I think a guy tried to use me while dating his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I figured out this guy who had cut me off had done so because he had a girlfriend all along but there were no big signs back then. We were hanging out in coffee shops together and a few times he asked to come over and I declined saying my parents were home. And also it was hard to meet with him anyway because he said he was always working for money issues (how I met him by the way), and he would also travel with family as I have seen in his stories. Pretty sure he spent some weekends with her though. Wtf? He was the one who wanted to meet and asked to travel together as well. Should I tell her? Or just leave it?

[Guy13]

Vengeance is of the Lord…let God handle it.

[Asker]

Not exactly vengeance. Just surprised and saying maybe she doesn't know about it

[Guy13]

It woukd appear as vengeance if you told her. I did not catch the way you meant it.-sorry 👍

[Asker]

That’s ok. In this situation though I do feel a bit hurt as I would have never entertained his advances if I knew he wasn’t single. Not my style But I guess he thinks that is normal?

Also, if I told her I would do it through a throwaway account without revealing my identity. No need for her to know who I’m anyway.

[Guy13]

Some guys are just horndog and flirt with a tree if the branches start moving. He might be one of those kinds🤡

[Asker]

I feel shitty

[Guy13]

You should not. He’s won. Still affecting your life. Let it go ‼️

[Asker]

It’s just rude. But yeah I agree I shouldn’t feel bad about it

[Guy13]

👍👍

[Asker]

Is this common? First time this is happening

[Guy13]

Yes. Guys.