How come a man can't be honest and just say he wants sex but instead has to go through a long process when in the end he still gets sex?

[Chthou95]

He wouldn't be wasting your time if he was just upfront and honest. But nah he has to do the extra shit, take you out on dates, listen to your problems and then he gets laid. Doesn't make any sense

[CA4444]

Yeah it’s annoying for us too it feels like they are playing games and want to manipulate the outcome of the situation… instead it’s much hotter when they are straightforward about it, or flirting in an obvious way, the girl will be impressed because it’s bold and true, (even if she doesn't want to have sex with you, trying to ‘play’ her will not change her mind anyway) that’s why girls like the bad boy vibe (but then the disrespect and ignoring also gets old pretty quick)

[Chthou95]

Any dudes that read the comments on this post. She's admitting it fellas

[CA4444]

Yeah I mean I don’t really like the word ‘admitting’, I just reflected on my own behavior and likes and sharing my opinion. Basically women want/need relationships like men want sex, so it may not ‘work’ if you’re straightforward saying you just want sex, BUT women will find straightforward behaviors very attractive/hot/manly (and women want sex too right), so yeah just be your hot confident self and women will love to have sex with you lol. Same for men with women I suppose

[Chthou95]

But most women think the way ypu do. And women make this mistake thinking men and women are the same when we're not. Women want sex too but they don't have to work for it like men do. Men have to do much more to attract a woman and it takes time to develop skill. Skill is required to attract women

[CA4444]

Mmh I see yes for sure… reading your initial question again I can say that as a woman most times I just can’t have sex like straight away, I need some basic get to know you time to feel physically & emotionally comfortable even if I know I’m just looking for ‘fun’. I need some basic trust to give my body it’s very important… So all the time ahead of sex that for you is a waste of time, for women its important, a bit like foreplay actually. So we’re not playing games we’re just different I think as you said.

[Chthou95]

But a guy will go the extra to do something he really doesn't want to do but has to, to get laid. Because being that straightforward about your true intention seems impossible

[Nikki1989]

I like a man who is upfront and says what he wants.

[Chthou95]

Congrats. You're an exception to the rule

[Guy13]

Women prefer straightforward even if they shoot you down...