Girls, Do you consider virgin men as inferior?

[Anonymous]

I am 26 and never had a girlfriend before. Whenever I try to date someone at the talking stage after knowing about men. They always either make fun of or brag about their cool past boyfriends and their sexual adventures or wonder if something is wrong with me.

I am already single for a long time and don't want to start anything with lies.

[lilyanony1]

Don't lie.
It never makes you seem good when you lie.
And people that brag don't look good either.
But if you've asked and they've said then you kind of know that this person isn't afraid to be honest and open with you.

Whats happening is effectively a filtering out process.

The right one will come along.
Being a virgin does have its obstacles, but I wouldn't go annoying it until you're actually ready to start getting physical.
When a person asks about your dating history, you're not lying tell them the truth, I've dated (however many girls you've been on dates with) reason it didn't work out we weren't compatible.

It's respectful and dignified, without revealing too much...

[lilyanony1]

The right one will come along.
Being a virgin does have its obstacles, but I wouldn't go announcing it until you're actually ready to start getting physical.

[shyman87]

Of course not! Virgin men can take all the time they need or want to find the perfect girl. I see these type of men as very cautious, because they want their first time to be special. I'm sure that you will find someone who will love you dearly, and won't care if you're a virgin. I'm a virgin too , and I'm waiting for my time to be special so, don't worry about being made fun of. You are being stronger than others by being honest that you've haven't had any relationship experience, I'll be one of the first to say that! Don't feel bad because of someone's mean comments. At least you've got your honesty. That's something girls want. A man who is honest is better than any guy with sexual experience! But hey, that's just me

[affectioncrave]

Absolutely not. I'd trust an inexperienced man a lot more than a man who had had his fair share of "fun" in the past. I'd find a virgin more attractive too since they're more likely to commit and value connection over physical touch.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to take time to get to know a person before diving into the bed or not wanting to have sex at all! I don't quite understand how some people are comfortable showing their vulnerable side to a complete stranger anyway. O. o

[kylee2437]

Ehhh I’d say I feel more inferior to virgin men because I did have quite a wild past so I feel like men that are virgins typically might care a little bit more about who they end up with partner wise if my past seems too wild for them

[Asker]

The problem is not you have a wild past. It's always either comparing or not wanting to do anything with the new guy.
On dates, they brag about all the hot guys they dated. I am not perfect, I get insecure and feel not good enough.
Or the other types of girls with wild pasts already had everything and now they don't want to do anything wild with the new guys.

[kylee2437]

Yeah I’ve learned not to talk about past guys with current guys because honestly I’ve heard it makes men compare themselves. Not every girl has learned not to do that though. Maybe try avoiding girls like that? I feel like when girls brag about that kind of stuff to current men it also shows a lack of maturity.

[whirled_up_girl]

No, not at all, everyone loses their virginity at a different age, and different stage in a relationship. If someone were to lose repect for you because of that, then they didn't really respect you to begin with.

[likelyOK]

I I don’t and think a lot of religious girls out there prefer virgins

[Asker]

I am not religious and perhaps will not be suitable match for them.

[likelyOK]

Probably not but I still think there are other people who wouldn’t care

[Sour-rose]

No. It either means you're a happy virgin who still experiences life to the highest... or a sad, hungry for sex virgin

[fonduegirl]

That's fine, as long as you don't consider women who have had the experience as automatic sluts

[LazerBean]

No, when I was single I would not have bothered talking to someone who wasn't a virgin.

[Anonymous]

I think it would be cute because then I would not have to worry about you being a hoe. But then I would worry that I am too much of a hoe for you… 😪

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't necessarily mind a virgin guy but I tend to find a guy who knows what he's doing sexier.

[mandyfire98]

No. Virgin men aren't inferior.

[Anonymous]

Yes 100%. I need a man with experience.

[Background_love]

I would like that it would not bother me at all