Do I not get asked out by men because I don't try hard enough to appeal to men?

Anonymous
I think some girls try really hard. They get surgeries, stick out their ass on instagram, wear thck makeup, have long painted nails, make sure their hair is always on point like they're ready for a photo shoot. And then there's me. I prefer a simpler style, I am kind of a hippie when i comes to my personal style tastes in the sense that I don't want to wear any makeup/fake nails or put excessive energy into creating an super attractive or sexy visual persona. I want to be pretty but I am not going to try that hard. I don't want to go out in glbaggy sweatpants and unkempt hair. But I would just let my hair flow naturally after washing it. That type of thing, you know? Nothing like those girls on instagram who pose and always make sure every part of their appearance is perfect when they are to be seen in public.

I want to be a stay at home mom and wife.
Do I not get asked out by men because I don't try hard enough to appeal to men?
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