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Why can't guys get laid in 2022? Are dating apps and social media to blame? (Page 2)
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Because of social media and feminism women put themselves first and business before family they rather be single and make their own money taking advantage of male biological need to reproduce (OF) society sells sex to young men and it has stunted our growth we need to bring slut shaming back sluts deserve to be shamed the same woman that made her living off of being a sexual object will criticize all men when the quality of male dating options is severely lacking but it was okay for them to be simps and losers when they were living in their moms basement funding your lifestyle there already weren’t enough men to go around and the majority of the ones that are here don’t meet their standards it’s always this type of stuff that people say doesn’t hurt anybody if a woman is promiscuous in actuality it hurts everyone all of us as a whole if women didn’t think so little of average men there would be no mass shooting , bombings etc.
The process is basically a part-time job to just be seen as an option to women and try to make it work. Also, keep trying and keep trying because all effort might go to shit if I get ghosted. That's what dating apps make the process look like. At some point, perseverance becomes stupidity.
Twenty years ago I gave up trying to date, just date not even "get laid" as I wasn't looking for casual sex, which in hindsight would have been easier to get then actually having a relationship.
It's the good men looking for relationships that are having trouble, if you want to get laid just be tall, attractive and treat women like crap, you'll do fine.
Because men are easy so its not hard to find a friends with benefits when you need one. I say friends with benefits because ill keep one partner for 6+ months, Im monogamous.
Also ill add that if a guy is too uptight about limiting interactions to 10pm in his bedroom, he's not exciting to hangout with. So leaving out the friend in friends with benefits gets stale too. I prefer a guy where we can still have a good time together as friends.
"monogamous" lol
@Jamie05rhs monogamous means only having relations with one person at a time. If you struggle to be monogamous yourself, i can understand why its hard for you to believe that others can't.
@mermaidcancermoon Oh, I am completely monogamous.
And relax; I was just giving you a hard time. Lol
A generation of guys raised to give women what they say they want are undesirable to women because women don't actually know what they want or they lie about it.
This is why traditional guys tell young guys to stop worrying about what women want.
What do you mean can't. If all you want is sex it's easier then ever. Just use one of all the new harlots out there that believe it's liberating. So the only reason they don't get sex is because they want something better and it's not available. Finding a woman worthy of a relationship is certainly harder than ever and dating apps and social media certainly is to blame, and women seem to fall victim for it more than men.
well, reading the replies on here has made me uncomfortable. thanks a lot. 🤣
But I blame any and all problems between the sexes on social media directly, yep. People are losing the ability to talk to each other as normal humans.
"I just posted a video of myself doing the newest (stupidest) tiktok dance, and not one hot guy has contacted me for a good pipe laying session. Why are guys so lame?"
"Omg what a bitch! I spent hours liking all her pics she's ever posted, and she won't even DM me. How hard I gotta work for that kitty?"
Those, sadly, are actions and thought processes of guys and girls today.
It's my professional opinion that guys have a lot better chance of getting laid if the girl sees them in person, and not in a "shopping list" of other guys where she can just swipe and compare everything based on photos.
Nah, I mean all dating apps do is distract you from real life, but if you get off of them, there's an entire real world out there.. Guys are not getting laid because nobody is giving them the confidence to go out and have conversations with real women.. People are completely misleading guys and p0rn is also to thank for that.. Add p0rn, and people becoming more asocial because of being on the net too much and here you have a human connection problem.. Mainly with us younger folks..
A better question is, is getting laid in 2022 worth the fucking hassle. More and more men are saying no
Ohhhh good point
for the same reasons they could "not get laid" in 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, 2017... lol
I don't get into social media very much, & don't do online dating where I'm the one at a disadvantage. I ask them in person. I stopped doing this over time as I was mostly used for validation, now I'm much more subtle. I don't invest anymore than she's willing to. If some woman want to treat my love, heart, soul & commitment like some kind of game well, let's just say that's never worked:p
Men such as myself don't waste their time with these bitches. I don't get laid by choice because frankly I have better things to do like run a multiple million dollar company. I pay for no strings attached sex from legal hookers when I go on vacation. Hookers, so I don't get METOO'ed by a regular woman.
😂😂 This is funny but it's true
He says, from his mom's basement
@SlowPitchG Whatever I don't need to prove myself to you. I left my families house long time ago... but believe what you want. Not every is a broke bum like you.
Because women have many options and men think only on sex. They don’t try to understand us or know women as a human being! In the end it is easy to be single for women because if the only thing a men can bring now a days is sex we have machines for that 😂. Sorry for the honesty! But if men don’t even want to know us as a friend of as a person what is the point!
Actually a lot of men do want to get know women as human being. You want to know how that often works out for many guys nowadays? Take a guess what happens.
Explain please!
Women get bored and it kills the mystery. They friendzone.
Now do all women do that? No. But too many do. I’ve seen happen multiple times in my life. I actually put the effort in to do exactly what you said above. It’s a big time, effort and heart investment. A woman thinks that she giving me some sort of bullshit consolation prize by asking me to “just be friends”. It’s actually the most insulting thing she can possibly say.
Yes it’s not all about sex. But sex is a mandatory part of it. Without it than no hetero man who has a pulse will ever ultimately romantically content. Yes some women can survive on only getting “attention” but men can’t.
Women just don’t love or are attracted to the guys they friendzone! Men see that they friendzone them and think eventually she will give a chance or he will think try harder. Then if a women is interested in a guy and is frontal about it he doesn’t like it because it is way to easy!🤦♀️
No I have heard women admit they have always briefly considered dating the guy they friendzoned. It might of been for 5 minute or it could of been 5 years. But it’s usually due to the guys action or inactions that lead to her to reject him as a romantic partner. This can include him being “too shy” and not making a move.
But one thing is for certain they know the guy is interested and they don’t want the attention to go away. It boosts their ego. Some women have the class to speak up right when they come to this decision. But many others play games, play dumb and string a guy along.
It’s not fun telling someone you don’t feel physically attracted to them. I had to (tactfully) tell a few women in my life I wasn’t romantically interested. In fact I just had to tell a long time friends with benefits this last week. I respect her deeply as a friend but I don’t want to do it anymore. At least she knows where I stand.
Largely, I know some people also blame feminism, in particular the second, third, and fourth waves. That has been around for decades, but there is truth in it. The social media stuff is more recent and it has accelerated the gap between the sexes even more.
I think another side-effect is that modern-day single women are jaded by a few guys and choosing to opt out of relationships with men more out of their own volition.
As for me I AGREE as well as DISAGREE & nowadays it’s like there is some major TACO BLOCKING going on but on the other hand there are a lot of COCKAHOLICS out there as well. If you want easy cum easy go hump your fist dude.
Because the number of marriages in our country are rapidly dropping, while the population continues to increase. And obviously married men in general get more frequent sex then single men.
They are lazy and don't wanna compete or settle for the left over women.
They are beta or incels.
They fear chad and Tyrone taking there women and wanna be chad.
While they are fat, or skinny or broke, or weird with no communication skills.
There has been studies about Incel nation. They found that guys who have success with women can't begin to understand men who are not successful. They easily pass it off as a problem with the guy not being good enough.
When in reality it's women gating. Filtering for the best guys and ignoring the ones who are not the best. And that ignored group is around 60-80% of men, as not all guys are 6 feet tall, good build, great job and car. Many come up short and are ignored, even by ugly girls.
Women are pickier and more shallow, and so many are part of a hive mind that are terrible and have horrible personalities and many men realize this, not to say men haven't gotten worse either because they have, but yeah it's also due to not having social skills because of online, the average man is wasting his time on dating apps, for one because that's where the worst kind of women reside, it's better to just look around locally and hope you can find a girl with similiaries
Men are waking up. We don't care much for getting laid. We've been programmed to believe that we are sex craved... Most men I know are the victims of their female partners sexual activities whether on them or on others.
Well before women have their pick of the guys in their local area. Now they have the pick of the entire world with an army of simps inflating their egos.
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