Guys, Is he scared of love?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking to a guy who got divorced in his early 20’s and has been in no long term relationships since then.. the longest was 8 months. He admits he’s truly never been in love. I know he likes me and there may be a future for us but him not being in a long term relationship scares me. I myself have only been long term relationships. I do not want to be experiment… how can I show or make him feel ok to trust me enough where he can let his guard down for a real relationship? by the way he is known “player” because he doesn’t trust… I’ve known him for a while I’ve seen him in and out of relationships he has never taken them seriously.

[DrewJay]

He isn't done playing around from what it sounds like.

[Asker]

That’s what I thought.. thank u!

[slatyb]

Scered? Maybe he just doesn’t want what you want, at least not now, and maybe not ever.

[Asker]

He is introducing me to his son this week , Very confusing

[spartan55]

'Scared' that's a new one. He wants to fuck around some more.