Incels aren’t real, agree?

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Like any guy can find a good girl but it’s hard and takes a huge amount of patience with meeting new people. Without a defeatist mindset. No guy is actually a complete reject unless he is sensitive to his experiences.

Like I’ve never had a girlfriend. But that’s okay, I have faith I’ll find a good, amazing girl one day. But wild, modern women aren’t for me. I also have never looked for sex even though I’ve had the odd girl that wanted me like that and had to pass.

Patience is key 🔑 and improving oneself, slow and steady always wins the race.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

I actually agree. My husband made a really good point when we were talking about this one time. He said that incels only exist when someone will only shoot for someone else who is of a way higher quality than they themselves are, and refuse to have realistic standards. So that's why being poor and ugly is not what makes an incel. There are plenty of poor, ugly people who are in relationships, and it's because they're in relationships with people of similar qualities. This, incels are not actually "involuntarily" celibate, but rather they choose to remain celibate rather than lowering their absurdly high standards.

RolandCuthbert · Accepted Answer

No incels are definitely real. But if you have a positive outlook and are improving yourself, then how can you be one?

An incel doesn't seek self-improvement. He is entitled because he is "nice", because of his race and/or because he is male.

He doesn't aspire to become or try to embody anything masculine or to move himself to a better place.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

No. This whole post is bullsh*t, from the premise of the question, to the idea that actual "angry virgin men" don't exist, to the retarded "any guy can find a good girl" argument. Sounds like a tall, 18 year old pretty boy with no life experience wrote this or something.

Shamalien · Answer

Yeah I mean the problem is that most men start out as incels, that is kind of our default state. Really there is no incel besides disabled people though because any able bodied man can find someone if they put in the effort to build themselves up. She may not be a model, but sex isn’t hard to find if you’re truly desperate. I hate when people call people incels because it’s that kind of societal pressure that turns hurt men into assholes who use women for sex

OlderThanILook · Answer

Incels call themselves incels. It's not actually supposed to be used as an insult. They're just easy to make fun of (as people should), so we have adapted to calling undesirable men incels.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I think they are real... There are guys who don't get attention from women and when they do it's not because of who they are but more like because women need something from them and kinda settling down... So if you're in their place you would think women are awful and then when they become angry enough they go full misogynistic and start degrading women

TroyDT · Answer

An InCel is real if he still could not score while handing out pardons on a women's death row and would get turned down by a crack whore after offering her a month's supply. Otherwise it is a matter of being unrealistic. If you work the night shift at Del Taco, are depressing, and make $15/hour, the $5000/hour supermodel is not likely to be super interested.

Po1989 · Answer

They're definitely a real thing. I find some of the comments here pretty naive. There are definitely men out there that no woman would say yes to, even women who are no more desirable than these men are (women tend to be more selective in general). Even though I'm certainly not one (I've had more partners than I should have lol, and even have fathered a child) I can still see that they exist. It just is a thing, sadly.

hahahmm · Answer

I haven't thought about it much, but I think it's likely that almost all of the guys accused of being incels are not actually. On the flip side, zero of these modern women will admit to being whores and a huge percentage of them are.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Incels are incels because they don't understand that self improvement and patience will actually get them laid.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Look up almost every serial killer they were abused by their mothers. Most of them are probably similar and blame all women.

Twalli · Answer

Incels blame their inabilty to get girls on their looks and hate girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t believe I can find I good girl. Seems like many girls don’t even wanna talk to me.

AsaKyo · Answer

Nah, they are

JustinTheGreat · Answer

They’re definitely real

Msputiton · Answer

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