Why can't guys get laid in 2022? Are dating apps and social media to blame?

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Weapon77 · Accepted Answer

To answer the 1st question, they definitely can, but there are several complicating factors. To answer the 2nd question, datung apps and social media are only partly to blame.

Our culture started changing right before when Seinfeld and Friends aired. Clearly, these shows didn't cause what happened, and social media and dating apps didn't exist then, so none of the above are to blame for it. These shows just observed and portrayed what was happening in our culture at the time.

Seinfeld even satirized what was happening--people were starting to get attention deficit, overly picky, and more focused on quantity over quality in their sexual lives. Seinfeld made fun of this in a few ways but one was how several of the main characters would breakup with someone they'd been dating over stupid reasons, or they would STAY with them just for sex or another ulterior motive despite having good reason to want to breakup.

Since then, we got progressively worse. Friends shows this trend in Joey since he often has one night stands and never calls the girls. It's not exactly evil, but it's a dick move. Some women would actually do simular things too.

Starting back then, our culture has slowly changed over the past few decades to have the following attitude: if your first couple attempts at love end with heartbreak, having sex with a new person ASAP is the best remedy (even though this is unhealthy since it doensn't allow proper grieving). Our culture has also progressively gotten more accepting of casual sex even though it's risky. I'm not saying only have sex in marriage, but havign sex with a different person every month or even more frequently is pushing what's reasonable.

It's not that hard to take a few months off from dating to recover from the last relationship, but our culture is obsessed with the idea of the REBOUND either as a way to avoid the pain of the breakup or to show the ex that they are replaceable. Neither allows proper healing, and neither is healthy.

And since people have become so nonchalant about playing other people to feel better about themselves and their own feelings, they are more willing to ghost or cheat or break trust when they realize they've made a mistake. We're left with far too many guys and girls blaming an entire sex for what a handful of people did to them, so they act out, usually by trying to play everyone they date or go out with. It's become about "winning" the game instead of finding connection, which is depressing.

We're also left with millions of guys and girls who have body counts so high that any future partners who might fall in love with them are often either yurned off by the high number or fear they will cheat on them. And others still think people with high body counts are only good for sexual exploitation and take advantage of their emotions.

So many young people now only find personal value in whoever they are dating, how successful and experienced they've been sexually, and "clout" from social media. We end up having 80% of women hooking up with the top 20% of guys because the top 20% of men usually use the middle 60% of women as hookups in between their actual relationships with the top 20% of girls. The middle 60% of girls think this means they deserve the caliber of the top 20% of men (not realizing they're just being used), and end up ignoring or turning down the middle 20% of guys for the most part. This makes average guys mad, so they often end up giving up on relationships and just do hookups. This leads to the middle 60% of girls eventually getting tired of not having a relationship and trying to settle down, not realizing that their high body counts and/or several kids by other men makes the middle 60% of guys see them as only good for sex. It's a terrible, knotted web leads to awful cycles.

Obviously, this is not 100% of what's happening. There are plenty of exceptions. But this is the general trend.

Lookingforthetruth · Accepted Answer

So the question becomes why can't men in 2022 can't get laid? Well the reason for that is multifactorial.

1. Women are opting not to look for LTR with a guy comparable with them. Instead, many women prefer to be part of a harem for a desirable male and desperately tries to use sex and sexual availability/openness to convince said male to partake in a LTR for them; this is the female version of the friendzone.

2. Simp culture and men promoting it has also ruined it for men. Too many men feel the need to post some horny comment online whenever it concerns a woman and instead of being shamed for it, they are encourage by other men. It's this need that men have to worship women is what has lead to many average girls making bank on sites such as twitch, onlyfans, instagram etc.

3. Social media. Many women get blasted on their online profile by men and women all telling her how perfect she is and how she deserve the best. If we also factor in that desirable males are willing to sleep with less attractive women for easy sex then its quite easy to see why so many of these women think they are more attractive than they actual are. Hypergamy being a thing associated with women, and it is quite easy to see why girls who are 5/10 are scoffing at the thought of dating another 5. Hell, Kevin Samuel use to have some really ugly women on there who actual thought they above average.

4. Men aren't graduating college as much as women and don't have access to the desirable, high paying jobs for women to consider fucking them. While this comment make women sound like prostitutes, we have to realize that relationships (even romantic ones) are all transactional and sadly for men, women aren't that physically attracted to most average guys. Men often need to bring status and money into relationships for women to consider them for LTR options. It's for this reason that men who put in the work in their 20's often have higher dating power in their 30's.

This opinion is corroborated further when we look at past sexual studies like tinder/okcupid where women found the vast majority of males physically unattractive. In the 2018 study on sexual activity of men/women between the ages 18-44, it was found that 1 in 3 men below age 30 are considered sexless with researchers actual hypothesizing the lower college turnout for men being a factor.

5. Covid-19 restrictions. Many men tend to do better with getting women when they actually talk to them in real world. The problem is that due to covid this avenue is stifled and men must now compete online with a bunch of other thirsty guys to try and win a female over.

6. MGTOW/black and redpill philosophy. Many men are reading, observing or hearing of the horror stories that happen when you actually do manage to get into LTR with todays modern women and are choosing to opt out of the rate race of having to chase them to win their affection. Instead, these men will allocate their energy towards things they like and use porn and escorts to release their sexual tension.

7. Lack of physical fitness. A lot of men aren't masculine in personality and/or physically. Too many men let women walk all over them and try to be her ally both online and in person. In addition, a lot of guys choose not to go to the gym and are either scrawny, skinny fat or obese.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

I would say dating app are a bit to blame since you can put all your criteria as much as you want and it would filter everything so if majority of women are into men with dark eyes, blue eyes over 6 ft then the others guys would have a lot less chance of getting message or anything really while this filter things is just the first step, most get wiped out just in the first step so yes it make it harder to date if you aren't in the standard of beauty.

Then there's pics so those that don't know how to take one also is disavantaged and then there's the conversation part if you'e bad then next and if you're good you still have the date to go well with lots of different rules for different people

You also need some money (to be able to afford a car or an uber and to at least pay for you part in the date though for most women the first date must be paid by the man so if you end up having lots of first date and not lots of second date it's gonna be extremely expensive in the long run).

SO yes dating app is not the best and the date part like American does isn't really that great of a system either (in france is it weirder though cause if you're friendless you have zero chance to get a partner since people only go out within their friends circle like 90 % of the time or their coworker).

Smashingdoozy · Accepted Answer

A conversation I had on a dating app.

Guy: "hello how are you?"
Me: "heya, I'm pretty good, how about yourself?"
Guy: "yeah great"
*Lists 10 questions which I answer*
Guy: "cool so what are you looking for exactly?"
Me: "long term dating or friendship whichever works out best"
Him: "oh I'm just looking to hook up, wanna?"
Me: " No thanks I'm not interested in that, you should really change your profile to say that, wouldn't have swiped right if I knew that"
Him: "you're ugly as fuck anyway"

🙃

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I feel like if a guy can't get laid, then it's nobody's fault buy his own.

All these "incels" making excuses, blaming women, society, technology, whatever; and it's usually because they have no conversational skills, no confidence, or don't work on their own appearances.

They don't want to take responsibility for themselves, so they blame something, or someone, else. Well, fine, they can do that if they want to, but then nothing's gonna change. It's entitlement, really. They feel like they are "owed" sex, but for what?

What have they done to deserve sex? What do they bring to the table? What do they have, looks or personality, that would set them apart from some other guy? Why should a woman even give them a second glance?

Do something to be worth sex, rather than blaming othere, because you're not appealing to them. How is that anyone's fault, but your own?

If a 500 lb woman, who smells like feet, and doesn't talk to anyone, were to bitch about being a virgin, then nearly every single guy who whines about not getting laid would tell her it's cause she's fat, ugly, and shy. Essentially, it's her fault that guys aren't attracted to her.

Well... it kinda goes both ways, sorry.

Finchie40 · Answer

I can’t say guys aren’t getting laid but I can definitely say that I feel that social media destroyed a lot of things in the dating and relationship world , if people actually put their phones down and looked at the world around them then they will eventually realize that social media is a bunch of fake garbage , Social media was designed as a money making tool to brainwash people into believing a lot of things to sell and make money , Lawyers and divorce attorneys want people to get divorced cuz it makes them money going to court etc. Why so many relationships don’t make it these days because apparently everyone is a cheater , everyone is a narcissist etc. The only way you can look good is if you wear this , or look like this , or you wear this , All girls are selfish sluts and all guys just think with their dicks , If people actually put their phones down and stopped secretly flirting with people behind their partners back they will realize how much of a moron they really are , Most people can’t accept the fact that they are wrong , it’s always someone else’s fault , Stop comparing your life to others and don’t feed into shit you see on social media because 95 percent of it is garbage, if you suspect your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you let her go , all we can do as humans is value our own self worth and surround ourselves with people that bring positiveness in our lives , This country is hell in a hand basket from all the dumb shit we are living with and it’s sad to see us people fall into this shit I can honestly say a lot of relationships are doomed unless people put their fucking phones down and focus on their partners instead of focusing on garbage they see on social media , if you are in a relationship with someone fix it don’t throw it away for nonsense

raqui · Answer

Guys can get laid. Girls can get "laid". Though it shouldn't be focused on so much.

I will say this. If you're my age (19- 24) and in school guys nowadays lack chivalry and/or masculinity in general. Girls are more promiscuous and/or act like lesbians. Yeah I wouldn't have sex with those people either. An endless cycle of why people should stop being on social media so much. But, give it 3-10ish years before my peers realize having sex isn't that important. We're not animals so stop acting like it. cheers 🥂☺️

Anonymous · Answer

not necessary , i feel like this has been building for a long time , more of a combination of societal changes and cultural differences. things just aren't what they used to be decades ago and most guys there dating prospects have gone down significantly , like to be marriage material now would be incredibly different than what that meant in the 1940's or 50's

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Personally, it’s the not going out and actually socialising and learning to talk to people, never mind girls, just actually socialising with people.

Then there is this thing with dating apps where they are not dating apps, they are for hooking up.

i am fairly shit trying to chat on Apps and social media.

It removes the real me, you can really let your personality, your charm, your ability to flirt with your eyes, body, sense of humour etc really come out on social media.

It really is not hard meeting people in the real world, chatting to them and arranging a day or night out, just don’t rush the sex and don’t ask stupid fucking question like how much do you earn 🤦🤦

Qdbrown · Answer

Dating apps and social media is what is knocking so many guys out of dating or even hooking up.

Women gate on these apps. They filter out guys who don't have social proof. They can go over your content and number of likes.

They go over your dating profile and they are looking for tale-tell signs of what they are looking for. They want to see successful looking men, wearing successful looking clothes with hints of success sprinkled in pictures and the about me portioms of the profile.

The phenomna is so bad, that even fat ugly girls avoid the same guys who are not Mr. Right. Back in the day there was someone for everyone. Not anymore. A woman will go without or will take bad boyfriends that look good on paper to find success.

Lionman95 · Answer

I think many guys are way too focused on sex and less focused improving themselves.

Like get some manners, have a good style of clothes, work out and learn how to communicate with women. Sure there are always women that ask a lot of you without wanting to invest themselves so avoid them. As a man you don´t have to get along with every girl coming around that feels entitled to your stuff just because she looks good.

Also have a different focus and maybe abstain from porn for some time and sex gets to be less the issue of your life.

I feel like if you put so much emphasize on what you don´t have you just increase your misery and will never be happy.

by the way I have never had sex and still have a good life with a nice circle of friends and a positive mindset.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

That’s a complex issue. I couldn’t do it justice if i tried. Instead, i’ll refer you to my #1 choice content creator on contemporary male-female relations.
His name is Alexander Grace and this general topic is his field of study and life’s work. It’s all he does, to my knowledge, and he always produces evidence to support his assertions. He’s educated and informed, not just a talking head.

https://youtu.be/xm4pEzkAgYw

He has dozens of videos available, maybe hundreds. Some of his videos can be hard to watch because sometimes the truth really is uncomfortable. But he’s as real as it gets. I think everyone should sample his content.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Porn is to blame. Guys don't make as much effort anymore because they are scared of real women. Women in porn don't regret the male and hurt his ego or make up false claims about him. Porn is like a comfort zone for men who are less confident. It's like getting sex like it's uber eats or something and they didn't have to go out into the big nasty scary world for it and they can have anyone women they like the looks of without having form a relationship first.

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

Dating apps can't be entirely to blame, the guys (and girls) on there have to accept their own fate if they are going to message people with such forward, crude and in some cases down right disturbing opening lines.

The most obscene opening line I have received was from a guy who rather than your usual hi , hello or how are you instead sent "do you fancy a three way with me and my pitbull" to make it all the more disturbing he actually had a pitbull with him in his profile picture.

If guys (and girls) actually took the time to not only write their bios but also read the bios of other profiles rather than just swiping after looking at the photos maybe there would be a better chance of success, however as it is the whole modern day dating scene is just too vanity based with people who move on if something prettier catches their eye.

RavVid · Answer

Mating has always been a competitive business and I think we have to say that dating apps have taken that up a few notches.

There is quite good statistical evidence that girls want guys well over the average male height and are not that willing to compromise on that requirement. Which is bad news for average guys.

Not so sure it is just girls being demanding. There is also a lot of evidence guys prefer girls between 20 and 25.

Overall I'm pretty sure 90% of the population want to fuck 10% of the population and always have. Dating apps have increased the size of the pool way beyond that of the local bar so opportunities, expectations, and hopes have correspondingly amped up.

It is a firm yes on dating apps.

Avicenna · Answer

Thinking back to my teenage and young adult years, there were a number of guys that would now be termed incels and/or orbiters, so that is nothing new. That said, apps have given you some access to a larger number of people to go on dates with and have sex with, so that's bound to have some effect, although it's somewhat exaggerated.

Attractive men may go through periods of life in which they try to have sex with as many women as they can, but that gets old after awhile, you develop a bad rep, and there are lots of women you might have sex with but it's definitely not worth the risk of getting them pregnant or dealing with their foibles or problems. Attractive guys have access to women that they do want a long term relationship with, so that's usually what they end up doing.

KatherineJ · Answer

I think because both guys and girls have gotten too dependent on everything being at our fingertips by cell phone/tablet/computer. A lot of us shop online. A lot of us have been working from home since the pandemic. And let’s face it, a lot of us have gotten too lazy to go out. And then you add dating websites. None of those things are helpful in really meeting and getting to know someone.

Xrynx · Answer

People put to much focus onto sex. As much as sex is important and Pleasurable, too many men (particularly) focus on getting laid.

Women are aware of this fact and many guys come off as to needy and perverted.

Many reasons people are not interested is because these things are so common and social media makes things easier for things like sex and lusting after women. People are to eqsily caught up in the reward and punishment cycle of going after sex and getting rejected and hooked on the temporary stimulation of the flesh rather than self improvement.

Anonymous · Answer

ROFL. I stopped by a pharmacy on the way home to say hello to a friend (the owner).

As I am walking a guy comes charging out of an aisle, looks right at me, and proceeds to cut me off. A REAL man would've paused and let me go ahead. It's called manners.

Most, not all but a large majority, of men around my age wouldn't know manners if hit in the face with a dictionary. They're oftentimes ignorant, etc. and generally undesirable.

That is why they typically can only land prostitute wannabes.

lilyanony1 · Answer

I don't go on these apps to hook up.
The guy I'm seeing sad that he slept with someone 2weeks ago.
That's fine, maybe he can call her again.
As for me I'm not interested In being the person to satisfy those needs.
I want a partner so we can date the old school way or you can find your fillable hole!

Danny_dan92 · Answer

My perspective on this, is cause comparing today’s society vs. back then.

Is you could have a woman who is highly desirable today and with the technology of smart phones their apps etc. she knows all the men in her area that are DTF all at the press of a button.

Where as back in the day before smart phones, most women pretty much lived in a bubble. The chances of them coming across a man they deem better than their s/o was significantly less than today’s world. Thus making today much more likely for women to either cheat on the guy they’re dating or outright leave him for another man.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s complicated. Truth is I think a lot of guys have just given up. Unless your in the top 1% it takes so much effort for such little reward.

The hypergamy bullshit is very real by the way I was briefly in the top tier in my late 20s and early 30s I would say top 1% but definitely top 3% For a while I was getting more ass than a toilet seat. But a few things changed when I got in my mid 30s. Besides getting older I just fed up the whole “game” in general. I also noticed some women in their 30s actually get WORSE with their fickle and flaky bs.

Anyway I did get laid last week when a long time friends with benefits happened to visit me from out of town. Good timing on my bday too. But before her it had been over a year which sucked but I have found there is more to life than “your number.”

Vegasrunner · Answer

Interesting question. in my opinion the 2022 part is unnecessary. Most men have struggled to get laid throughout the course of human history as women have always competed for the top 20% of men. The only difference now is because of social media and dating apps to provide data to validate these claims combined w/ growing online communities of young virgin men expressing their frustration. These men existed 20-30-40 etc years ago they just didn't have the same platforms to vent. Reality is getting laid isn't that hard as long as you get yourself in the top 10-20% and have some basic attraction skills. One other reason so many guys aren't gettong laid is because the majority of "dating" information strategy is skewed toward women. The actual dating strategies that work for men are usually met w/ shame, ignorance and vitriol.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I do better than any other man im personally aware of off apps. That being said, i hate apps. 99% of the women are rude asf. And even though i get matches i still get OF girls, obese girls, weird girls, old women. One girl literally opened me and said some shit like "bow before your queen, you loser" seriously wtf? Or i do get a lot of the attention whores we talk and flirt and it goes really well then they just stop and keep trying to get me to chase them ie double text or call multiple times... like please, im a grown man, you can return a call or text i got better women to talk to if you're like that.

But at the end of the day its worth it. I score off there a lot with little effort. Im emotionally hard so i dont get upset or offended by these nut jobs on here. Its literally a numbers game and a new girl will always come along. Lol.

Lickmymeet · Answer

Because of social media and feminism women put themselves first and business before family they rather be single and make their own money taking advantage of male biological need to reproduce (OF) society sells sex to young men and it has stunted our growth we need to bring slut shaming back sluts deserve to be shamed the same woman that made her living off of being a sexual object will criticize all men when the quality of male dating options is severely lacking but it was okay for them to be simps and losers when they were living in their moms basement funding your lifestyle there already weren’t enough men to go around and the majority of the ones that are here don’t meet their standards it’s always this type of stuff that people say doesn’t hurt anybody if a woman is promiscuous in actuality it hurts everyone all of us as a whole if women didn’t think so little of average men there would be no mass shooting , bombings etc.

jhl_x · Answer

The process is basically a part-time job to just be seen as an option to women and try to make it work. Also, keep trying and keep trying because all effort might go to shit if I get ghosted. That's what dating apps make the process look like. At some point, perseverance becomes stupidity.

Slartybartfast · Answer

Twenty years ago I gave up trying to date, just date not even "get laid" as I wasn't looking for casual sex, which in hindsight would have been easier to get then actually having a relationship.

It's the good men looking for relationships that are having trouble, if you want to get laid just be tall, attractive and treat women like crap, you'll do fine.

mermaidcancermoon · Answer

Because men are easy so its not hard to find a friends with benefits when you need one. I say friends with benefits because ill keep one partner for 6+ months, Im monogamous.

Also ill add that if a guy is too uptight about limiting interactions to 10pm in his bedroom, he's not exciting to hangout with. So leaving out the friend in friends with benefits gets stale too. I prefer a guy where we can still have a good time together as friends.

hahahmm · Answer

A generation of guys raised to give women what they say they want are undesirable to women because women don't actually know what they want or they lie about it.

This is why traditional guys tell young guys to stop worrying about what women want.

Adam1978 · Answer

What do you mean can't. If all you want is sex it's easier then ever. Just use one of all the new harlots out there that believe it's liberating. So the only reason they don't get sex is because they want something better and it's not available. Finding a woman worthy of a relationship is certainly harder than ever and dating apps and social media certainly is to blame, and women seem to fall victim for it more than men.

Anonymous · Answer

well, reading the replies on here has made me uncomfortable. thanks a lot. 🤣

But I blame any and all problems between the sexes on social media directly, yep. People are losing the ability to talk to each other as normal humans.

"I just posted a video of myself doing the newest (stupidest) tiktok dance, and not one hot guy has contacted me for a good pipe laying session. Why are guys so lame?"

"Omg what a bitch! I spent hours liking all her pics she's ever posted, and she won't even DM me. How hard I gotta work for that kitty?"

Those, sadly, are actions and thought processes of guys and girls today.

It's my professional opinion that guys have a lot better chance of getting laid if the girl sees them in person, and not in a "shopping list" of other guys where she can just swipe and compare everything based on photos.

JDavid25 · Answer

Nah, I mean all dating apps do is distract you from real life, but if you get off of them, there's an entire real world out there.. Guys are not getting laid because nobody is giving them the confidence to go out and have conversations with real women.. People are completely misleading guys and p0rn is also to thank for that.. Add p0rn, and people becoming more asocial because of being on the net too much and here you have a human connection problem.. Mainly with us younger folks..

captain_voidwalker · Answer

A better question is, is getting laid in 2022 worth the fucking hassle. More and more men are saying no

NathanDavis · Answer

for the same reasons they could "not get laid" in 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, 2017... lol

Adronicus · Answer

I don't get into social media very much, & don't do online dating where I'm the one at a disadvantage. I ask them in person. I stopped doing this over time as I was mostly used for validation, now I'm much more subtle. I don't invest anymore than she's willing to. If some woman want to treat my love, heart, soul & commitment like some kind of game well, let's just say that's never worked:p

Anonymous · Answer

Men such as myself don't waste their time with these bitches. I don't get laid by choice because frankly I have better things to do like run a multiple million dollar company. I pay for no strings attached sex from legal hookers when I go on vacation. Hookers, so I don't get METOO'ed by a regular woman.

kikissss · Answer

Because women have many options and men think only on sex. They don’t try to understand us or know women as a human being! In the end it is easy to be single for women because if the only thing a men can bring now a days is sex we have machines for that 😂. Sorry for the honesty! But if men don’t even want to know us as a friend of as a person what is the point!

KlinkyCoder · Answer

Largely, I know some people also blame feminism, in particular the second, third, and fourth waves. That has been around for decades, but there is truth in it. The social media stuff is more recent and it has accelerated the gap between the sexes even more.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for me I AGREE as well as DISAGREE & nowadays it’s like there is some major TACO BLOCKING going on but on the other hand there are a lot of COCKAHOLICS out there as well. If you want easy cum easy go hump your fist dude.

LazerBean · Answer

Because the number of marriages in our country are rapidly dropping, while the population continues to increase. And obviously married men in general get more frequent sex then single men.

Anonymous · Answer

They are lazy and don't wanna compete or settle for the left over women.

They are beta or incels.

They fear chad and Tyrone taking there women and wanna be chad.

While they are fat, or skinny or broke, or weird with no communication skills.

Slim57 · Answer

Women are pickier and more shallow, and so many are part of a hive mind that are terrible and have horrible personalities and many men realize this, not to say men haven't gotten worse either because they have, but yeah it's also due to not having social skills because of online, the average man is wasting his time on dating apps, for one because that's where the worst kind of women reside, it's better to just look around locally and hope you can find a girl with similiaries

Anonymous · Answer

People are having less sex in general. We have many forms of entertainment in our home. We don’t socialize or go out as much. Dating apps are dominated by hookup culture, and we all know women only go for the hottest guys. Even a 6 foot tall attractive man will get maybe 1 like a day and usually it’s from a butt ugly obese single mom. Call me an incel, I got laid a few days ago, as if it matters, what I’m saying is true.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are waking up. We don't care much for getting laid. We've been programmed to believe that we are sex craved... Most men I know are the victims of their female partners sexual activities whether on them or on others.

Juxtapose · Answer

Well before women have their pick of the guys in their local area. Now they have the pick of the entire world with an army of simps inflating their egos.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

For other guys I'd say either not enough patience, can't find a slut for them, keeps getting rejected, not boyfriend material, unattractive to most women, poor social skills, or can't find the one for him.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women are 'vaccinated' which is a serious risk of VAIDS. Many men don't even realize this, but in time they will and the amount of them having sex will drop even lower. Mostly risk with little reward...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I believe that the guys who WANT to get laid are getting laid. (Unless they're absolutely hideous with no social skills whatsoever.) It's those of us looking for relationships that are suffering.

grega239 · Answer

Dating apps are for women to get more attention. As for guys not getting laid in 2022? Man please, i wasn't getting laid before it was cool.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No boundaries.  Quick to want to have sex or just plain easy Not interesting  Unattractive Too much energy into finding a date Using dating apps

mobiusforniner · Answer

Because most guys aren't and won't ever be a chad thundercock.

EarthRealm · Answer

if you can’t get Laid then you should be asking yourself if your Fat ugly sound stupid or ignoring when you want.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

They can, but unless you're a chad dating apps are slow going. Better to get out into the real world.

TonightYouu · Answer

They don’t travel enough  Im not the best looking guy but the world is vast those little salmon need to leave their stream and explore the ocean

Anonymous · Answer

Many because those guys aren't attractive? Also I don't think when not having sex is the least of our problems.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because if they knock us up, we are screwed in a wholly different way. It's just an orgasm for you, it's life ruining for us.

Anonymous · Answer

Hmmm. . . do you believe guys can't get laid but women are getting laid? Do you think that maybe there could be a flaw in that reasoning somewhere?

Anonymous · Answer

Kind of. Only about 5% of women who claim to want a relationship online are actually putting forth effort to that end. Most women online really just want to complain.😆

Exterminatore · Answer

In a day and age where whoredom is celebrated as empowerment…. p*ssies never could get laid.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls are starting to like feminine men as they're becoming more liberal and real men don't want to date evil hellspawns, even if that means they spend their life single

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Any man can get laid  you can buy a woman for 50 bucks

Kinkyhair · Answer

Because women caught on and refuse to keep being used, women aren’t settling like they use too.

TheFlak38 · Answer

The sexual marketplace is rigged in favour of women.

moviedude714 · Answer

All of this technological stuff has made the competition more intense

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