What is your go to first date with a girl?

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What is your favorite place to take your date for the first time?

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Seasons 52 restaurant for dinner.

What is your go to first date with a girl?

It is nice but not over the top, a good place for conversation and good food, and it has ample parking adjacent to the restaurant. After dinner, if all is going well, I can invite my date to walk acrss the street with me to the Capitol Grill for an after-dinner drink. And while we are walking acrss the street, I will reach over and hold her hand while we stroll.

At the end of the evening, I walk her back to her car, tell her that I hope to see her again very soon, and hopefully receive a good night kiss.

That would be a perfect first date.

andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

I have (or had, that is :) ) no ''standard procedure''.

Two scenarios are possible: I ''feel safe''; or ''case pending''.

Usually, I'd ask what she would like me to arrange.

I may be in contact with her for longer already, and we basically 'click' - depending on our common interests, I'd suggest something that we both enjoy.

If she's an 'experiment' - I'd pick something with an escape route and a range of spontaneous options. Lucky, we have a number of beaches here, with street food, bars and restaurants, etc.

Dazed0N0Confused · Accepted Answer

My first dates for many potential partners was my favorite little coffee shop. It's early enough in the day that if things aren't working out, it's easy to give a reason to leave.
But my SO & I met during COVID restrictions ending & I was broke, so I told him to come over my house & have a home cooked dinner.
I think he loves my cooking more than me some days 😂
On a side note, i made dinner for my mom & us yesterday & she asked if I ordered ToGo because it was "so professional looking & tasting"... I was half amused & half insulted by the question.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

A first date for me, would be a cheap pasta at a restaurant, like Olive Garden or Vanellis to go.

Pinay_ako · Answer

idc where as long as the chemistry and sparks are flying!

RosieMelts · Answer

Bro she’s eating that manz pizza! I feel like Spider-Man rn “woa he stole that guy’s pizza!” 😂 My first go to date? Maybe one where we could talk for a bit like a picnic or preview something together and talk about it afterward like a movie/ play/ concert/ opera/ musical/ museum/ art gallery/ zoo/ aquarium.

Chill_Thoughts · Answer

I have this beach right next to my place and I usually take them there, we either surf together or I give them a class which is always a good bit of fun. Then we drive by the coast for like 15mins, and stop at this amazing hotdog vendor truck. A couple more mins in the car to get some ice cream and then watch the sunset...
I've done it more times than I care to admit, but it has never failed me sooo, don't fix what ain't broken 😂😇

SilverFoxDebutante · Answer

I like to go for a hike. Gives us a chance to chat, and it’s an informal fitness test…lol. I take care of my health and like to be active do at my age, it’s important to me to find someone who does the same. It’s pretty crazy how many men say they are active and then show up with a belly or have the beginning stages of some pretty limiting health issues.

abc3643 · Answer

The planetarium laser show. For example...

MTC29 · Answer

I went to a movie with a girl named Sharon. My mother drove us and then picked us up. The ice cream parlor was our usual place.

It didn't last. When I was seduced by a much older woman, Sharon was expendable. I'm not proud about that, but I'll say it.

ethanallen · Answer

I am in a small rural town. We have a nice lake that is protected (no motor boats, no beaches, no houses) for migratory birds. I pack a picnic and we watch birds take off and land as the sun goes down. Really nice. Sometimes, I bring a sketching kit and invite my date to sketch with me while we watch the birds.

Crafteroon · Answer

Really depends on the girl. Generally any place where you can talk and get to know each other is good, but also a place where they are comfortable and can show their interests. So for an art student their favorite museum works. A park where animals and pets can be walked for someone who likes animals.

You want the place to be quiet enough so you can talk freely, but there should definitely be others in the area.

TheoPfeifle · Answer

Stargazing on Hawthorn Road between County Road 10 and County Road 20, in Jasper County, Missouri. It's the place with the least light pollution I've found, within an hour drive of my stomping grounds. Stargazing tends to encourage deeper conversation, I've found.

AllGoodNamesRGone · Answer

im kinda old school when it comes to this... I would like to recreate the scene of the book where the protagonist promised to bring the moon and stars for his love? Didn’t we all dream about a love like that? I just wish to turn that dream into reality (not literally, obviously :P). So im gonna ask her out on a date to the city’s planetarium, under a million stars ✨😂

littlepig2002 · Answer

It depends on the day of the week. If the date is on a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday or Thursday, then I will go to a steakhouse such as Longhorn. If it is on a Wednesday, then I will go to a chicken joint such as Wingstop. If it is on a Friday, then I will go to a pizza parlor such as Cici’s. If it is on a Saturday, then I will go to an Italian cuisine place.

Bismarck_96 · Answer

Go to olive garden and get some Chicken Alfredo and whatever she wants from the menu then we hit the theater or a walk on the Stock Yards (tourist place in my town) then we go to a cliff and watch the stars and have a deep convo of anything could be anything or about aliens or how my cat was walking upside down from my ceiling

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

A date I went on with a girl once, was at a bar/rest.

Turns out she was just using me though, as he boyfriend was in jail, and she was just trying to get laid while she was waiting for him to get out.

Ever since then, I'm done dating

RasmusAiken · Answer

For me a Museum is a great choice. It's non threatening. Every exhibit is a new topic of conversation. You learn a lot about a person hearing their likes and dislikes. Afterward take her to your favorite deli or bar.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

I know this is going to sound bad but an early like 5pm movie showing. Because that way if we realize we don’t like each other it’s ok we didn’t talk that long. But if I realize I do like her I can ask her out to dinner after the movie.

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

My first go to date with a woman I am getting to known to is to take a walk, buy an ice cream and sit on a park bench and have a conversation 😊

slatyb · Answer

Do I know her, or is it an online first meeting? If I know her, then it could be anything -- dinner, a concert, a play, whatever. If it's an online first meeting then coffee, definitely nothing more involved than lunch.

AviatorTom · Answer

Dinner at a nice quiet restaurant, where you can spend an enjoyable time talking and learning about each other. And if the date doesn't go well, at least you get to eat good food.

Amy10223 · Answer

Sushi at a good, reputable place, and then a walk in a park to get to know one another more. Hopefully on a wooded trail or by some water.

Kabluie · Answer

Personally a baseball game is my favorite, you get 9 innings next to each other to talk, drink, and dine. If you're lucky you get the kiss cam and make the first one happen here.

Andres77 · Answer

Kayaking. Is she weak, a wimp, afraid of the water, afraid to get wet, afraid for me to see her without makeup, messy hair, is she afraid of little physical exertion?

Avicenna · Answer

Nothing in particular. I don't like repetition and what I suggest depends on what she is interested in.

genericname85 · Answer

taking a walk in the park, stopping by at the park cafè and get a coffee. nothing fancy. just somthing to talk a lot. and obviously it's publich with people all around, so she feels safe.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I have a coffee place I like that also serves drinks and food, there's also a decent hotel right across the street which is convenient should things go well.

Twalli · Answer

Here, baseball game. Generally though, it would be a dinner or other meal. My first date with my current girlfriend was bowling because she really enjoys it, but she was a friend beforehand so the basic connection was already there.

MrPickles13 · Answer

Either a fun sort of active date maybe bowling or something like that. Or something simple low key and relaxed so that you can get to know each other better without the higher pressure that like a fancy restaurant gives.

exitseven · Answer

I never had a first date place. I cannot think of two first dates that were at the same place.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Don’t have a favorite. It depends entirely on the subject.

MountAverage · Answer

In the summer just outside at the canal in the city, with a bottle of wine or some beers. Outside of summer just some cozy bar with a nice atmosphere.

Luopio27 · Answer

The zoo I guess. A good meal at a nice restaurant followed by light hearted neutral activity like bowling, minigolf, or something is more than enough.

nawtee_me · Answer

I like to do a daytime thing, like Flea markets or mall. Usually catch lunch in the food court too. This way we can talk, shop and get an idea what the other likes.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I prefer staying home or going to her house for date time (because video games).

TroyDT · Answer

Meet for coffee. I'm not paying for a nice dinner on a first date. We might not click or she might be a food whore.

Massageman · Answer

Movies. Group roller skate date. Mini golf. Weekly volleyball game.

Monica1984_ · Answer

Pot pot golf and ice cream, or coffee. Depending on time of year.

Voca4Flower · Answer

Someplace like the mall (even if it's just looking around) buying some iced tea to drink while we talk, and maybe a walk or going rolling blading in a park.

LztutuIsCute · Answer

I know many girls who like pizza a lot. A pizza place would do good.

zagor · Answer

Meeting for drinks and appetizers. Don't have to be alcoholic drinks.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I usually ask her what she would like so she will feel more comfortable

maximumpower · Answer

Food fest. No commitment, lots of conversation, lots of learning.

Nikki101977 · Answer

, if it’s someone I know I’d cook at my place. If it’s internet at place for ice cream go for coffee, wine place where we can talk,.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't have a go to place. I go with the flow it depends on the girl and what she likes

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I love cute village pubs.

Noodle_fan · Answer

karaoke if she also like singing

Vegasrunner · Answer

Coffee always coffee on the first date.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Swimming pool.

stargazeraug1989 · Answer

Smut and Eggs. Yes, it's an actual place.

TammyVeracious_III · Answer

Ice cream and a park sounds fun.

msc545 · Answer

Usually a very nice dinner and a club.

dolemite89 · Answer

pizza and beer is always good 😅

panamared1 · Answer

some place where we have to talk

Punkin_Annie92 · Answer

Im a movie girl (:

LemiaOfChampions07 · Answer

Cinema or Bowling

goodgirlsteven · Answer

My bed.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’m tired of dating

Smallboobsgotohell · Answer

A hotel

Grubhub · Answer

Maybe to my place

In_Trance · Answer

Amusement Parks

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