Would you stop smoking or drinking if your SO wants you to?

[DavidRaul]

I actually hate the smell of cigerettes and wouldn't date anyone who smokes either cigerette or weed. I don't drink, but i wouldn't mind my SO having a few drinks

[DizzyDesii]

I dont drink not smoke anything. I would prefer the guy does neither as well. But if he does, i can tolerate him drinking a few holidays/events a year (but not daily/weekly/monthly). Smoking is still completely off the table

[DizzyDesii]

*nor

[DavidRaul]

Exactly thats what i would do

[FictionalCharacter]

I don’t keep secrets. I let guys know I smoke on rare occasions. If they don’t like it in general, okay. Let’s not waste each other time.

[Adam1978]

I don't smoke and neither should she. I barely drink so it wouldn't be much of a sacrifice to go to zero. I just don't see the point.

[Guy13]

Yes, if it would strengthen our relationship

[LilyoftheLake]

It would depend on their reasoning, but probably

[anon1903]

Nope. I wouldn't date such a person in the first place. I agree, social drinking is a thing, but anything else is unacceptable behaviour.

[tanvishah123]

I might