Guys, do you have any weight/height requirements for a lady to be attractive to you?

[Pinay_ako]

Does she have to be at a specific height or weight range for you to actually find her appealing?

[Shadow_Monarch]

I'll be completely honest. I don't like it if she's too skinny, or too overweight. As far as height goes, don't like if she's taller than me ( which is extremely rare).

[Pinay_ako]

How tall are you

[Shadow_Monarch]

6'2" ( 188cm)

[libsaretards]

Not really a specific height or weight range. However, I want her to be healthy.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never dated a girl who was shorter than 5' 0" and it would probably feel weird to be with someone that short. I have dated a girl who was the same height as me - 5' 9" - and felt very comfortable with her. I have asked a couple of ladies taller than me for dates but got rejceted because they wanted someone taller.

I can tolerate a lady being a bit overweight, perhaps 20 pounds, but more than that and it wquickly becomes a turn off. I am also turned off by really big boobs and would never really have an interest in someone bigger than 36D. I wuld much prefer 32A-34B.

[MCheetah]

No requirements, no. However, I do get turned on by tall women; those who are at least 5'9"/175 cm tall. With "basic tall" women, like 5'9" to 6'0", it's a bonus/plus. With very tall women, 6'1" to 6'5", it's a legit turn-on. I don't know why, but it could have to do with me just always loving powerful women, from the beginning. As far as weight/size goes, I want a woman between size 18 to 23; a thick girl or small BBW. So I'll just copy everyone else and state this in list format.

HEIGHT

- 5'6"/167 cm and under: Not attracted/slightly negative.

- 5'7"/170 to 5'8"/174 (medium female height): Indifferent; not a pro nor con.

- 5'9"/175 to 6'0"/183 cm (tall): A benefit/perk/bonus positive.

- 6'1"/185 to 6'5"/196 cm (very tall): A turn-on/legitimately hot/sexy AF!

Michaela: 6'2"/188 cm with 6'4"/193 cm sisters and 5'7"/170 cm cousin

Stephanie: 6'5"/195 cm, next to a 5'9"/176 cm man.

WEIGHT/BODY TYPE

- Size 13 or thinner (Average to skinny): I'm less attracted to skinny women. Honestly, I mostly don't want a skinny girl, but I wouldn't reject one just for that.

- Size 14 to 17 (plus-sized/curvy): I'm okay with this; as long as she still has curves, she's fine.

- Size 18 to 20 (voluptuous): Ideal zone for me.

- Size 21 to 23 (Full figured): Ideal zone for me.

- Size 24 to 26 (BBW): I would not be opposed to a legitimate "fat girl" like this.

- Size 26 and up (SSBBW): Sometimes a bit too much for me, but still preferred over too skinny.

Hailey, a Size 16

Havana, a size 18

Lauren, a size 22

[ChiTown33]

Yes and no. I will not date any woman that tells me she won't date a guy under 6 feet most likely. I'm 6'5" and it offends me when a woman closer to 6 feet wants to date me because of my height (think about it, how would you feel if a guy had a D cup requirement for women? It's no different). I know some women have height insecurity and while I'm sorry for them that's something they're just going to have to workout on their own. While I've been attracted to women as short as 4'11 or as tall as 6'8" I don't have a height "type".

Now the weight subject I understand a little better but I don't get fully either. I think women are far too obsessed with weight. I get this, magazines and pop culture all tell you you women have to be 100 lbs. But that's silly! For one thing a woman who's 5' and a woman 5'11 of a similar build won't weigh remotely the same. I don't know if I have a weight requirement as women seldom tell you what they weigh😆.

I will say this the heaviest woman I've been attracted to (WHOSE WEIGHT I KNEW, cause she told me) weighed 225lbs. Suffice it to say I've been attracted to thin as well as thick. I just want us both to be healthy and happy.

[MCheetah]

"I will not date any woman that tells me she won't date a guy under 6 feet most likely. I'm 6'5" and it offends me when a woman closer to 6 feet wants to date me because of my height."

You're one of the good ones. You have any idea how many guys will sh*t on other men just because a woman is shallow. "I only date guys six feet and up" while she's 5'3". A guy speaks up about it. A tall simp goes "Never mind him. I'm 6'2, LOL! Hello gorgeous!"

I can tell you're a "Bros before Hoes" type.

[ChiTown33]

@MCheetah not every girl has to be attracted to you. Just the right one.
Remember that. Guys are going to be guys, but a good product sells itself. You just be the best you you can be. It's OK to be disappointed but don't let any of this make you bitter.
I fully admit I'm a little closed off. But I try not to let any of this stuff make me bitter.

[MCheetah]

Good advice. I'm definitely TRYING not to be!

[ChiTown33]

@MCheetah 🙂👍💯

[ObscuredBeyond]

A little plump, I can tolerate. Just no beached whales. And preferably, I'd like it that she not look like Gollum either. 5'4" is ideal to me, but I can negotiate. I'm not going to tell a girl to set sail because she's an inch taller than I prefer, or ten pounds heavier.

Now, if she's a complete woke lunatic, then that's a hard no; even if she meets my every physical preference. And if she's that, plus has the blue or green hair thing going? Then I'm gonna peace out. I'm not gonna screw a giant parrot, no matter how trendy it is!

[Pinay_ako]

I had green or blue hair once or twice in uni. 🤣

[ObscuredBeyond]

Fair, but you're not Perez Hilton either. Your brain still functions. I'm talking about the mobs that lurk on Twitter and get jobs at Netflix. The kind that think literally everything is istophobic somehow. The kind that jump on buses and burn Kenosha to the ground for no reason, then mock the victims of their arson for not magically being able to get better insurance to make all the problems associated with arson go away instantly.

That's what I mean by the Technicolor hair mob. Yes, some women experiment with dyes. I'm talking those who make it their goal to go as unnatural as possible, to make their hair into a political statement, and then use that statement as an excuse for behaving in ways that are genuinely indefensible.

An otherwise normal girl with strange hair, I can forgive. But if she has the coherence of a video game enemy NPC, I'll be more inclined to treat her like one.

I have full faith you're not joining some mob and burning down a 7 Eleven for no reason any time soon. :-)

It's odd: back in the 90s, such antics were the sorts of things middle schoolers joked about. Today, for some towns, such madness can be hair triggered faster than a forest wildfire. Like in NYC, where riots broke out because one woman didn't understand that adding chili to her hot dog cost extra. Even though there were signs up saying so!

You and me, and some beachfront by a lighthouse. Watch the seagulls, enjoy life. Let everyone else turn their hometowns into a real life Batman Arkham game, as long as you and I can find refuge.

[Novacane]

I would say that I personally do not care about height, she can be short or tall it doesn't matter. Now, weight-wise might be a little different, I dont care about a specific weight as long as they are not on the extreme sizes like obese or anorexic. I also go to the gym every day, now that doesn't mean they have to gym every day but at least find value in going to the gym and have the motivation to change, because if I have someone who doesn't go to the gym they will start to pull me away from going to the gym often because they will want to do other stuff and they will get disappointed when I dont accept that.

[Lliam]

I'm 6'2 and always had a preference for girls of average height (5'4) or shorter. I also preferred fit and slender but not skinny. Normal measurements like 32", 23", 34".
30B or 28D depending on the bra fitting. Maybe 120 lbs. I like women who are soft and have nice figures.

I don't care for thicc figures at all.

Having said all that, I'm not stuck on that preference. I love girls who are shorter than average, and I wouldn't hesitate to date a girl who was 5"10". Compared to other things, height really isn't very important.

I don't know much about weight. It doesn't matter to me as long as she looks good for her height. I am pretty picky about girl's figures.

[BlueStripedSoul]

Nope, not at all. I actually have a very wide range of body types, features and overall looks that I find attractive, and they are not in competition with each other. That might be a hard concept for some people to understand/believe, but that's just the way I've always been.

I know it sounds clichéd, but for me, beauty really does come in all shapes and sizes. Besides, true love isn't a dress size or a number on a scale. No matter what end of the spectrum. There's more to beauty and attraction than just what's on the outside. Ultimately, for me, it comes down to they type of person she is and the quality, and character of her soul. That's what attracts me most. 💙

[DaveJord]

No the height and weight is not that important as long as she has body symmetry... meaning that everything according to her size is in portions. Does she has a defined waist line, is her ass and tits in portions with each other?

Mean I don't like skinny assed size 4 women with these Triple Double D sized tits hanging off this little tiny narrow body. And I do not like these 18 plus sized women with no tits, or stomach rolls were her waist should be either.

So my ex wife was a size 18, with full C cups and a flat stomach and waist high waist... she was 140 lbs when we met and 200 lbs when we divorced. But the symmetry stayed the same... as she put on weight she got a little wider, the tits got a little bigger and the ass held up nicely. But she was 5'9, with a tall lean or long type frame.

So it all depends on the body type not the weight or height.

I mean if your 5'4 and you weight 200 lbs then its not good. Neither is 5'9 at 100 lbs.

[Sixgunsound]

I’m significantly more interested in who someone’s going to be throughout life than what they look like in their 20s and 30s. Beauty fades but personality is constant. In the interest of fairness if I’m not attracted to someone at all that isn’t a fake it till you make it kind of situation, but I can work around a lot physically that I can’t work with mentally.

[Ευδεμονια]

I think honestly, since I’m short, I Have height requirements… since I’m 5’7, I’d accept any girl only from 5’7 going down, because I have to fight my inferiority complex 🙈


As weight, I’d like more a normal healthy range of weight.. not an anorexic but not an obese people is ok. It’s ok to have some kg in excess, I’m not a radical for diets or fitness, as long as it doesn’t go through obesity.

[Sleevey]

Yes. Men are physically attracted to women, it’s 200,000 years of built in vetting that men find symmetry, face and body. And many other physical indicators for a health fertile women for procreation. To big or to smallare both negative indicators of possible fertility and ability to raise young. It sounds very cold, but it’s reality. Many such indicators are not even consciously assessed.

[AlphaMale1]

Slender women who are around 5 feet tall with dark hair are my weakness. Breast size doesn't matter. She must be attractive, at least to me and have a positive attitude. I can deal with most everything else if she fits this description.

[Pinay_ako]

So 4’11 is a no?

[AlphaMale1]

4'11 is better than 5'1 in my eyes. And I have no idea why lol If you are 4'11 you would definitely catch my interest and if I caught your interest I would be eager to meet you.

[Pinay_ako]

Bro you just described me Jk 😝

[AlphaMale1]

What part of Canada are you from? The people of Canada are friendlier than Americans. I choose the friendlier. However, I am unvaxxed and your commy Prime Minister will not let me cross the border until I have the poison injected in me. I live in Michigan so Canada is a short drive from here. My jeep would love to explore the hills, mountains and logging roads that your country is blessed with.

[Bricealan]

To some degree, yes. I am a 'small' guy based on my height/weight. I am 5'8" and weight around 135 Lbs. My current girlfriend is about 5'5" and is about 105.

Prior to that and when I was younger, in my 20's, I did not really care, although I was a bit heavier. (150). I have dated women who were taller/heavier than I AND if they did not care, neither did I.

[GingerGuy]

No not really. Like everyone else I have a general preference, but unlike for many women when it comes to this (especially height), it's never a "deal breaker". It's just a preference. I can be attracted (and have been) to all shapes and sizes, just depends on the woman. More than physical appearance that makes her attractive also (like you with guys, personality matters).

[HighValue]

4' 9" to 5' 10"

Weight differs based on if she is athletic or not and her height so I go by build instead.

Petite (skinny), athletic, slim, normal in that order of preference.

The tall ones (5' 8" and up) need to be athletic most of the time for their build to be attractive to me, but the short ones (5' 4" and under) can either be skinny and petite or athletic and still look good both ways.

[qwert1234]

Requirement? no.

Preference? yes.

All my ex's are smaller than me, tallest being a tad smaller than me.

I have not dated fat to obese ones. Some got fat during the course of the relationship, but never started with either.

[andreasderjuengere]

I must admit that girls who are taller than me are somewhere on the

''this-one-is for-others'' list.

I might find her attractive anyway - but without further own ''intentions''.

I'm very aware how stupid this is in general. But then: no one gets hurt :)

[andreasderjuengere]

Oh! I forgot the weight detail: If she's heavier than me, than chances are good that I'll ignore her as a sexual partner entirely.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Height : 5” or taller but ideally 5’7
Weight: under 250

[Pinay_ako]

So no 4’11s or over 250 lbs

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Hmm there might be wiggle room on the weight but no on the height 🤣

[Pinay_ako]

😔 ok 👌

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Aww sorry if I offended you. I used to date plenty of women close to 5’2 or 5’ until I met taller women. It’s just easier and convenient to me.

[Pinay_ako]

Nah I’m not offended 🤣 np

[Johnagain]

Weight; no more than 125 lbs. no less than 95.

Height; no more than 6', 2" no less than 5', 7"

Now the height is just because of awkwardness when dancing, driving the same car, in bed, (sometimes) and reaching for things on the top shelves. Otherwise, I find myself attracted to hot girls no matter what their height. Being with them as a partner, is another thing to consider.

[Freyke]

I do. I am not attracted to women who are severely overweight or underweight. So being in the middle is what you could say is a requirement.

When we speak about height it's more a preference. I prefer tall women, but you don't have to be tall to be considered attractive. But my mind won't look at you in a romantic/sexual way until you flirt with me.