Is he afraid of being intimate?

[Anonymous]

He avoids looking at me and keeping eye contact when I am asking him questions, but is only cuddling me, kissing me everywhere else except on lips. Is he afraid of catching feelings or is he a player or he doesn`t like me enough?

[Buntyp]

Think he might be gay? Like he wants to be your girlfriend more than your boyfriend? Or is it more like he's just not putting enough enthusiasm into the effort.
The thing that matters is that you're not getting what you want, so get that out there and see how he reacts. You can't really lose by being out in the open about it, because either he's worth it or he's not, either he stays or he goes--just that, if he stays, you need to make sure that you're also getting what you want.

[Asker]

How can I know if he is gay? He was really into my body, buf avoiding eye contact. Felt like he is afraid to get closer to me and to look me in the eye..

[Buntyp]

It was just an idea of a possibility based on what you said. I have no idea what's going on between you. You should probably talk to him about this, if it's behavior that persists and which makes you uncomfortable.

[SladeTannon]

Sounds like he's insecure