What makes you ‘click’ with someone on a date?

[muscularbumblebee]

I’m talking general. Say you’re on a date but usually what might happen is you have a lot in common, it’s going well but you end the date with ‘ you seem lovely but I don’t think we clicked like that, but let’s stick to friends’

So what makes you personally click/not click with someone? Your own experiences

[TallAnon]

Hmm, I would only say that if I wanted to be polite, but still never be personal with them again. For example, that shuts down any chances of a one night stand. I would probably only say this if we knew the same people or were part of the same organization (hobby/work/etc.). As for the reasons, there are plenty. Either you got to know something about them that you don't like (religion, maybe they're racist or rude to a server) or you went into it for sex and you don't see that ever happening.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If a person has lots in common but didn't click romantically, then there is either some sort of mental difference thats a dealbreaker, or they are deemed not physically attractive by the other person.

[muscularbumblebee]

Mental difference how?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Could be anything, maybe one person drinks alcohol and the other thinks its a gross habit, maybe one person is religious, and the other is an atheist, maybe one person loves difficult video games and the other doesn't, for anything you have in common, certain differences can still end up as dealbreakers, even if it's just one thing.

It could even be something like your sense of humor, or your views on a topic being outside of what the other person thinks is common sense, or your negative opinion about something they like, or your positive opnion about something they don't like.

[TheSpaceGnome]

They could also go on and on about a topic the enjoy, and if goes right over your head because of a large enough intellect level gap or hobby preference difference, it will be seen as a red flag.

[kinggeorge007]

On a date? Flawless matured conversation (doesn't necessarily have to be intimate) but with a potential to get intimate physically; just not only looks.

[FilmGuy93]

Good storyteller, funny, makes me feel like she wants to be talking with me.

[athlete_7]

Having common problems or discussing one anothers problems solving them and understanding their and our perspective.

[Fuentes]

I have to be drunk for that and I don't drink anymore

[Adogdog]

If we have a lot in common and she is nice and sweet.

[Paige_288]

Laugh and have a good time

[Anonymous]

when you feel most comfortable.

[RuthlessAggression]

Usually if it flows easily

[Anonymous]

Good rapport, common interests.