Is a girl putting out on the first date a turn off? (Page 2)
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No, I wouldn't like her less. I'm not one of these jaded assholes that thinks women shouldn't enjoy sex as well. Stereotypically a guy can go out and fuck whoever he wants and he's a stud but if a woman does it she's a slut. Bullshit
i honestly would like her more. Not just cuz she put out early specifically but i feel like girls that want have sex if things are clicking are being more upfront and genuine with you. girls that make you wait a specific amount of time or make “rules” for you are usually not that into.
If she fucked on the first date, how many first dates has she been on?
I'm not special it's just my turn.
I would say no, because that only happens in my experience when there is a lot of chemistry and/or both parties want it.
Turn off for me
Love, sex and life is a game to me.
You have to play the game to make it fun and meaningful otherwise it's boring and meaningless.
We might think your leading us on if you told us that so we might not trust you, But if you like initiated it, It would probably okay as long as it wasn't too quick or Aggressive.
I don't have sex on the first date. I like to get to know the woman first. I wouldn't think less of her but we wouldn't be having sex.
I won't have sex on the first date. If she wants to give a blowjob or be eaten out on the first date, that's fine, but no sex.
Not at all in my opinion. I just go with the flow and if a girl puts out on the first date, to me it just shows she's into me, which if anything makes me feel attractive and gives a nice high.
no, it's not that but how "she carries herself". that says about her character, and her character could be a turnoff.
If the chemistry was there I'd be all for it.
Otherwise if there wasn't anything to suggest we'd be good together then it might be a turn off.
I think the issue is sex won't create chemistry or feelings. If anything it will be a filter to show if their is or is it feelings. I think a lot of girls believe that sex is the key and it's not.
The key is to show interest in sex with the person.
Yea cause I wouldn't initiate anything in the first date which would just be considered a red flag in my opinion cause it means the idea was hers
Depends. If I've known her for quite a while before the date, then no it isn't.
If I never knew her well before the first date, then yes. That's a turn off big time
It gives you the wrong idea about sex, maybe he will think that it will be easy every time he wants it
i don't think it's a good idea. they're practically a stranger. or at least someone you don't know 100% about (especially their past partners)
To a gentleman yes. To a sleezy guy or a douche than well, I wouldn’t know.
It makes me think she’s only good for a fuck. I like a woman with some self control and I don’t sleep with strangers
I feel compelled to also mention that when a woman puts out on the first date, she’s actually doing a disservice to her fellow woman. It’s because of loose girls like this that men have the expectation of sex on the first date and a lot of girls who aren’t really ready end up feeling compelled to put out to keep him interested. Just remember ladies that lots of guys are interested in girls with a little class, even in today’s degenerate world
No I don't think so. But I wouldn't accept it. Maybe until 3rd or 4th date. But sex shouldn't be an issue/first priority.
There's a few factors that go into it, but sex is a good way to end (or start) a date for me (assuming we've talked sufficiently prior).