Relationships take a lot of work and compromise. Nothing wrong with just wanting to have your sexual needs met by someone who wants to achieve the same thing, without turning it into a relationship.
However, for most men, the higher a girl's body count, the lower the chance of them making a long term relationshp with them, tying the knot or having kids. Especially once they reach the age of 35+. The statistics bear this out. So, you need to think about what you want in life pretty early before it gets too late.
That’s your opinion, and you’re entitled to that. But personally I disagree. Men get praised for their body count and women get shamed. It’s pathetic and a means of controlling women by men. A body count does not deem someones worth, and if you believe it does, then you’re extremely shallow. Just my opinion and I’m not here to argue.
Sex is not something to be shamed. It’s natural and healthy, and people like you who base someones worth on how many people they’ve engaged with sexually, are the problem.
Feminism and sexually liberated women 🙄 who pushed the narrative thats it’s better to be single and sleep around than in a committed relationship with a family (it’s not by the way single women are more depressed and have less satisfying sex than married women )
Trauma, self-doubt, the list goes on. Society itself. Many men are told to conquer the world whereas many women are told to save themselves. I've been threatened with punishment if I lose my virginity or get pregnant
Nowadays, all the propaganda would disagree. Be a 'boss babe', kick the CIS white people out of society, all men are the devils, et cetera. Trust me, being told that you're racist just because you have intrinsic 'whiteness', that you're a rapist even though you volunteer in the community etc is worse.
Well some of them just weren't ready for commitment and they figured that the sex was good after they had a one-night stand and made a mistake and said that they didn't want to be together so that's what made that
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well, I tried it, and it works for me.. It is not like I don't believe in relationships. Hook-ups/casual relationships are just simpler for me.
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Changing values in society. But not everyone believes that.
They are horny and don’t want to carry around the baggage of another person.
Relationships take a lot of work and compromise. Nothing wrong with just wanting to have your sexual needs met by someone who wants to achieve the same thing, without turning it into a relationship.
However, for most men, the higher a girl's body count, the lower the chance of them making a long term relationshp with them, tying the knot or having kids. Especially once they reach the age of 35+. The statistics bear this out. So, you need to think about what you want in life pretty early before it gets too late.
That’s your opinion, and you’re entitled to that. But personally I disagree. Men get praised for their body count and women get shamed. It’s pathetic and a means of controlling women by men. A
body count does not deem someones worth, and if you believe it does, then you’re extremely shallow. Just my opinion and I’m not here to argue.
Sex is not something to be shamed. It’s natural and healthy, and people like you who base someones worth on how many people they’ve engaged with sexually, are the problem.
Feminism + Social media / dating apps + birth control.
Lack of stable households growing up as well as nihilism.
-Rebellion over old school mentality of parents
-Economy, we can't sustain family
-Technology like tinder
Feminism and sexually liberated women 🙄 who pushed the narrative thats it’s better to be single and sleep around than in a committed relationship with a family (it’s not by the way single women are more depressed and have less satisfying sex than married women )
Relationship require time and effort and some people just don't want to put in the effort at least not consistently.
Relationships are troublesome and emotionally painful. Hookups just feel good.
Women did. Women started cheating at way higher rates and started getting massively delusional about their value and how long that value will last.
Millennials may be lost at this point.
Trauma, self-doubt, the list goes on. Society itself. Many men are told to conquer the world whereas many women are told to save themselves. I've been threatened with punishment if I lose my virginity or get pregnant
Nowadays, all the propaganda would disagree. Be a 'boss babe', kick the CIS white people out of society, all men are the devils, et cetera. Trust me, being told that you're racist just because you have intrinsic 'whiteness', that you're a rapist even though you volunteer in the community etc is worse.
Well some of them just weren't ready for commitment and they figured that the sex was good after they had a one-night stand and made a mistake and said that they didn't want to be together so that's what made that
well, I tried it, and it works for me.. It is not like I don't believe in relationships. Hook-ups/casual relationships are just simpler for me.
It seems to be the new trend. People don't want to get attached.
Men used to have to make a commitment to women to get sex. Women wanted equality and freedom. This is what it looks like.
Social Media, Dating Apps, extremely high divorce rates.
Hook ups are easy, relationships are hard.
They got hurt and or mistreated, cheated on etc. it shook their faith in relationships. To avoid getting hurt again they decided to avoid em.
its not exactly hard to figure out.
So many people seeing their parents fail in their relationship.
Mine are still married.
We all lead busy lives these days and time is limited. Sex without attachment is fun some times.
The easy availability of hookups and the difficulty in finding someone suitable for a relationship.