Have I been brainwashed to like white women since I grew up in the western world?

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Please. This is not a trolling question. Ever since I was a kid white women were posted everywhere from television movies and Disney cartoons I used to watch as a kid. Now I only like white women and can’t find any other kind of women attractive.
Does anybody know what I’m talking about or is it only me?

Have I been brainwashed to like white women since I grew up in the western world?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I get exactly what you mean... I can tell you how to fix it or the little I know so far.

But yes I have/had the same problem too. And for anyone reading this; it isn't that I cannot see that Black women or Asian women or other women are beautiful.
The issue seems to be very similar to the self-image concept.
Meaning we have 2 images. And we also see people as two images. An outer one and an inner one.

When I was younger I'd find every girl from a certain race attractive, even if they weren't.
Slowly I grew out of it. I soon came to see what my outer eyes weren't showing me at that time. It's weird af man.

But here is what I found also:
I found Asian girls very ugly. Then I dated an Asian girl and now I find Asian girls attractive. It fixed the problem for that race at least.

I've dated a Latina but she was the devil and so it did not fix it for that race.
And I have yet to date a Black girl and so once again it hasn't fixed it for that race either.

Like I said I can see these girls are beautiful but there is something missing inside me.
I can literally find a black girl a 10 and a white girl a 6 and some deep part of me will still want the white girl.

Now I don't find white girls as attractive as I once did.
but I know there is a deep image or something deep that draws me to white girls
And like you I believe it is the media and how we only saw them in movies and in everything really.

So I think my subconscious sees white girls as a romantic figure but not other girls unless I force it and reprogram it.

The problem is why would I want to do all that work to change it?
What should it matter the race of my future love?

I also have a dream of adopting and I know the media has played a role in that too.

Because I want to adopt a white girl and a black girl.

Why? Because the 2 movies I saw of single dads had a white girl and the other had a black girl. (have no desire to be a single dad by the way)

I know that's why.

And for colored women I don't think it is the same. Perhaps because women are less visual and their own looks and image are everything for women.
However I do feel like Asian girls are brainwashed to like white dudes.

Anyway I understand you and all I can tell u is that yes by dating white girls you will find that your sight becomes clear. But only for that girl. I've dated white girls and I slowly become less attracted to the girl I'm with. However it's not a global fix.

But if you date a Black woman, that you find attractive, I think you can fix your issue of not desiring black women.

I had another account on here from when I was a kid.
And when I logged into it years later...
Dude I sounded like a racist on there.
I was so brainwashed.

I believe we did it to ourselves though because it doesn't happen to every guy.
You had to at some point, at a young age, reject your own culture.
And perhaps it manifested this way and many other ways.
Now since then I've rejected all cultures.

My cousins love Latinas and only date them.
Maybe because they grew up in the city not sure why.
I truly believe people's preferences are just deep beliefs.
Because how could I have altered what I find attractive at all if they weren't?
It is just neuroscience.

Same thing with thick women vs petite women.
I find thick women more sexually attractive YET I feel drawn to petite women more.

Even when I dont find them sexually attractive.
It's not some deep conditioning.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Basically, yes. If all the media is only pushing a certain kind of women, then that's all you're going to know and like.

However, it's normal for the media to do that. They do the same thing regarding skinny women, which is why mostly only white men are attracted to stick thin, bony women and think any woman with curves "is fat." Because stick thin, bony women have been what's en vogue since the early 1980s. Women with a Kim Kardashian body didn't become popular until the 2010s; even though they've always had admirers who simply weren't white dudes.

The same also applies to women only liking tall men (over six feet), or men with athletic gym bodies. There is literally nothing in nature that says men are "supposed" to have a six pack and a tan. Even hunter/gatherers didn't look like today's male athletes and models.

A lot of people like to try to say it's nature, when it's really the environment. It's complete bullsh*t to see "natural" women with giant t*ts or dudes with a six pack. It's all environmental conditioning. Not that I'm saying that's inherently a "bad" thing. It just is what it is.

So yes, basically, whatever the media tells you is "attractive," is what you're going to believe is the only "attractive" thing out there. Though that doesn't apply to all men and it certainly didn't apply to me, cause I don't find bony white women attractive at all.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I'm Chinese and I think Asian girls are more attractive then white girls. Like I think Miley's Cyrus ex husband was ugly, Scarlett is ugly, Mariah Carey is ugly, Clooney is Ugly, Caprio is Ugly, I think 50 cent is cute. But his personality is ugly so he's ugly too.

fonduegirl · Accepted Answer

Try watching diverse literature movies? Lmfao.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Whoever made you think this question is to be taken seriously are the ones "brainwashing" you. White women are just women. You're a heterosexual male, thus you like women. If you live in a region where statistically you see more white women than non-white women, then it's natural a preference would form around that. Same reason if a hot redhead moves next door and you have a crush on her for years, you'll probably go on to find other redheads more attractive. We covet what we see. No big deal.

Anonymous · Answer

Only a brainwashed liberal would say something like that. Are people in Asia brainwashed to find white people beautiful too? No, they're not. White people are just the best looking, it's obvious and you see it with your own eyes.

Liberals want to distort reality and the obvious. They hate the white race, and white liberals are often brainwashed to self hate on their own people and were brainwashed with an unnatural mentality of being against their best interests or the best interests of their people.

Berethor · Answer

You non-white? yes you might been influenced but white is truly the best looking race.

DrBanana · Answer

You like what you like.

I’m a man from a Celtic background ( I’m Scottish) and I find some girls from different racial backgrounds/cultures very attractive.

There is nothing wrong with that at all as long as your happy.

But also remember they are a person and you should not like them for just that one trait in the long run.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

No, there are studies that were done in non-Western countries and whites were also the most preferred race in those countries. Note: As a child, it was hard for me to tell the difference between pretty and ugly people.

User3191989 · Answer

As soon as I see "this isn't a trolling question" I immediately write it off as being exactly that... a trolling question

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Once you get with a "White" woman you will realize they are just women, like women all over the planet.

inkyvampire · Answer

People tend to focus on what they are attracted to though, don’t they? You are seeing what is seemingly presented to you.

inhua · Answer

an attractive woman is an attractive woman regardless of race

BJP21 · Answer

You have been exposed to one ethnic group most of your life. I wouldn't call you brain washed unless there is racism involved which it sounds like its not.

AsaKyo · Answer

Guess us biracial girls just don't exist :(

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Dude. You’re making BS excuses for yourself. It’s called having an unhealthy fetish

KostasKouvalis · Answer

What can I say, we're the master race

Jamie05rhs · Answer

What is your ethnicity?

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