Do you guys prefer to be the one who confesses love or prefer the girl to do it?

[Anonymous]

So I guess you're are all different , that's why I'm asking u particularly. I wish to know if I should tell the guy I like that I think about him everyday and maybe it's his fault for talking to me everyday and being so fun and I don't know there's something about him. But I hate that sometimes he gives me a lot of attention and then all of the sudden not like he likes to play hard to get I guess and it is making me kinda mad and I do the same if he is late to respond one day I'm too and I double it.

[mike5150]

Just be honest with him about your feelings. I been around dating for a while and the one thing that upset me the most was feeling like I wasted my time. Wouldn't you want to know how he feels?

[Asker]

Well I think I know , wouldn't be more romantic if he was the one who confesses bc he is the guy if he chases me is more romantic right I don't know it's scaring

[mike5150]

If you want to keep waiting. This could be drawn out over more months, or you could make the first move and know.

[Cowboy6666]

I was in the same situation few times but due to long distance it didn't end well. Either way confessions or giving hints is fine for me. But it needs efforts to work from both sides.

[sw1916]

I think you’re playing games. If you want to know how he feels, be honest like an adult and you’ll know everything you want to know.

[Asker]

U think I should dare to say the truth that it's been five months and I can't stop thinking bout him everyday? Thats big news

[sw1916]

Do you feel playing this guessing game will get u anywhere? If you want answers, the best way is to be honest, if he feels the same he will tell you. If he doesn’t, tell him to kick rocks. That simple.

[Asker]

Well but I'm scared , what if he doesn't want know.. I was thinking about asking him : if u were talking to a girl for a long time would u want to know if she thinks about u everyday and give u like a special place or would u prefer her to keep it secret and act like nothing...

[sw1916]

I would personally want to know. And let’s keep it real if he’s talking to u for 5 months he either wants to date or fuck you.

[Asker]

What if I asked him: would u want to know if u make me oxitocin or would u prefer me to hide it? Lol

[Asker]

Make feel *

[Asker]

I guess I could so I know if I should repress it right

[sw1916]

First of all, oxytocin is a hormone primarily used to induce contractions during childbirth. So I don’t think you’re in labor. Two, yes you should know so you know how to move forward. I hate the guessing game personally.