Do you think money reveals the true nature of someone?

[Anonymous]

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How?

[Fireguy17]

Yes it can.
Either having it, or not having any.
Many years ago I worked at a she she Foo Foo country club.
I found that in most cases those that started with nothing and made a lot of money were really nice.
Those that married into it, or got it from daddy were usually butt peanuts.

[BJP21]

Yes, you see the true colors of the person in the context if they are stingy or greedy.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, I mean it all depends on how they use it and approach you with it. A person that is finically secure usually means they money smart and responsible. But if they are trying to impress you with it, then that usually means they superficial and trying to get in your pants.

So like very other and all things, it can be good thing or a bad thing... both works on some level. Some women won't even talk to a guy if he's does make 6 figures, drives a fancy car and live in his own house... so it I usually avoid those type. But I have ran into a lot of women with serious money troubles and that's a turn off.

So for me money matters, I prefer a women that is self sufficient and not struggling on monthly bases to pay her bills.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes…

When you have lots of money, everyone loves you.
When you’re broke, nobody’s there for you.

[Asker]

Then no one really loves you. Lol

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 broke ass me

[ElvenMr]

Trying to be a sugar mommy? 😂
Surely there are people who love you.

[Pinay_ako]

@ElvenMr nah I don’t want to be a man’s sugar mommy. 🤣

[jennifer_bloom]

I think so, if I had money, I would spend it on others because spending it on myself would not make me happy.

[DannyUk2017]

Oh yeah 1000%.
There are 2 scenarios:
1) I love you for what u are, not what u have...🤔, after a few years... I need fo pay for the car (i don't have enough money), i need to pay for my beauty salon (i din't have money), i need to buy a new phone (i don't have money)... You never EARN enough, how u expect to have raise a family? (U are a useless man, i should've never be/marry u).
2) What do you do for Living?, what job u have?, Do u get good money? Do u have a House/Car?, if you do call/text me, if not... don't bother.
So the 2000's generation since the Tech evoluated soo much, all thei're after is the FINANCIAL GAIN ONLY, the "together building a home/life", is out the window...🤷‍♂️

[PetiteBabe64]

If You worked in a Company That got settlements off of Medical Cases And You had a day Left to get the settlement But You were going to Win half a million dollars.
If you have a Nic of sense you'd cover all your basis and Take the money Instead of telling the Patient there is something Wrong with them.

[CasuallySamsonite]

It can... So does power.

Given several millions of dollars, I'd but a nice house, a few cars, set myself up for life... But I'd also build one or more schools in my local community and invest as much as possible to grow capital and boost my local community.

[Pudsmucker]

No money does not show the true nature of a person. I've known several people that had large sums. Some of them would flaunt their money to let people know who they are. Others you can work alongside them they would help you out of tough situations. They would even get their hands dirty to help you. It all boils down to your upbringing and in your heart.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Maybe not money. But what you can do with it. If I was in power but had no money, but everyone would listen to me either way, no questions asked, you'll see the true me. Being in power can show the true nature.

[Sonorous]

Humans have many true natures. We're multifaceted beings. Our "true nature" is whatever nature allows possible under any circumstance. So it will vary greatly.

[Sonorous]

So basically, I don't like to say that money reveals THE truth about someone. I prefer to say that money (or resourses in general) help to discern favorable or unfavorable patterns so that we can act accordingly. Patterns that we too are capable of under different circumstances as well. Because nature would clearly allow it.

[BCA6010]

More accurately, power does. Money is a form of power, so it can do that. You also witness similar sides of people brought out when they are promoted to elected to positions of authority.

[dustybiker]

Most definitely. If a person can choose to live with less when they don’t have to. Not many would if they didn’t have the need. It’s a view into how they think generally.

[DermalPunch]

Yessssss!!! The forst moment I get, I loke to test new people in my life with money. Ex needed some cash that was nothing to me but I wanted to test him. Anyway, he failed miserably.

[Charlesbrandonf]

It depends, for some it pretends to be the human who are not, For some it reveals their true version of human. In both cases we would only find the person that they want to project.

[Gloree]

Yes. Some guys stay with a nice enduring girl when they are poor. Once they hit money they dump her and go for a classy girl instead of glamping up the girl they had before they got money. This is why I never wanted to suffer with any guy.

[Ninania]

It's not the money, but the power. Money holds a lot of power in our society, but there are other means to obtain power, and that's the true reveal of nature.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I believe so. Money just shows more of whatever you actually are as a person.

If you a jerk with 50K in your bank account then you will be a bigger jerk if you had 1 million in your bank account.

[BlueScorpio]

Yes and can change the nature of someone as well.

[FilmGuy93]

The way someone behaves over money is certainly very telling.

[RiseofArtemis]

Money is the one evil people cannot seem to just throw away when it's causing the problems we face today.

[FilmGuy93]

@RiseofArtemis if it wasn’t money, it would be something else. Man always finds something new to have a problem with.

[ElvenMr]

Yes, it kind of amplifies it. So they are already like that before they got more money. They were just good at hiding it, lot of people don't seem to bother with that anymore tho.

[loveslongnails]

Not really. You are what you are inside, and money or the LACK of it may bring out your best or worse, but it's only one piece of the puzzle.