I know he is tired and exhausted but it’s so simple to call and say good night baby so I can hear his voice. am I asking for too much?

[bbhhgirl]

So when me and my boyfriend is away from each other. He never calls and have a little convo with me before bed or anything. I asked him tonight to call me before bed because I probably wouldn’t make it out to his house tonight. He still went to bed and didn’t call me

[LegallyBad]

You know where you come on his list of priorities.

One thing I've learned - if a man wants to do it, regardless of how tired, exhausted or drained he is, he will do it and even more so if he's going to get brownie points for it.

He's not bothered about speaking to you - it seems like he uses time away to have a break from interacting with you. Are you clingy or demanding when you're together?

He is prioritising sleep and relaxation over speaking to you so she doesn't see you as relieving his tiredness only adding to it. Let him be for the moment.

[bbhhgirl]

No , actually when we are together I don’t ask for much. He suggests a lot of it. Going out to eat and things. I more so rather watch a movie home , go to a park so I can’t see what I could be doing wrong by asking for one phone call before bed seeing that he never does that …

[LegallyBad]

in that case, he doesn't feel the need to talk - he's made his priority to sleep and that's it. Ask him about it when you are next together and he will probably dismiss it as nothing because it means nothing to him. Explain that you just want to hear his voice and he might be charmed by that.

[bbhhgirl]

Yes , I told him in text last night. If I don’t make it over I would love to hear your voice before bed. And he says “Lol. sure baby “.

[LegallyBad]

No, speak to him in person, not via text. Talk to him directly. A text is just a text.

[Death_To_Stress]

From him it's too much. It won't change. Either stop needing that from him or accept that it's not available from him and find a better match for yourself. Good luck!

[Wise4myage]

He's lost interest in you, the question is how much longer are you going to tolerate it.

[Guy13]

Yep-it’s a pain in the ass when I’m tired or messing around with someone else at night.

[bbhhgirl]

What

[Apologies456]

No you’re not

[bbhhgirl]

Ok I didn’t think so , seeing he has never done it on his on I have asked twice and he never did it either time.