Guys, do you have any weight/height requirements for a lady to be attractive to you?

Question

Does she have to be at a specific height or weight range for you to actually find her appealing?

Shadow_Monarch · Accepted Answer

I'll be completely honest. I don't like it if she's too skinny, or too overweight. As far as height goes, don't like if she's taller than me ( which is extremely rare).

libsaretards · Accepted Answer

Not really a specific height or weight range. However, I want her to be healthy.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have never dated a girl who was shorter than 5' 0" and it would probably feel weird to be with someone that short. I have dated a girl who was the same height as me - 5' 9" - and felt very comfortable with her. I have asked a couple of ladies taller than me for dates but got rejceted because they wanted someone taller.

I can tolerate a lady being a bit overweight, perhaps 20 pounds, but more than that and it wquickly becomes a turn off. I am also turned off by really big boobs and would never really have an interest in someone bigger than 36D. I wuld much prefer 32A-34B.

MCheetah · Answer

No requirements, no. However, I do get turned on by tall women; those who are at least 5'9"/175 cm tall. With "basic tall" women, like 5'9" to 6'0", it's a bonus/plus. With very tall women, 6'1" to 6'5", it's a legit turn-on. I don't know why, but it could have to do with me just always loving powerful women, from the beginning. As far as weight/size goes, I want a woman between size 18 to 23; a thick girl or small BBW. So I'll just copy everyone else and state this in list format.

HEIGHT

- 5'6"/167 cm and under: Not attracted/slightly negative.

- 5'7"/170 to 5'8"/174 (medium female height): Indifferent; not a pro nor con.

- 5'9"/175 to 6'0"/183 cm (tall): A benefit/perk/bonus positive.

- 6'1"/185 to 6'5"/196 cm (very tall): A turn-on/legitimately hot/sexy AF!

Michaela: 6'2"/188 cm with 6'4"/193 cm sisters and 5'7"/170 cm cousin

Stephanie: 6'5"/195 cm, next to a 5'9"/176 cm man.

WEIGHT/BODY TYPE

- Size 13 or thinner (Average to skinny): I'm less attracted to skinny women. Honestly, I mostly don't want a skinny girl, but I wouldn't reject one just for that.

- Size 14 to 17 (plus-sized/curvy): I'm okay with this; as long as she still has curves, she's fine.

- Size 18 to 20 (voluptuous): Ideal zone for me.

- Size 21 to 23 (Full figured): Ideal zone for me.

- Size 24 to 26 (BBW): I would not be opposed to a legitimate "fat girl" like this.

- Size 26 and up (SSBBW): Sometimes a bit too much for me, but still preferred over too skinny.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Yes and no. I will not date any woman that tells me she won't date a guy under 6 feet most likely. I'm 6'5" and it offends me when a woman closer to 6 feet wants to date me because of my height (think about it, how would you feel if a guy had a D cup requirement for women? It's no different). I know some women have height insecurity and while I'm sorry for them that's something they're just going to have to workout on their own. While I've been attracted to women as short as 4'11 or as tall as 6'8" I don't have a height "type".

Now the weight subject I understand a little better but I don't get fully either. I think women are far too obsessed with weight. I get this, magazines and pop culture all tell you you women have to be 100 lbs. But that's silly! For one thing a woman who's 5' and a woman 5'11 of a similar build won't weigh remotely the same. I don't know if I have a weight requirement as women seldom tell you what they weigh😆.

I will say this the heaviest woman I've been attracted to (WHOSE WEIGHT I KNEW, cause she told me) weighed 225lbs. Suffice it to say I've been attracted to thin as well as thick. I just want us both to be healthy and happy.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

A little plump, I can tolerate. Just no beached whales. And preferably, I'd like it that she not look like Gollum either. 5'4" is ideal to me, but I can negotiate. I'm not going to tell a girl to set sail because she's an inch taller than I prefer, or ten pounds heavier.

Now, if she's a complete woke lunatic, then that's a hard no; even if she meets my every physical preference. And if she's that, plus has the blue or green hair thing going? Then I'm gonna peace out. I'm not gonna screw a giant parrot, no matter how trendy it is!

Novacane · Answer

I would say that I personally do not care about height, she can be short or tall it doesn't matter. Now, weight-wise might be a little different, I dont care about a specific weight as long as they are not on the extreme sizes like obese or anorexic. I also go to the gym every day, now that doesn't mean they have to gym every day but at least find value in going to the gym and have the motivation to change, because if I have someone who doesn't go to the gym they will start to pull me away from going to the gym often because they will want to do other stuff and they will get disappointed when I dont accept that.

Lliam · Answer

I'm 6'2 and always had a preference for girls of average height (5'4) or shorter. I also preferred fit and slender but not skinny. Normal measurements like 32", 23", 34".
30B or 28D depending on the bra fitting. Maybe 120 lbs. I like women who are soft and have nice figures.

I don't care for thicc figures at all.

Having said all that, I'm not stuck on that preference. I love girls who are shorter than average, and I wouldn't hesitate to date a girl who was 5"10". Compared to other things, height really isn't very important.

I don't know much about weight. It doesn't matter to me as long as she looks good for her height. I am pretty picky about girl's figures.

BlueStripedSoul · Answer

Nope, not at all. I actually have a very wide range of body types, features and overall looks that I find attractive, and they are not in competition with each other. That might be a hard concept for some people to understand/believe, but that's just the way I've always been.

I know it sounds clichéd, but for me, beauty really does come in all shapes and sizes. Besides, true love isn't a dress size or a number on a scale. No matter what end of the spectrum. There's more to beauty and attraction than just what's on the outside. Ultimately, for me, it comes down to they type of person she is and the quality, and character of her soul. That's what attracts me most. 💙

DaveJord · Answer

No the height and weight is not that important as long as she has body symmetry... meaning that everything according to her size is in portions. Does she has a defined waist line, is her ass and tits in portions with each other?

Mean I don't like skinny assed size 4 women with these Triple Double D sized tits hanging off this little tiny narrow body. And I do not like these 18 plus sized women with no tits, or stomach rolls were her waist should be either.

So my ex wife was a size 18, with full C cups and a flat stomach and waist high waist... she was 140 lbs when we met and 200 lbs when we divorced. But the symmetry stayed the same... as she put on weight she got a little wider, the tits got a little bigger and the ass held up nicely. But she was 5'9, with a tall lean or long type frame.

So it all depends on the body type not the weight or height.

I mean if your 5'4 and you weight 200 lbs then its not good. Neither is 5'9 at 100 lbs.

Sixgunsound · Answer

I’m significantly more interested in who someone’s going to be throughout life than what they look like in their 20s and 30s. Beauty fades but personality is constant. In the interest of fairness if I’m not attracted to someone at all that isn’t a fake it till you make it kind of situation, but I can work around a lot physically that I can’t work with mentally.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I think honestly, since I’m short, I Have height requirements… since I’m 5’7, I’d accept any girl only from 5’7 going down, because I have to fight my inferiority complex 🙈

As weight, I’d like more a normal healthy range of weight.. not an anorexic but not an obese people is ok. It’s ok to have some kg in excess, I’m not a radical for diets or fitness, as long as it doesn’t go through obesity.

Sleevey · Answer

Yes. Men are physically attracted to women, it’s 200,000 years of built in vetting that men find symmetry, face and body. And many other physical indicators for a health fertile women for procreation. To big or to smallare both negative indicators of possible fertility and ability to raise young. It sounds very cold, but it’s reality. Many such indicators are not even consciously assessed.

AlphaMale1 · Answer

Slender women who are around 5 feet tall with dark hair are my weakness. Breast size doesn't matter. She must be attractive, at least to me and have a positive attitude. I can deal with most everything else if she fits this description.

Bricealan · Answer

To some degree, yes. I am a 'small' guy based on my height/weight. I am 5'8" and weight around 135 Lbs. My current girlfriend is about 5'5" and is about 105.

Prior to that and when I was younger, in my 20's, I did not really care, although I was a bit heavier. (150). I have dated women who were taller/heavier than I AND if they did not care, neither did I.

GingerGuy · Answer

No not really. Like everyone else I have a general preference, but unlike for many women when it comes to this (especially height), it's never a "deal breaker". It's just a preference. I can be attracted (and have been) to all shapes and sizes, just depends on the woman. More than physical appearance that makes her attractive also (like you with guys, personality matters).

HighValue · Answer

4' 9" to 5' 10"

Weight differs based on if she is athletic or not and her height so I go by build instead.

Petite (skinny), athletic, slim, normal in that order of preference.

The tall ones (5' 8" and up) need to be athletic most of the time for their build to be attractive to me, but the short ones (5' 4" and under) can either be skinny and petite or athletic and still look good both ways.

qwert1234 · Answer

Requirement? no.

Preference? yes.

All my ex's are smaller than me, tallest being a tad smaller than me.

I have not dated fat to obese ones. Some got fat during the course of the relationship, but never started with either.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I must admit that girls who are taller than me are somewhere on the

''this-one-is for-others'' list.

I might find her attractive anyway - but without further own ''intentions''.

I'm very aware how stupid this is in general. But then: no one gets hurt :)

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Height : 5” or taller but ideally 5’7 Weight: under 250

Johnagain · Answer

Weight; no more than 125 lbs. no less than 95.

Height; no more than 6', 2" no less than 5', 7"

Now the height is just because of awkwardness when dancing, driving the same car, in bed, (sometimes) and reaching for things on the top shelves. Otherwise, I find myself attracted to hot girls no matter what their height. Being with them as a partner, is another thing to consider.

Freyke · Answer

I do. I am not attracted to women who are severely overweight or underweight. So being in the middle is what you could say is a requirement.

When we speak about height it's more a preference. I prefer tall women, but you don't have to be tall to be considered attractive. But my mind won't look at you in a romantic/sexual way until you flirt with me.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

I have season tickets to Women’s volleyball. I’ve also been to a few gymnastics competitions. I think several of the volleyball players and gymnasts are gorgeous. I guess height doesn’t matter. I do find fat women unappealing. If they’re my age and fat, it’s about time for an electric scooter. My favorite burger joint is two miles away and, on my day off, I’ll walk it.

Thatbaldguy · Answer

Not really requirements but definitely preferences I prefer women to be around 5’2” to 5’5” in height. Weight wise plus sized.

Still-alive · Answer

I prefer smaller girls but no requirement at all.

Weight i can't do obese... but anything less than that i am fine with.

im really more about personality than anything else physically with the exception of the face. As long as im attracted to your facial features im good.

king34 · Answer

I don't care about height as long as she's not above 6'0 which almost no women are, and for weight it depends on her height, she had to look like she could run a mile if she had to, those are my general standards but it's different for hook ups or casual dating than it is for a woman you want to marry, very different standards apply

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Height doesn't matter to me as much. She can be taller than me, I dont care. I dont know what to say about weight as thats hard to imagine in my head but as long as she's around a healthy weight for her height then Im good.

bigpauly · Answer

Height wise I don’t have any requirements at all I’m extremely short and used to most people towering over me lol. As long as they don’t mind my height I don’t mind theirs

As far as weight, there is not a specific number. Just as long as she is not extremely overweight I won’t mind.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Shorter the better but i couldnt see myself with someone more than 5'4". Thinner the better. I dont think i could be with someone over 135 lbs unless they have an athletic physique, then maybe 145.

Average height and weight of exgfs is 5ft 95lbs.

Robert159 · Answer

Requirements no preference is different I prefer short and don't really find obese attractive I didn't say I don't like fluffy I just don't like obese

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I'm more of a visual creature. I have to see a picture and then I can make that call. The whole stuck on numbers thing really seems to be a woman's game... in my humble opinion. If any chicks ask just tell them I'm 7'10" and only weigh 68lbs...12 inch weiner. lolz

Twalli · Answer

Not really. I mean I wouldn't date a girl that's 200 lbs+ and 5'5" or less. So the weight requirement is based on height, so I wouldn't date an morbidly obese woman.

AviatorTom · Answer

No absolute numbers. To be attractive, she should have all the body parts in the right places, and have a height and weight that go together for an overall healthy look.

scott04sa22 · Answer

I like chubby girls because their more friendly then skinny girls because skinny girls can be more meaner to you.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

I would date an actual whale that swims in the ocean if she had a good personality and wasn't really a dude. 🤡💃

RavVid · Answer

Height is not important to me but I like girls to be slender enough that the crest of her pelvis is discernible under her skin. That is a god healthy weight for a girl.

888theGreat · Answer

This would be a no no

Adam1978 · Answer

Weight in she can't be fat. Height is more of a preference than a requirement but I like a height I can kiss without trouble.

PypeLayin01 · Answer

No, just that their belly can't hang down further than their vagina. I don't want to have to prop up their stomach to give them cunnilingus

JSmuve · Answer

That's a really difficult question to answer because it's all subjective. No guy will say a woman who's 5'8" is attractive but 5'9" isn't attractive. And weight is a terrible measure of attractiveness because a woman who's 5'9", 130 lbs will look much different than a woman who's 5'1", 130 lbs. It's better to define attractiveness by body measurements than weight (i. e. waist:hip ratio, bust size, butt:thigh ratio).

Avicenna · Answer

Being tall and thin is most attractive to me, but it's not an absolute necessity.

Birdlegs · Answer

Height between 5’2-6’2 Weight depends on muscle mass and build

MrHopper · Answer

Not really, i been out with all shapes and sizes. Each has its appealing aspects!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Not really... somewhere between 5'3-5'8, and functionally fit.

worldscolide · Answer

For how tall she is? No. Her weight? I dont want someone who weighs more than i do.. And i am just under 220. So someone who is morbidly obese is simply not what im interested in.

Brammer54 · Answer

I do not have any requirements for height or weight. I just want them to be in shape.  Ngl I actually fancy tall women. I am 6'3 and wouldn't mind having an even taller woman as partner hahaha.

MrSomeOne · Answer

I think it depends on girls. Since I've been to so many countries, I've met so many women. Among the girls I liked, there were both overweight and thin ones. I guess I was just focusing on how they smiled 😃

Reaper1985 · Answer

I don't have strict requirements for things like height/weight other then generally healthy and as close to all natural as possible.

Pegases · Answer

Don't we all? I like women that are fit, and under 5'8.

vald9inches · Answer

I typically love short girls lol but i don't have any specific requirements other than just being attractive to me personally

Steve7111 · Answer

No. I do like taller girls, 5'7" - 5'10" would be ideal, but it's not a deal-breaker.

kellytheman · Answer

No for me not really as long she 4"10 ft is okay and under 6"8ft is okay also. I could go a little shorter but then I feel she be a little person or technically a midget.

fonduegirl · Answer

No. Person I date should not be malnutitioned nor obese. Only requirement.

zagor · Answer

Can't be too heavy or too skinny. As far as height, for me it is a pretty big range, like 4'10 to 6'5.

Andres77 · Answer

No requirement. It all depends on the girl. But I have enjoyed short curvy more than taller. Just a preference.

Staximus · Answer

I don't really care about height but I'm only 5'7". Weight, anywhere from skinny to chubby but not unhealthy skinny and not obese

Guardian45 · Answer

I prefer women who are 5'4" or less, but I have dated a woman who was 6'. As for weight, I never think about it, I prefer curvy women.

wouterv · Answer

Tbh height is not a big thing weight also isn't a big thing but I am 65 kg so I aim for women not heavier than 85 unless there tall cause then the body Weight is in proportion

Andrewosas · Answer

Well for me size, weight doesn't really matter but no one wants s a plumpy an shapeless woman. I think when she has these unapealing qualities it means she's lazy. A woman with a good sense of humor and fun to be with is all I crave for.

neoagent1 · Answer

As long as she's proportional and not overweight that usually works.

TallAnon · Answer

Yeah. If a 5 feet girl is 300lbs, I'm not into it. Where's the limit per height? Fuck if I know. But yes, I have limits.

trans3 · Answer

I like fat women more to love, but overtime I've come to realise I actually want to be a fat woman, like fat Amy. So I guess my opinion on the question isn't valid at all lol

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