Like I knew a guy who wanted to date me and he did not help me out when I was lifting a pack of water bottles into his friends basement even though he was taller and had more muscle than me, then he behaved as if I was a terrible person for refusing to date him.
I 100% support you kicking him to the curb, assuming that you are taking responsibility for the feminine role in the relationship. I definitely believe in traditional gender roles, but that requires that both people agree and take responsibility for their roles.
I don't abide slackers or selfishness.
I would say that some people show about as much motivation and activity as a piece of tumbleweed being blown through town...
He’s lazy and lives in his own bubble which is a terrible quality. It’s common sense for the man to help with lifting heavy stuff. You shouldn’t have to teach them that🤷🏼♀️
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Did you ask him for help? Well. There are some guys and gals who want someone to put all the effort into a relationship and don’t give anything in return.
If you want or need help just ask. But you’re allowed to have standards far as dating goes
At least if he had a disability income and could afford to pay for dates and pay for your meals and catch a movie out would have been better than nothing at all, but he had no work, and he refused to help lift the water it was so crazy.
A premonition of a bad break up. Any guy who always take short cuts, will never be the "in it for the long haul" kind of guy..
u Meh if it was just 1 thing like that I would say its silly but if that is what was a no for u fair enough
Quick question, are you a modern or traditional woman?
Did you communicate that you needed help?
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