Why do guys chase temporary girls?

[jennifer_bloom]

A guy from my church was interested and I turned him down and later ruined his reputation because he slandered me after I rejected him out of anger he spent his gas money giving me rides home and did not get rewarded with a relationship.

Later a guy interviewed him about it and found out he wanted to sleep with me for 2 weeks and break up but I wasn’t interested in even a date and he got angry at me for wasting his time and started trashing my reputation and dating and sleeping with other women.

Why do guys ruin girls lives for 2 weeks of experience? And I get treated like trash for rejecting him and not participating?

[Sixgunsound]

Because of the instant gratification society we live in. When parents grant their children’s every wish immediately they don’t learn impulse control or how to deal with disappointment. After childhood, those children whose desires were met instantly learn to expect their other, more adult desires to be met instantly by the next female caregiver in their life, whether girlfriend or wife. I guess there was a benefit to growing up with a single feminist mother who was angry she had boys and didn’t want to deal with it; we didn’t get the helicopter treatment that a daughter she actually cared about would have, and as a result he is a hospital board member under 40 years old and I am almost done with my professional teacher certification.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[Weapon77]

It's not an excuse but most guys like that were hurt by the first girl they truly cared for and decided that ALL females would only bring heartache if they were to try to have genuine relationships with them. That leads to those guys only seeking sex from women. It doesn't make it right, but it makes it understandable.

Then there are some guys who are just narcissistic and only care about what they want immediately. But this type is rarer than the first I mentioned

[Makeushiver]

I don't think that sexual pleasure is a quid pro quo for a long term relationship. Women should enjoy the physical pleasure at least as much as men. They are even anatomically designed for sexual pleasure more than men. Women are much more likely to have multiple orgasms for one. Secondly, the clitoris is the only organ with no other purpose than to receive pleasure in humans. The amount of nerve endings in the clitoris more than 10x than anywhere on a guys package. As soon as sex is used for any purpose other than enjoyment, if it's deemed a reward of any kind, it's not terribly different than prostitution.

[ethanallen]

Guys should not chase pussy at church. Church women have so many sexual dysfunctions that a normal relationship is impossible. The reason women go to church has nothing to do with God or Faith. They just use religion to manipulate men into becoming beta males. That is why no man should date or fuck a woman from church.

[Intothevoid666]

Because the sexual marketplace is stacked against men and so men have to offer something more important than sex such as a relationship in order to get sex from women. If a guy wants to start a serious relationship in this day and age and he wants someone with equal experience to him he likely has to lie a bit or omit the truth to get his body count up to the average women who delusionally has sex with men who are not interested in her thinking they are.

[slatyb]

Where do you live? This shit doesn’t happen in cities because no one cares. It can only happen in isolated communities like small towns and church congregations.

[jennifer_bloom]

It was a church and the guy had very few friends despite money and good looks, I’m assuming he was running from his past cause he did not seem to have old friends, 1/3 of all his contacts were people he knew less than 7 months while most people are still friends with people they knew from pre school.

[slatyb]

I don't see how he could "ruin your life". If the rest of the community is so ready to condemn a woman based on such reports, you are better off finding new friends.

[USLegionary]

He wanted sex and a relationship and was unable to handle rejection, some guys are like that. Women can be far worse when rejected, even going as far to make false rape allegation.

[tony_love_girls]

Because, Somebody can't manage girls over than a limit and that time he saw another girl she is cute then he will follow that girl.

In my society call that type boys "hen"

[rabbitzzz]

Why do guys ruin girls lives for 2 weeks of experience?

Because they can.

[zagor]

They're all temporary girls. Even if you're married 70 years it still eventually ends.

[isoterminal2060]

During the 80's and drugs I honestly couldn't answer you that.

[NishantPu]

Simple those guys are after sex not the attachment.

[Plinko]

Because he's been lied to about what makes a man.

[anylolone]

Same reason chicks do it.
Validation and the experience.

[Korra_mariee]

Because guys are dicks

[Sarahplus2]

Douche bag. Some guys don't like rejection.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Not everyone handles rejection as good

[Tigerbait6]

Sex.

[baserunner611]

What?