What value should a woman bring into a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

You know how us guys are often very tense and spending so much time trying to be providers? You know how little little patience we have that we don't often very clearly before we act on things?

Yeah, this is where women should feel pride in their feminine role. Because women are the ones that soothe the beast in us. Men long for someone who is loving, nurturing, and patient enough to deal with our bullsh*t. That's the power women have... or at least supposed to have.

Today's modern women are a threat to that, because THEIR philosophy, currently, is that women should not have to "conform to gender roles." And that women should be "strong and independent" to the point where now they're competing with men at all levels, ultimately making them less and less attractive the more masculine they become.

How many times have you heard certain women say "Men can't handle me because they're intimidated by a strong woman."

Take a moment to think about why some men have an issue with that. It's not that we're "intimidated" by it (believe me, we're not), it's that it's unattractive to see a woman behave so... so... confrontational and... manly!

Please do not abandon your femininity.

[TransAm85]

I agree w/u. My mother didn't teach me to be the "feminine" type, she raised me against depending on men. She was a baby boomer single mom and said I gtg work or school and never rely on a man cept for some sex! That's not good. Men have feelings too.

[JamesDiaz11]

She should be respectable, and of good character; so, a man feels he has someone special, and that as a result is a respectable person.

She should be his peace, and make him feel safe enough to be vulnerable, but articulate her confidence in the man's strength, reliability, and masculinity.

She should be feminine, and let her man feel needed.

She should be his conscience if/ when he starts going down the wrong path- gently steering him away with love, as opposed to nagging him.

The value she brings is the opportunity for the guy to truly be a man, including with the opportunity to have children- to be a father, but only after he proves himself worthy.

[JosyJosy]

I'll be looking at the comments to see what else I can do, but... I try my best to listen to him. That doesn't mean obeying his command, but listening to what he has to say or how he feels, to understand him and doing my best to make him understand how I feel about things. I've seen my fair share of toxicity in relationships so when there is an argument we talk it out right away and in a calm way. Two years together so far, not once did we yell at eachother. We talked it out and we always resolved it within the same day.

Gifts. I don't ask him to buy for stuff. I buy it myself, if he buys something for me I'm happy. I'm not going to be mad if what he gave isn't expensive or something. The price tag isn't important, I don't care what other people think. Do things for him that he can use? Something practical is thoughtful for them.

[jennyPuss]

it depends on what your partner is looking for. if it's a guy, then "fit, feminine, and friendly" is the mantra of the day. guys don't care about your job.

if it's a girl, then "fit feminine and friendly" is never wrong, but having a job is important too- because somebody has to pay the bills.

being a good cook is a universal like.

[Glenn_lawrence]

what I am about to say may upset many women and I am sure that many white knights are going to attack and criticize my opinion and that is fine, I am only relaying facts and verifiable statistics that i would be more than happy to provide if asked. Most women want a guy that is somewhere in the top 20% of all men. Meaning they want a man that looks good, makes a lot of money, and is in control of his life. So what does a woman need to have to attract a guy like that? The answer is this, she needs to look sexy, be feminine not feminist, and realize she is to bring him peace not conflict.

I think even the bottom 80% of men would desire those things as well.

[Bolty44]

To simply put it love love and more love
Which means taking care of your partners physical and emotional needs and providing support to children because only a mother can do this job better then anyone in the world and kids grow in heaven if their mother is taking care.. anything else like house chores you could pay people to do or split them up a bit and consider who's work is stressful and who needs to do less thats about it you got a happy family

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Every guy wants something a little different but mostly we just want to know we can trust you, you're not going to pick stupid fights with us that make us feel disrespected or taken for granted. Just be a team player and anyone who tells you that basically just the fact you exist is what you're bringing to the table... That's a mentality that's going to get you hurt. You'll only attract weak guys and dudes who will jump through hoops to use you for sex.

[Finchie40]

Love , Respect , Loyalty , Remove Selfishness , Make him feel wanted , make him your number 1 priority , give Affection and intimacy, and he will more than likely do the same , If you butt heads , fix it before walking away , Love grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other and make each other their priority , it won’t always be perfect but you accept each other’s flaws and work on it

[ohsheeT]

Just herself her experience her beliefs that's what it's all about it's who you are on the inside that matters and if it's comes from your heart and it's valuable information it's a valuable and beautiful relationship

[IveGotNoName]

Depends on the person she is with, just as it does the other way around. People in relationships have to compliment each other, and everyone is different, so every share of values is different in each relationship.

[CubsterShura]

That highly depends on what YOU and your partner value in a relationship. Not everyone wants or values the same thing.

[Missgingles]

Respect. Love. Being able to admit when wrong and being able to communicate how we feel clearly. Nurturing, good vibes and ofcorse loyalty:)

[Anjoomkabir]

The same values a man would bring.

Loyalty, respect, patience and understanding.

[genericname85]

She should be nurturing, empathic, reasonably fit, have a job that can carry herself and able to carry a conversation. That's just a few things of the top of my head.

[UniquelyBasic]

Depends on the person and what their strengths are.

[Anonymous]

I don't have specific requirements.

Love, sex, romance and massages can go a long way.

My standards are also reasonable. Just don't be a smoker, a mother, a cheater or a gold digger.

[FilmGuy93]

A sense of peace, trust, emotional support and intimacy.

[242plusInfinity]

Whatever value that is in harmony with the type of guy you want.

[Heolurt]

They don't bring anything into relationships, they believe their presence is enough, they can't even bring a personality.

[Anjoomkabir]

Wow.
Who hurt you?

[Heolurt]

@Anjoomkabir throughout my entire life, everyone but females the most.
Can you tell me what females bring to a relationship?

[Anjoomkabir]

I can't speak for a females but I can tell you what a GOOD female will bring to a relationship.
You need to find a woman who will be your rock through the good times and the bad times; a solution and not a problem.

[Heolurt]

@Anjoomkabir well no female like that exists in my life. They all find my face too unattractive and I am now fine with that because I don't need any female to complete me. Those things you said a good woman will bring to a relationship are things I've learned to be for myself.

[Anjoomkabir]

I personally feel like maybe your looking in your wrong places
Find a good woman, it will change your perspective on all women

[Anjoomkabir]

*the wrong places

[magiusX26]

at this point there is no value for/to me in anyone. no relationships period.

[Anonymous]

My wife compliments me with her gentleness and helps smooth the rough edges off of me. She has a tender demeanor compared to mine. With a loving nurturing tenderness. She pulls me back in when I anger. She laughs with me and she cries with me.

[Anonymous]

Big titties and a tight pussy is what I bring to a relationship lol

[Anjoomkabir]

Girl, your assets are not your only value.
Hope there's more to you than just your pussy.

[Opinion Owner]

@Anjoomkabir There is, I was making an attempt to be funny... plus if you saw my titties you'd definitely know I was joking

[Anjoomkabir]

My bad!

[Opinion Owner]

@Anjoomkabir Its okay, it was a poor attempt.

[Anjoomkabir]

Nah, it just flew over my head.
It was funny. 🤪

[Pinay_ako]

My presence 🙄

[chocomilk99]

Gud luck with that lol

[dolemite89]

it says value not hinderance 😛😂

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤣 well I guess you’re going to be in a relationship then? 😜

[Pinay_ako]

@chocomilk99 🤣 😝 I guess that relationship is by himself 😜

[Libertycityguy]

Cooking and cleaning? Just joking, I think an equal partnership