What's the point of dating after college when it feels so boring it always feels like a job interview unlike all the fun dates in college or school?

Anonymous

Remember all the good times when men and women could date gorgeous, fun people in college? Sadly, those fun, positively memorable dates fade away into non-existence after college (24 or older).

One major reason for this is that everyone is boring and miserable after college. They end up giving up all their hobbies and having nothing interesting to talk about anymore. All the conversations revolve strictly around work (even on platonic terms, let alone romantic ones). People had plenty of fun topics to talk about (such as music, gaming, fitness, celebrities, etc) while they were in college. Now, those are gone, and with conversations strictly revolving around work, it's no wonder dating feels like a job interview after college.

Another reason is that the hormones calm down and the libidos die down drastically. In college, people's hormones were raging and libidos were at an all time high, making all the romance and the sexy activity all the more fun. Afterwards, the hormones and libido die down so much, they might as well be non-existent, which makes the romance extremely miserable and the sexy activity extremely boring and lifeless.

The third reason is the fact that women stop caring about their looks and let themselves go after college. In college you could find plenty of gorgeous women (long and beautiful hairstyles, slender hourglass figure, beautiful face, and smooth skin), especially those who love wearing beautiful, revealing/skimpy outfits. Afterwards, gorgeous women don't exist outside of the mega rich. All women after college are ugly (manly haircuts, overweight/obese, man-faced, and extremely wrinkly skin), and wear ugly outfits and hate gorgeous women. With the lack of attractive women, but still plenty of attractive men after college, dating feels like a chore for men.

With those three points making dating after college a job interview and painfully boring, what is the point of dating after college?

What's the point of dating after college when it feels so boring it always feels like a job interview unlike all the fun dates in college or school?
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