Because the more I look into this subculture I see most want to be treated like crap. Confirm they are worthless etc. Maybe I’m off base but it seems very masochistic to me. Like we would you willingly look to make yourself feel worse?
no infact they don't exist and isn't a term you should use. we are all living in an epidemic of lonliness, men and women have been damaged greatly by the rise of social media and we are poorly adapted to it, we are all having less sex than we should be and have few friends
No... Just no... A masochist doesn't complain but instead enjoys their torment. What you're doing is essentially shifting blame to victims of circumstances. Would you do the same for any kind of victim? How about poor people? Homeless? War orphans? Or do you feel you're entitled to determine for others when someones misfortune is worthy to complain about?
m I think they are just so starved for attention that anything will get them going.
I think they are just lonely guys that are angry at not being able to get girls
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If you think about it, Incels both males and females (yes they also exist), I feel sorry for them :/. They can get a good life and instead choose to give up on relationship and box up in there own little worlds.
They have this victim play as well
Almost a third of young American males are statistically facing the choice between being a incel or going MGTOW.
I doubt they are all simply masochistic.
No. That is just another way for you to treat them like shit. They get treated like shit as it is now without your help.
This sort of question can be transformed like this:
"Do women who complain of being sexually assaulted and raped do this just because they are masochistic and like all the attention they get" ?
How did that feel to you?
How and where did you research the culture? Let's from there and then I can give you a clear answer. I find most questions about incels on this site are posted by people who haven't done a minute of research and just want to talk shit.
I hate incels with a passion but I'm extremely familiar with the culture. Where did you look into it?
I´d say yes in a way that they digged themselves a hole and don´t want to leave it. Like I don´t know a way to prove a strong minded incel wrong. Whenever I try to argue with one it seems like there is no way to change their mind.
In the age if tinder and bumble and the rest as well as feminist free love propaganda I don't see how incels can exist but voluntarily, which would seem to be a contradiction.
Incel are by definition involuntary celibate. Which I am. And I'm pretty sure I don't to be treated like crap.
But many of them are probably used to be treated like crap, so now they're expecting it.
You're probably right, like in a subconcious way they probably are, as lots of women are that way too.
I feel like they feel so down they look for attention by bashing on themselves... I don't know 🤷🏽😂
It is not masochism, because incels are not in that situation by choice.
No MILF, they need external validation to feel confident, which makes sense, positive thought new age mumbo jumbo can only get you so far.
You really need to stop bullying guys raised by single moms made that way by those single moms.
Dunno but that's some freaky shit you asking. I think inceldom is a dark place only you can send yourself too. But I smoke too much dope and am not a reliable source.
Yes, kind of. They feed off negative attention.
Yes that is true, and it is one of the reasons they cannot find a girlfriend. Because most women are sub. But there are other reasons as well such as them getting rejected due to their appearance and Autism. Feminism has encouraged this.
No, they prefer to blame anyone else but themselves for their situation. And refuse to do anything about fixing it.
No, none of it is done willingly, that's why the word involuntary is in there
It’s not a “subculture” it’s not even a real thing, it’s simply a shaming term used to silence any male who speaks up about female bullshit.
You should be grateful for incel simps as all you have to offer is sex.
All men are incels until they aren’t
