What value should a woman bring into a relationship?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You know how us guys are often very tense and spending so much time trying to be providers? You know how little little patience we have that we don't often very clearly before we act on things?

Yeah, this is where women should feel pride in their feminine role. Because women are the ones that soothe the beast in us. Men long for someone who is loving, nurturing, and patient enough to deal with our bullsh*t. That's the power women have... or at least supposed to have.

Today's modern women are a threat to that, because THEIR philosophy, currently, is that women should not have to "conform to gender roles." And that women should be "strong and independent" to the point where now they're competing with men at all levels, ultimately making them less and less attractive the more masculine they become.

How many times have you heard certain women say "Men can't handle me because they're intimidated by a strong woman."

Take a moment to think about why some men have an issue with that. It's not that we're "intimidated" by it (believe me, we're not), it's that it's unattractive to see a woman behave so... so... confrontational and... manly!

Please do not abandon your femininity.

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

She should be respectable, and of good character; so, a man feels he has someone special, and that as a result is a respectable person.

She should be his peace, and make him feel safe enough to be vulnerable, but articulate her confidence in the man's strength, reliability, and masculinity.

She should be feminine, and let her man feel needed.

She should be his conscience if/ when he starts going down the wrong path- gently steering him away with love, as opposed to nagging him.

The value she brings is the opportunity for the guy to truly be a man, including with the opportunity to have children- to be a father, but only after he proves himself worthy.

JosyJosy · Accepted Answer

I'll be looking at the comments to see what else I can do, but... I try my best to listen to him. That doesn't mean obeying his command, but listening to what he has to say or how he feels, to understand him and doing my best to make him understand how I feel about things. I've seen my fair share of toxicity in relationships so when there is an argument we talk it out right away and in a calm way. Two years together so far, not once did we yell at eachother. We talked it out and we always resolved it within the same day.

Gifts. I don't ask him to buy for stuff. I buy it myself, if he buys something for me I'm happy. I'm not going to be mad if what he gave isn't expensive or something. The price tag isn't important, I don't care what other people think. Do things for him that he can use? Something practical is thoughtful for them.

jennyPuss · Accepted Answer

it depends on what your partner is looking for. if it's a guy, then "fit, feminine, and friendly" is the mantra of the day. guys don't care about your job.

if it's a girl, then "fit feminine and friendly" is never wrong, but having a job is important too- because somebody has to pay the bills.

being a good cook is a universal like.

Glenn_lawrence · Answer

what I am about to say may upset many women and I am sure that many white knights are going to attack and criticize my opinion and that is fine, I am only relaying facts and verifiable statistics that i would be more than happy to provide if asked. Most women want a guy that is somewhere in the top 20% of all men. Meaning they want a man that looks good, makes a lot of money, and is in control of his life. So what does a woman need to have to attract a guy like that? The answer is this, she needs to look sexy, be feminine not feminist, and realize she is to bring him peace not conflict.

I think even the bottom 80% of men would desire those things as well.

Bolty44 · Answer

To simply put it love love and more love
Which means taking care of your partners physical and emotional needs and providing support to children because only a mother can do this job better then anyone in the world and kids grow in heaven if their mother is taking care.. anything else like house chores you could pay people to do or split them up a bit and consider who's work is stressful and who needs to do less thats about it you got a happy family

Finchie40 · Answer

Love , Respect , Loyalty , Remove Selfishness , Make him feel wanted , make him your number 1 priority , give Affection and intimacy, and he will more than likely do the same , If you butt heads , fix it before walking away , Love grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other and make each other their priority , it won’t always be perfect but you accept each other’s flaws and work on it

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Every guy wants something a little different but mostly we just want to know we can trust you, you're not going to pick stupid fights with us that make us feel disrespected or taken for granted. Just be a team player and anyone who tells you that basically just the fact you exist is what you're bringing to the table... That's a mentality that's going to get you hurt. You'll only attract weak guys and dudes who will jump through hoops to use you for sex.

ohsheeT · Answer

Just herself her experience her beliefs that's what it's all about it's who you are on the inside that matters and if it's comes from your heart and it's valuable information it's a valuable and beautiful relationship

IveGotNoName · Answer

Depends on the person she is with, just as it does the other way around. People in relationships have to compliment each other, and everyone is different, so every share of values is different in each relationship.

CubsterShura · Answer

That highly depends on what YOU and your partner value in a relationship. Not everyone wants or values the same thing.

Missgingles · Answer

Respect. Love. Being able to admit when wrong and being able to communicate how we feel clearly. Nurturing, good vibes and ofcorse loyalty:)

Anjoomkabir · Answer

The same values a man would bring. Loyalty, respect, patience and understanding.

genericname85 · Answer

She should be nurturing, empathic, reasonably fit, have a job that can carry herself and able to carry a conversation. That's just a few things of the top of my head.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Depends on the person and what their strengths are.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't have specific requirements. Love, sex, romance and massages can go a long way. My standards are also reasonable. Just don't be a smoker, a mother, a cheater or a gold digger.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

A sense of peace, trust, emotional support and intimacy.

242plusInfinity · Answer

Whatever value that is in harmony with the type of guy you want.

Anonymous · Answer

My wife compliments me with her gentleness and helps smooth the rough edges off of me. She has a tender demeanor compared to mine. With a loving nurturing tenderness. She pulls me back in when I anger. She laughs with me and she cries with me.

Heolurt · Answer

They don't bring anything into relationships, they believe their presence is enough, they can't even bring a personality.

magiusX26 · Answer

at this point there is no value for/to me in anyone. no relationships period.

Anonymous · Answer

Big titties and a tight pussy is what I bring to a relationship lol

Pinay_ako · Answer

My presence 🙄

Libertycityguy · Answer

Cooking and cleaning? Just joking, I think an equal partnership

Anonymous · Answer

Positive, light energy; radiant and voluptuous physical attractiveness; loyalty; nurturing and loving nature; flexible giver.

Anonymous · Answer

You're over 30 and you don't know this yet? 🤣🤣🤣

dustybiker · Answer

Happiness. Stability. Trust.

desertsky33 · Answer

The ability to keep peace in the home.

dwilson24 · Answer

trust, happyness, activeness and freeshness

Iron_Man · Answer

Everything pretty much

msc545 · Answer

other than sex what else is there?

Wise4myage · Answer

Loyalty and honestly.

Zolly99999 · Answer

50% of the relationship..

maximumpower · Answer

Share 50% of the load for everything.

Anonymous · Answer

An Original Equipment vagina.

SushiSxnpai · Answer

love.

Anonymous · Answer

just chillax and be yourself

Luopio27 · Answer

Money.

simplyshredded · Answer

Gains

ASHELY14000 · Answer

Hope

Nahid1707 · Answer

Her own ones

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