Ladies what make guy like me can switch from undateable to dateable?

[scott04sa22]

Of course you know I get rejected all the time because I don’t drive for right now. But I’m trying to find areas to improve my chances of getting a single date because i never dated anyone before.

*Here’s my list of things*

1. I need to lost the weight

2. Need to play basketball again

3. I don’t drive for right now but I might be able to get some assistance then getting help from family and friends

4. I’m losing my hair. sadly

5. I got crazy scars all over my body

6. I am seeing a on site therapist

7. My place is small for right now

8. I do need some dental work

9. I am a good cook

10. I lack on flirting skills

[CarolinaJones]

Having self-confidence! By looking for "flaws", you're lowering your self-confidence, which some women may find unattractive in guys.

Here's an article which may be useful:

Self-Confidence 101

[scott04sa22]

Always staying positive

[LazerBean]

Having good friends helps. If I saw a guy that was hot, but he had unsavory friends it immediately made him undatable. Likewise, guys with good friends was a good sign. If I think of anything else I will comment again, but that's all the comes to mind right off the bat.

[scott04sa22]

Keep me updated on this. I do have troubles making friends

[1GoldTwins]

You already are dateable but you're digging a hole for yourself, beating yourself up like this.

[scott04sa22]

The women in Indiana are very shallow. I’m 36 and never when out on date with anyone. I been constantly been rejected all the time. It’s sucks but that’s what it is

[1GoldTwins]

They can't be all the same! Worst case scenario you can always move somewhere else and start a new life, bit a extreme but if a relationship is very important to you, why not, right?

[scott04sa22]

My family is all over Indiana and Right now I’m working on a care i’m pursuing. Yes I’m one of those guys who gets rejected all the time. Even if I leave the state I’ll still get the same results. It has to do with luck

[1GoldTwins]

You say that, but you can't predict the future. But a mindset in the dumps may infuence your future for worse and that is a fact.

[scott04sa22]

Right now I’m working on a case and I can’t leave the state right now. Some of us guys like me would love to have hot and sexy girlfriends but it doesn’t work that way and it’s not like the movies. Again it’s suck to be rejected all the time but it’s life. It’s sucks and i’d hate say this but we have to deal with it 😠