I'm a 23 year old single girl. I had never been in a relationship before. No past relationships, etc. Do you say that I'm lucky or unlucky girl?

[Anonymous]

[serious]

Well, there is nothing wrong and it is totally normal if you have always been single. You are only 23 years old. I am 35 years old and I have always been single and I totally love it.

However, in my own personal opinion, I would say you are actually lucky because unlike those in a relationship, you never had to face any drama, issues and dealing with those possible mind games that people play in relationships, no not everyone plays mind games but I am referring to those who do.

You are also lucky because you don't have any emotional baggage and you never had to go through breakups which can be devastating in many cases.

[Guy13]

I say you are super special to the right guy... another virgin. They are out there but do not expect the Culture to generate one. l know many church guys who are in prestigious Universities that still are virgins. Bible believing church is the best place for that quality of a man.

Here's what they see when they know more about you: good judgment, steadfast, morally sound, awesome Mom, and Proverbs wife... Search Proverbs Wife :-)

[BettyBogas]

lucky girl. Wait till you find the right guy and not waste something precious on an idiot who will leave

[Rania05]

Lucky for growing up without someone fooling you, unlucky for not finding the right guy yet

[OlderAndWiser]

Depends on whether you WANT to be in a relationship.

[Berethor]

Mostly unlucky for not finding the right guy, but also lucky for not being used.

[Asker]

I don't want to be used

[Berethor]

Not being used in nowadays society is lucky. :)

[krisluv]

Well your still a young lady, I'd say your a very attractive and very smart lady. Don't worry and don't rush it; your special day is on the way...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Neither. When the right person for you come along you'll know it.

Dating just to date with no long term goal is a total waste of time anyways.

[Summeroflove]

No. Sometimes it takes time to find someone right

[ColdExtraction]

Not really, you just haven't found someone, now the lucky part is if you put aside your morals you can make a lot of money.

[Calenderagressive]

Non, you do you, don't like anyone pressure you

[ambayside]

How do you feel about your experience?

[Asker]

Nothing

[Jamie05rhs]

Both.