How big of a red flag is it if the only girls I talk to are escorts or girls on onlyfans? I hardly meet women outside of work?

[poneglyphs]

Is that a red flag or just sad as fuck. 🥺

I get no bitches as people say 😤😤😤

[MarkRet]

It depends on what it is you're looking for. If you're just looking to get laid, then escorts and 'bitches' are no red flag at all. If you want something more than that, then you have to leave that escort and bitch stuff behind, because that's quite a red flag. You would actually have to talk to a girl, and treat her with respect. That means letting your guard down, and sharing a part of your personal self with somebody else. It makes you vulnerable, because you're giving up some control of yourself to someone else. It's possible the girl might not be interested at all, or she might think you're not a match for her, but might be a match for a friend of hers, or she might be really interested in you. That's how the dating thing works.

[RealMarek]

So, do you lead with “Hey, I’m tired of talking with escorts and women on OnlyFans. Are you up for a date?” If not, how would this be a red flag?

For your own good, please stop simping on escorts and OnlyFans. Chat with real women. Stop referring to women as “bitches.” If other guys do, be better than them.

[poneglyphs]

Lol, I hardly do because I'm focusing on myself whatever thar means.

[Kaytiee]

For me it's a redflag because it makes me think you're a 'casual sex' type of person, but it wouldn't make me judge you, id just know that we wouldn't suit eachother because no matter how desperate I get, I dont resort to escorts, or sexual services, I don't give into that sexual desire.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, I just don't talk to anyone and those are the only women that want me 🥺🥺🥺

[TroyDT]

It's sad, bro. Just get out of that mindset and go out and meet normal girls. Don't pressure them or yourself. Just go have fun. And don't hold out for the 8's and higher. The Plain Janes tend to have personalities and interests that more than make up for not being beauty queens.

[poneglyphs]

I rarely go out and talk to women outside of work. I don't drive so I hardly leave my place. That's why i turned to these type of women 🥺

[lightbulb27]

yes because they just want your money to give to their pimp, so the pimp doesn't torture them. sad hugh?

the other girls have to find a way to win you over, so they have everything, so that they can give all they have to you in return!

you just need to up your game and build social skills, learn about women, and heal your wounds. It ain't rocket science... it's worse, until you understand, then it isn't so hard...:)

[NathanDavis]

the only red flag here is that you often and usually refer to women as "bitches"

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well thats a phrase most guys use right?

[NathanDavis]

no... not most guys

that's a phrase that only idiots would repeat when they hear douchebags say it

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well

[RobT312]

Not a red flag but go talk to girls who don’t do that. Those girls are just looking to make $$$

[poneglyphs]

Well, I hardly talk to anyone really 🙃 especially women. The only women I talk are at work

[slatyb]

It seems rather sad to me. Why can't you meet women that you can actually date?

[poneglyphs]

Because I hardly meet women in general and only see women that want my money

[slatyb]

Is it a "red flag" ? To whom?

[poneglyphs]

I probably said it wrong but yeah it is pretty sad ngl. I'm focusing on myself but I don't feel like I'm meeting anyone else.

I'm doing the things I like aka sleep, watch movies, read manga, and play games

[Googlemyahoo]

It’s your choice to do that. Choose differently you little beeotch

[BJP21]

Big time red flag, it shows you're desperate for love. The only thing you should be paying for are a girls drinks at a bar. Paying for sex is desperation. Dates dont have a monthly subscription.

[mr4435669]

Onlyfans women are bitches, use them for sex but never for a serious relationship.

[poneglyphs]

Cool, but that's all the interaction I get from women honestly

[Shamalien]

Get away from these women. Better off finding a penpal you can sext with on here who wants your dick not your money

[poneglyphs]

Uhh sure if I can find anyone honestly

[Shamalien]

Bullshit

[poneglyphs]

What, it's true I rarely talk to women besides who want my money.

[Shamalien]

You talk to tons of girls on here

[poneglyphs]

I do but doesn't mean they want me.

[Shamalien]

They won’t want you so long as you continue to play helpless lonely victim. Ditch that shit. You’re a cool guy underneath this anxious energy

[exitseven]

I don;t know what to think.

[Fuentes]

Lose weight then no excuses

[LazerBean]

It's both.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, so I just suck

[LazerBean]

Apparently.