Am I a dateable guy?

[LonelyTimes]

A little about me

• Turning 28 in a few months

• Never had a real girlfriend

• 5'6" tall

• Losing weight, but a little heavyset

• I am unemployed at the moment, but actively seeking a new software engineering job

• Christian
• On disability rn
• Had to move back home for the meantime
• Own a Class A RV
• On the Autistic Spectrum
• Struggle with mental health issues, especially depression and mood
• Talented software engineer
• Very kind and generous
• I admit I pick my nose and eat my boogers
• I am a shy guy
• Only had sex once in my life, 7 years ago.
• I like to eat at restaurants
• I have a criminal record for misdemeanor stalking and harassment that occurred in 2016

Yes

No

See results

Updates

+1 y

If no, why?

[Anonymous]

Everything was ok up until the “I eat my boogers part”, nose picking is totally fine but eating them… then continue reading down and it’s back to being ok until you hit us with the “criminal record for harassment and stalking” that’s a red flag if I ever see one.

[LonelyTimes]

It is a long story. I lost my virginity to a 16 year old girl when I was 20. She was supposedly a virgin too. She didn't want anything to do with me romantically after that. I made her mad one day, and she never wanted to talk to me again. 8 months later, I drove to her home state to bring her a cookie cake and ask her to her prom. Her dad answered and he had me arrested for "stalking" and "harassment".

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow, well I guess that’s a lesson learned then. Just no more eating your boogers though lol

[Blackcosmo]

You are. I read your story about the stalking and harassment and you weren't at fault. The only bad part is the picking nose and eating boogers! That's so unsanitary lol.

[LonelyTimes]

I so wish I could be your age again. I would do so many things differently. And if I was your age I could date girls your age too. It sucks to be older. Thank you for your kind words though.

[Blackcosmo]

Regrets suck but they're a natural part of life. Getting older brings so many more responsibilities so I hope I'll be ready for them. Happy to help!

[LonelyTimes]

Thank you! You said you had an older sis who never had a boyfriend before. That is awesome. I hope I can find a woman like her one day.

[Blackcosmo]

Yeah and her personality is amazing too. I also hope you find someone one day.

[Straight2thepoint]

Ohhhhh ummmmmm. U need to chill. Get some friends. Hangout at bars. U need to get out.

[Guy13]

Perhaps your Value lies somewhere else outside of looks and women.

[LonelyTimes]

Why do you say that? Lol

[kespethdude]

Careful, there are some Karens on this site who would balk at the 5'6" part.. If you see one, block and report her, do not engage.

[Pudsmucker]

You have a lot going for yourself.

[LonelyTimes]

Ughh... I wish. I am trying to get back on my feet again.

[LonelyTimes]

Oh, and the whole military thing, they won't accept me because I have mental illness.

[scott04sa22]

I stop dating at 36. Just too much drama

[LonelyTimes]

Yeah, I am wondering if I am getting to that point where I need to question whether it is worth trying anymore

[scott04sa22]

I talked with so many girls and they all turned out to be bad apples over the past 20 years. All they mostly want is friends with benefits of their choosing or one night stands.

[LonelyTimes]

Yeah I don't blame you. Women don't seem to be worth a damn nowadays.

[scott04sa22]

Just improve your life then maybe someone might come along