To me it seems stupid, you shouldn’t have to fight or chase a girl. They’re not worth it.
Do you think girls are worth ‘fighting’ for?
To me it seems stupid, you shouldn’t have to fight or chase a girl. They’re not worth it.
Only the ones that fight to be by you , if it feels one sided , kick her to the curb , never settle for a girl that doesn’t make you her priority like you do for her , Sadly I learned this the hard way but I learned. Find a girl that wants to give you peace and comfort and wants to make you smile and prioritizes you , not one that is going to make your life a living hell and prioritize everything else over you , most girl’s are very selfish people , they only really care about themselves , they constantly compare their men to other men and act like they are these Angels , they belittle you to their toxic friends and play victims , when really they are the piece of shit whores , they want you to wear there shoes when it comes to making decisions but they won’t wear yours when it comes to them making decisions, you are best to let them go because they don’t know what it means to be in a relationship, Always remember you don’t need anyone , you are perfectly capable of taking care of yourself , So a girl should make you feel wanted not used , Let her go find her perfect man because she will be on the streets where she belongs. The only way you can be a King to her is when she is your Queen , Most girl’s have the grass is greener syndrome in them , they can have a good man that provides for her and caters to her , does nice things for her and she will look over that for opposite of what she already has , nothing is good enough , when she compares you to other guys and makes you feel like you aren’t good enough , let her go and find someone that prioritizes you like you do for them , Life is to short to settle for someone that just likes the convenience of you. Find a team partner not one that expects you to provide for them ,
It's like an investment, like anything else in life, even though the emotional expense takes longer to overcome. You keel trying until you get what you want or you reevaluate your efforts and reconsider if it's worth insisting. Honestly, I think you should do whatever you think you should do, within your limits. If the person doesn't value it like you do, quit and try somewhere else. If many attempts don't work, think if it's worth even trying.
I suppose lucky us you aren't in the dating pool then. Why are guys worth fighting for? Can you answer why your gender is so special and great? I don't disagree since I have a man in my life that is a great guy. However, he wouldn't have the view of girls that you have.
Basically, you are saying "I don't get dates" without actually saying it. I'm guessing you are the type that blames girls for all your problems as well. Does this describe you? If so, glad to see you are taking yourself off the market so that some unwitting girl does happen to catch feelings for a guy that dislikes women.
That would be a real shame and a total waste of her time. Next time, consider being brave and not going anon so we have an idea of who to stay away from. At least that way you will actually act like a man and not a coward anon.
Girls don’t fight for guys ahaha guys are the ones that try to get the girl
I don’t dislike women. I like who I like. I’ve had girls try to hookup up with me in the past and no I don’t date. You need a nice girl for that
You know that isn't 100% true. I asked my now fiancé out on a first date. I wasn't going to let him get away and lose an opportunity. Glad I didn't since we ended up perfect for each other and marry at the end of the year.
So, while many girls won't go after guys, some do.
That’s very rare. Usually when girls like you they just act weird around you.
That is called being immature. I will not disagree that it is far more common for guys to ask girls, it isn't universal like your statement you made in the question details. You didn't say most.
You say girls aren't worth fighting for. So that means all. You need an adjective in front of that to mean otherwise. See, I wouldn't categorize all men a certain way because you know it isn't the case.
I’ve met quite a few girls. I wouldn’t ‘fight’ for any of them. It’s true
If you think men aren’t worth it, that’s fine. It’s your opinion
Never did I say that. Wouldn't be engaged. Have a good day.
He’s probably only with you because you’re the first one to really like him
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So honestly when you got to chase or "fight" for a girl its insulting. I mean I think I have a lot to offer a girl and if she can't see that and fight for me then its not worth it.
Everyone likes to feel desired or chased after, so you both should be equally chasing each other. If one person starts to feel like they are putting out more effort than the other then its not meant to be and you should move on.
If you mean fighting for in the sense of fighting to keep someone when they want to leave then no.
You should never have to fight for someone to stay, in my opinion at least, if they want to go then just let them go. It'll be the best for you and them.
If I was a millennial or gen z, I don't even see the point of being with a woman unless it's just for sex. Women literally bring nothing to the table these days except heartache and pain. Marriage is down significantly for a reason. What man in their right mind wants to be treated like shit and threatened to have everything he has worked for taken from him?
Define what u mean with fighting, like physically beat someone else up? Or more like putting in work to get her?
You're moms still a girl
If you're going to cherry pick. it's not ok
But yes, girls are worth fighting for. I don't know what I'd do without them, as much as they piss me off
If somebody was trying to make a move on my wife he should be prepared for a beating.
Yes, they are worth fighting for. So long as they think you're worth fighting for too.
Women are like busses, if you miss one, don't worry, there be another one along in ten minutes.
Like actually physically fighting? No. Girls are like buses, there's another one due in ten minutes.
Nope. Know your worth and don’t play the games.
You have got to get out more...
Yes but they need to put the work in as well
No, I just politely wait for my turn.
Fighting for? How?
you need to define what fighting for means
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