Why does my new boyfriend constantly disappear at night?

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When we first met he went missing for like a weekend but I didn't think too much of it because we just met. Well, every night at around the exact same time (10ish) he is driving home from his mom's and says he just made it home and will call me when he is settled. Of course, he never calls. The first few times I just assumed he showered and was too tired but after the fourth time I decided to call his phone and he did not answer nor respond to my text. The next morning he just said sorry for missing your call last night I was asleep! So I expressed my concern and he said I was over reacting. Well as usual every night the same thing so I stopped expecting a call after 10p. Well last night I tried to return his call at 9p and his phone was completely off. I text him that it is best we are friends and that I do not want to continue pursuing anything. He said he dropped his phone in water while playing football and that he took the sims card out and put it in his friends phone this morning until he can get a new phone when he gets off. I still stuck to my gut feeling and told him I'm sorry but this is too soon for this many coincidences at night. Am I over reacting?
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Yeah, he's never called back after that time.
+1 y
Yeah, I cut him off. His response was that I am making him pay for the mistakes of my last boyfriend who cheated on me. I just said sorry you feel that way (via text)...
+1 y
Well, we have communicated and decided to be friends and take things slow. I am starting to see other people and not invest so much time into getting to know just him. So basically if we are meant to be we will be and then I will be but until then I am not giving him girlfriend treatment nor privelages since he isn't doing his part to deserve them.
Why does my new boyfriend constantly disappear at night?
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