My boyfriend keeps disappearing and reappearing what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Hi so, my boyfriend and I live two hours away from each other. He’s constantly busy with work, and I completely respect that and understand.

But randomly, he would just disappear for a week at a time, then come back like he didn’t just vanish. No texts no nothing.

I wouldn’t mind it as much, if we at least met up sometimes but we don’t… he knows i have a problem with him disappearing without any communication… id be fine with a good morning. But no.

I don’t know, if I should end things, or be patient with him..

[JazzGirl27]

Going through the same thing. My boyfriend travels for work whenever he’s out of town he doesn’t text me back. He will answer if i call him. But when in town he’s attentive always wants me to come over. Calls me every other day. I’ve decided to just wait until he’s home to discuss his communication preferences when he’s gone so we can have a better understanding. I’m hoping this will relieve my stress

[Sparkie460]

If he has no good explanation for his disappearing acts I'd dump him. You should find someone who lives closer to you that you can see on a regular basis

[OlderAndWiser]

If he is not willing to explain this behavior, then you shouldn't trust him.

[RavVid]

At the least it is rude. Has he given a reason? I am assuming not or you would have mentioned it

[maximumpower]

if he's not truly trying to break contact, he should.
you are far too concerned with looking to others for the answer to question you should be posing to HIM.

[driven159]

time to say goodbye and stop wasting your time life is too short someone only hides when they don't want you to know what they are doing and where they are

[Pterodon]

Tell him you don’t like it and if it doesn’t change you’ll leave

[peedy]

Go Vegas and start doing magic shows you can make a lot of money with a talent like that

[JakeS00]

I wouldn’t waste my time I personally would leave.

[Asker]

I’ve been wanting to leave honestly… but some part of me wants to be there for him and stay. It’s so conflicting for me

[JakeS00]

Do what’s right. You feel you want to leave and things would be better, do it. I feel like he’d be better off without you because he’s not there half of the time.

[Asker]

Hmmm… honestly.. you’re right, I think i might end things with him

[JakeS00]

You can dm me if you’d like to talk more about it

[Anonymous]

Make him disappear, lol.

[slatyb]

Date someone local.

[MikeInHawaii]

Buh bye

[Avadarling]

New boy yo