going to last.
You tell him that "I am not comfortable introducing you to my parents (just yet)". See if he respects that.
If not, then let him go. Parents aren't everything.
Break up with him because he is cleary serious and you are a goof
You should take him to meet your parents and let him make his own decision from there. Let him know that you're serious with him but warned him about your parents before you introduce him.
Just tell him there is no reason to as he is part of your private life and has sod all to do with anyone else.
I've been with my wife since she was 14 and we never met each other's family.
we even have a family of our own.
Well u met his parents which shows that he is serious about. if u r not serious about him , tell him. Dont play with him.
Tell him your not ready for him to meet your parents yet.
u Tell him the truth your not worthy to meet mama and pappa
Be honest, tell him you are not ready for him to meet your parents yet.
Unless you have no other option, introduce him to your parents as Bitchface Malone III
Tell him your not ready
You need to just explain it to him, that’s all.
It's ultimately your choice... Don't let him...
Talk to him then
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