My boyfriend is both good and toxic at the same time. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

My longtime boyfriend hasn't been very nice to me lately. Although he's taken my consent when it comes to being physical, he's forced me to send him "pics" and even tried convincing me to make out with his friend. He asked me for pics even when he knew i was ill. He has manipulated me and has tried to gaslight me. But, he's never done anything forceful, he's never hit me, or touched me inappropriately. He sometimes makes me feel very special. He was, and still is, super sweet (mostly), but ever since we had a fight, things haven't been the same. But he has good qualities as well. I'm confused. Should i leave him or not?

[lightbulb27]

You should leave him and not look back other than to process why the hell you were attracted to a selfish narcissistic jackal.


I could make guesses at your disposition and mentality but will refrain.


Seriously reevaluate your attraction and boundary abilities. You may be too nice and good. Such evil will draw to you and try to destroy.


Don’t buy his games to sweeten you without evidence he understands his flaws and commits to correction… which no way In h he does imho.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Take a break to you see him come to his senses

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Juan4574]

Those are the good boyfriends.

[Asker]

What?

[Danny_dan92]

What a typical adolescent relationship

[landingout2]

women like abuse

[unkownboo2]

leave him now it’s only gonna get worse