Is it weird for me to ask my boyfriend's female coworker if she exchanges memes with my boyfriend?

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She mentioned once in front of me that she sent my boyfriend a meme on IG. It was the same one he forwarded to me. He criticized me one time because he got angry when I asked if I could see her text one time. He called me a monitor when he found out I followed her on insta. He later apologized but doesn't text me at work as much as he used to now that she is single
Is it weird for me to ask my boyfriend's female coworker if she exchanges memes with my boyfriend?
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