If I send my CRUSH a love letter through mail to his address, will he know it’s me?

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I want to send a love letter to my crush, but I don’t want him to know who it is. Since we had worked before I know his home address. I never spoke with him or confessed my feelings for him, because I thought he didn’t like me. I want to send him the letter as a last farewell and let him know how I felt. ———————————— Is there any possible way for me to mail it, and him not to find out who sent it?

BeJames · Accepted Answer

As long as you don't write your name nor address and just put the letter into a mail box, he should have no way of finding who was the sender.

Of course theoretically, he could take your fingerprints and/or DNA traces from the letter and try to randomly test strangers in his surroundings but it would take him too much resources and time. Kind of like the cinderella's glass slipper but using modern forensics.

Texaskid1 · Accepted Answer

What for?

What would you achieve except for a momentary and fleeting satisfaction? At the end of the day you will have a crush on this guy and will still not know it is you.

You could send him a letter but it would be like farting in the wind. Focus on people that you actually talk to (and that you don't work with).

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

Maybe if he recognizes your writing, but besides that no. But what is the point if he doesn't know that it's coming from you? You got it off your chest, but wouldn't it be better to Have him?

wittymilf · Accepted Answer

He won’t know who sent it. I’m old as, the mail system was our internet 😂😂

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What are you going to accomplish by sending this letter?

king34 · Answer

I dont know what your saying in the letter so there may be little things that tip him off to who you are. as long as you dont get overly specific he shouldn't be able to know for sure who you are. you just have to know where that line is.

although now that I think of it, me personally if I received an anonymous love letter I would 100% think it was either a prank by my friends or some kind of scam e-mail, guys never ever get stuff like that. so its a likely possibility he would just brush it off, and not take it seriously. unless you find a way to make it clear that the letter is real, which may be hard without revealing your identity.

it may be best to just reveal who you are. I dont see how it would hurt if he knows its you, and he might even like you back. Its worth a shot

TwiNshichamp1 · Answer

Nop it's a bad idea, what if he rejected you, is it the end of the world? Try to think about it! Send the letter indicate who you're and your contacts. If yes it's Yes if No it's No. I know how you feel because I felt that some years passed 😆 but yo gotta be bold.

Anonymous · Answer

That’s pretty creepy and stalkerish. If I got some random love letter in the mail I’d be creeped the fuck out and wonder what person is watching and thinking about me.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If a guy did this it would be called "menacing by stalking".

pizzalovershouse · Answer

If he knows your hand weighting or you talk about things you both talked together about then yes

In_Trance · Answer

This is some of the dumbest shit I've seen on here. You're not a child... stop acting like one

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

All letters without return addresses are sorted by hand still so it might take a month or not at all.

noohair · Answer

This is why some think women are unreliable. No benefit to him.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol that's pretty stalkery & you could get a restraing order for this

BenjaminDover · Answer

I did this and now I have an ankle monitor

Guy13 · Answer

So very sweet…

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