Why are women always complaining that there are no good men? I meet a lot of great guys all the time. Is it because they’re not great themselves?

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry if my question comes off like mean spirited. It’s hard to condense my thoughts to like 2-3 questions. I just feel like a lot of women give up hope and think there is no one good out there but I’m confused because I meet a lot of good guys. I may not always be compatible with every great guy I meet, but they have a good heart and head on their shoulders.

[kylee2437]

That’s said by a woman that has been hurt over and over again. Maybe she has issues that she needs to figure out on why she is choosing those kind of men in the first place. I have a friend like this, hell I was even like this. The issue is , is she puts her trust into someone way too quickly and ignores the red flags too early to the point where she gets her heart broken.

[HighValue]

As an actual good high quality man, that has been told plenty of times that I am the ideal guy that most women want, I often find multiple things wrong with women that show interest in me. (Usually morals that make them incompatible as a long term partner or an unacceptable past.) So maybe it is some of them that can't get a good partner because they are not good enough themselves.

[Guy13]

That is a very good question... Women are more emotional so I get use to it and really move on.. I have decided that is how it will be until "you're wonderful" comes from somewhere.

[LazerBean]

Yes. I have yet to meet a single person who claimed that "there are no good men" or "there are no good women" who did not have some glaring, undeniable personal problem that repelled all good people from wanting to be in a relationship with them.

[Avicenna]

They could mean that they aren't meeting someone compatible, but it usually means that they have unrealistic expectations.

[Summeroflove]

Many times. Women like this are the problem and the good men don’t want them. It’s unattractive for someone to be sexist too.


It’s like men who call good women “unicorns” it’s like. More often then not. Plenty of good women who just don’t want them

[Summeroflove]

I see I already answered this. But you’re right. Many times it’s a them problem they aren’t good women and are sexist. Which pushes good men away.

Much like. Men who say where did all the good women go…. Then you see the stuff they say and do… and you see why the good women just stay away from them. When I need good women all the time

[Infinity12]

It's called secondary gains. If you say there are no men worth being with, that keep you single. They are gaining something from remaining single

[Haha456]

just because a small subset of the female population says that, it does not mean most women say that. Its about time people stop generalizing.

[SlothySlob]

Unfortunately, it's not going to stop any time soon.

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like many times she is venting or feels heartbroken. So she generalizes men when in fact it’s the guy who broke her trust that she really means isn’t good for her

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Tch. You think it’s that easy. Do you confuse nice and kind as one?

[Calenderagressive]

Because a lot of women meet incels