Girls, what steps can men take to become more dateable?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*Be real/not fake- don't try to hard to be what you "think" women want, be yourself...
*Don't Force the sex talk/sex too soon- show interest, show attraction, but also show your willing to take the time to really get to know her and go at a pace that's comfortable for both of you...
*Really communicate- don't just be an attentive listener, ass show you're willing to open up to her and share your interests, thoughts, etc
* Be open and honest- lies anyways ruin trust which ruin relationships, but to start with lies is even worse (in my opinion)
*Do the small things that show your interest and sincerity, finding out the things she likes, sharing the things you like, doing little things that show both thought and effort..
*Make getting to know them better a priority-if you make excuses, use the too busy excuse or they may think you're too busy to be in a relationship and have real time for them
*Don't be talking to/dating other females at the same time unless you're upfront/honest about it and they're okay with that- if you don't and they later find that out, that will most likely end things there

[Anonymous]

lookswise:
-get better hygiene if you don't already take care of yourself enough. most guys around my age at least litterally just brush their teeth & shower sloppily and don't even ness brush their hair... so if your someone like that please wash your face everyday with actual cleanser (not just water or hand soap), wear deodorant, floss, brush you hair, shower well, pretty please
-only wear clean clothes not shit you wore for 3 days in a row... no 'recycling' undies or whatever the fuck some of y'all do either
-pay more attention to your fits. like level up your style game a bit. also please iron your clothes if they wrinkly & use lint rollers if you got cat hair or a shitton of lint. don't wear clothes with stains on them...
- if your overweight, lose weight. underweight, gain weight. if you skinny or skinny fat (don't think people care that much though in gen) maybe get a little toned up

behavior:
-don't be gross. like don't eat sloppily, make everything messy, clean up after yourself
-don't be clingy, super needy or possessive
- try to be more spontaneous & adventurous

[jennifer_bloom]

Girls like being taken cared of and appreciated so if you tell inside jokes and smile a lot and show sympathy when she complains about something and show pity when she is sad and compliment her when she tries hard to do something she will like you more.

[Desconhecida]

to be honest I dont believe in this kind of stuff. Steps? Come on..

[Anonymous]

Being a self-sufficient adult, don't expect a girlfriend to cook and clean for you while managing your emotions for you and remembering all your family members' birthdays and all your appointments and reminding you.

It is uncommon to find a young man who dresses well and grooms himself well, is organized, and can cook and clean well. Is on time and considerate of other's time and energy. Too many young guys are happy to treat a romantic partner as a mommy. It's the worst and such a turn-off.

[MissDawn7961]

there R no steps that a man can take to do this ! however , he can make sure that when he is going to B around others that he - looks clean , smells good , has his hair combed , is nicely dressed , has good smelling breath - and looks like he is ready for a date at all times ! thanks

[psychoticanimallover]

What’s wrong with the cat picture? You saying he looks like a pussy?

Men can become more dateable by being more open-minded when it comes to public sex with strangers. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone up to a guy in public and asked if he’d like me to suck him off, only to have him give me a strange look and walk away.

I know that men are naturally more prudish than women when it comes to sex, but it’s ultimately selfish to constantly withhold your body.

[Bee-Hatch]

Firstly learn to differentiate between dating and hooking up. If you're dating there's no rush to go straight to bed. It's about getting to know each other.


Resist the urge to send dick pics unless requested.


Pay attention to her and what she says.


Always be clean when meeting.


Take a litte time over your appearance. Not saying suit and tie. But clean and tidy.

[silvermoon84]

I don’t buy into that sort of thing to be honest but if a pet is going to make a man undateable to me, it’s not going to be a kitty. It would be the creepy crawly slithery kinds (I. e. spiders, snakes and scorpions because those things scare the crap out of me)

[Elsa143]

Don't get tempted by other girls.
Don't lie or try to manipulate.
Even if they manage, sooner or later we will be able to see that and suddenly leave them and they wonder what happened.
Dating doesn't mean people can taste multiple while already having one.
If other people are more attractive then dump your date rather than cheating on them.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

... by all accounts the picture with the cat is the more dateable one.

People legit rent animals to take pics with for online profiles.

So, in short, take pics with animals. Ideally, have one of your own. People will date for the pet, then you just need to actually be a good person worth dating.

A pet is like a cover letter for dating.

[JosyJosy]

If they're romantic, that might be a plus. I'm not romantic at all and I wouldn't care, but I know that the majority does so.
If you're passionate about something that's attractive to me, like a hobby of yours
Being able to open up and talk about stuff is also important, communication in a relationship is key
Being good with kids
There are more but I'm lazy so :)

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I'm not even sure what that's supposed to mean... Everyone is datable, it's just you stepping out there and allowing people to get to know you to the point they want to date you...

[DizzyDesii]

Its varies by girl. For me, i need to find him attractive physically and he needs to have a goofy/corny personality, similar interests/goals, be masculine, and love God.

[lovelylia]

My most valuable advice, to me anyways, would be to take care of your hygiene. Take care of your body odor, skin, hair, clothes, etc. I would say that is a GREAT place to start.

[Spiffy_and_Tails]

Less dateable? The girl seeing that you are loving and responsible enough to care for a pet makes you LESS dateable? Only if they hate cats.

[Máiiréad]

Actually, I'd find him more dateable if I saw the pic with the cat. lmao

[Anonymous]

Dress in clean clothes, bathe regularly and generally practice good hygiene.

Sadly a lot of men don't do this. Especially the ones who complain about being undateable...

[tata1993]

Be less pushy, work on communication skills, respecting space, not being afraid of being gentleman and not confusing that with being desperate.

[Inquisitive3]

Be honest, share what you really feel, don't play games, be kind.

[Secret6620]

Spending less time trying to "hookup" and more time building meaningful connections and bonding.

[Tamera952]

Floss, ...
Remember to say PLEASE & THANK YOU, ...
Don't be shy about your penis obsession.

[thimmslicc]

He needs to show more sympathy and also be very blunt.

[Angieeebabieee]

Keep the picture with the cat... I think it's sweet

[Andéersin]

Honestly? Be naturally good looking.
Might as well say it since nobody will.

[PinkGiraffee]

Not true at all. Both pics of that guy speak = dateable.

[Nazgol]

Put effort in your appearance, be polite and like a gentleman, show that you care and dont act like a snob, show that you mean business

[Anonymous]

I've had bad dating experience with men who have cats. I'll pass

[Minahh]

That first pic is not true. If you don't like cats, I won't date you.

[Anonymous]

I'm going to say the silent thing. Men need to make a lot of money. Do you ever see rich ugly guys without dates? No.

[Anonymous]

Be kind. Genuinely kind. And be hygienic. Also be human, that is be someone a girl can relate to.

[HOAAH]

Be honest and be truly interested.