Cheating actually is not that bad if they didn't find out?

[Anonymous]

Because if u look at it, at the end of the day they come back to that same person (e. g. u) lol

that means they prefer u over them

[FreedMan]

You're a terrible person if you truly believe this and when they inevitably do find out you deserve whatever awful stuff comes your way if you cheat. Even if they don't find out it comes out in your behaviors. It's difficult to hide your utter contempt, enough so to cheat, for another person that you're in a relationship with. It comes out in other behaviors and will cause problems. You'll likely blame those problems on your significant other instead of yourself. Your age doesn't surprise me tbh.

[Bricealan]

I agree. Have had sex with several married women, and with women in a relationship, and it seems as you suggest, if not found out, no harm, no foul. Sound salacious I know, and married woman asked me once if I intended to tell her husband. Can't imagine her fucking me if she had no confidence in my discretion

[Bricealan]

If I thought that every person that cheated on their spouse or boyfriend was a really bad person, I would avoid them anyway. I see the risk as this: My prior wife had sex with 30 men B4 we married. I delayed 4 years before we married. In the end, she left me (as her 6th husband) and married another man. I don't think she was a Terrible Person. I just don't believe she knew what she wanted in a husband.

[dustybiker]

Made you feel guilty enough to ask? Doesn’t sound too good.

[BobSansMal]

Cheating changes you, whether your partner knows or not doesn't matter. You know. It makes the relationship a lie, and why would anyone want to live a lie?

[Guy13]

That's an interesting interpretation... Which end of the equation were you on?

[slatyb]

Unless they get pregnant or get someone pregnant or contract an STD and pass it to their partner.

[ElementoP]

I see your point, but is it wrong to rob a bank if no one finds out? Banks have insurance

[Juxtapose]

If you're so confident why did you go anonymous? You know deep down it's wrong.

[Asker]

its not about me, its about the receiving end

[Juxtapose]

How do you figure?

[Beowulf_]

That is the respectful thing to do. If you care about your partner you must do it in a way they don’t find out unless you are looking to hurt your loved one

[Libertycityguy]

you are lying to yourself about it. if it really didn't matter then why not tell them.

[TheFlak38]

As I always say, women don't deserve loyalty.

[Zolly99999]

Cheating to me is intercourse with another person.. I don't want them back after that.

[Anonymous]

No thanks. Keep your STDs away from me. If you want to live single then be single.

[MrTaboo]

No, it's bad. No matter how you rationalize it

[F3nr1r]

It's always bad and wrong

[pizzalovershouse]

Nope it's worse