HELP IM CRYING CUZ I MISS boyfriend? HOW CAN I FEEL BETTER?

[Sugar100]

I haven’t seen him in 2 wks. we almost met last weekend but he has go to work and me too. We might meet this weekend to see a new movie at the theater but it’s Monday night & I burst out crying. I felt past hours empty in life cuz I live alone. Im jealous of married couples that are complete in life sleeping together daily , waking up with butterflies as they cook daily for their man.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah no, I can't feel sorry for you here because I'm still upset about a relationship that ended half a year ago. I'll never see her again, she will never love me again, she will never tell me I look attractive again and so on. It is all over and it is all dead, and I loved her with all of my heart. Now because I am autistic it's probably going to be years before I get another date and by then I'm going to be fucking old.. you probably think I'm old now xD

And you think being alone for 2 weeks is bad?

[serious]

This is a great thing. The tears you have are tears of joy and happiness whenever you miss your boyfriend.

That means you love him a lot. Your love for him is very intense.

I am sure you will be fine. There is no need to comfort you at all because these are good tears so let them out.

[Jamie05rhs]

If marriage is what you want, then make it clear to him that you want to move in that direction. If he isn't into that, then you need to let him go. Don't let anyone hold you back from achieving your goals and what you really want in life.

[Sugar100]

If I tell any guy to marry he’ll run away far away from me. I don't know how women are lucky to get married and it’s not seen for me to marry I don't know y I don’t deserve that

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sugar100 If he runs away, then he's not a man.

[Jamie05rhs]

And don't ever say that you don't deserve that. Do not tell yourself things like that, girl. No negative thinking!

[Sugar100]

I don’t want marry I just said I want live with. A boyfriend daily like all girls do. Most girls live with girlfriend no marriage.

[Sugar100]

Girls do that cuz who will wait 20 years til they marry? Lol waste of time.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hey, it's your life. I'm not telling you what to do!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Don't change. Eventually you will get married to whoever fits you, and you will feel much better.

[Sugar100]

I’ll never get married. I won’t wait 5-10 years to be happy I want partner live with me now I’m tired live alone in life

[TheSpaceGnome]

Have fun getting divorced then when you realise just how bad that will be. You can't rush love or happiness.

[Sugar100]

I can’t be alone til age 35. I’m probably never even seen to be married. Girls live with guys as couples before marriage.

[Sugar100]

Who will be here in my hard times? If I’m living alone? No one can spend entire life alone.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not saying don't live with someone, I'm also not saying you have to legally tie the knot, nor am I saying you can't live with someone before doing so, I'm saying don't settle on who you live with.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Otherwise you won't live with them long, and you will end up a single mom, who will be alone her whole life.

[Sugar100]

Many married people r alone divorced. Marriage doesn’t mean men won’t cheat. I’m hearing husbands cheat when a girl is pregnant cuz they can’t have sex.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats not the point, the point is that if you do date or get married, and you settle for someone who isn't a match, you'll not end up staying together. So your point that you are being impatient so you don't end up alone is moot, because if you rush into a relationship with the wrong person, and get pregnant or catch an std, you will end up alone. it takes at least 3 years to know of a person is a match.

[clampfan101]

I certainly envy married couples. I dream of having a wife to spend all day and night with forever.

[Wherethegoodone]

It's sounding like codependency you have to understand that it's ok to be alone sometimes

[Sugar100]

I live alone daily. How is that codependency? I don’t hear any men or women saying they live alone while having a partner?

[Berethor]

Tell him that you want to live with him.

[Sugar100]

I can’t live alone forever

[peedy]

Go buy a vibrator