Seeing how differently women treat me now my appearance has improved made me realise how shallow and superficial women are, can you see why?

[Anonymous]

And I cannot ever look at them with a loving and respectful view unless they’re blood relatives or close friends who were kind to me before I lost weight.

[AmandaYVR]

It's not just women. Most humans react in similar ways.

People are drawn to beauty, youthfulness, symmetry, and overall good health in others.

Cruel people are cruel people. Just throw out their opinions, try not to get stuck investing anything in them.

[Asker]

It is mostly just women

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

In my case it was somewhat the opposite - people criticized me for being fat, and when I lost weight, they said I had become anorexic. The only one who was always supportive was my wife, she liked when I was fat and she likes me too now.

So bottom line, don't care too much about other people's opinions. What matters is that you are comfortable in your body and that the people around you truly care for you no matter the weight or appearance.

[Guy13]

What you have proven is that man/woman is fallen in Self-love.-This too includes you so perhaps in your judgment consider the the Pot is clearly calling the Kettle black.
—Forgiveness and Grace is so much more admirable and hot…

[Asker]

I suppose you’re right, I should move on and be happy with myself as I deserve it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Bee-Hatch]

Isn't this just the same question worded slightly differently?

[EllaNella]

how did they treat you badly before?

[Asker]

Saying the most cruel and horrible things about my appearance and speaking to me as if I’m some parasite.

[Straight2thepoint]

Ah yes the Disney delusion.