Why does every guy who is interested in me stops talking with me when I tell him that I love spending my time with other guys? Is there mistake in me?

[Anonymous]

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[AmandaYVR]

When you say "time" do you mean sex? Most hate that. They might not want to commit to you, but they don't want to share you.

If you mean friends, on a friend basis, then many will also not like that. Because they think that those guys are in your life waiting for you to say yes to them. When they see an opening or opportunity, guys think other guys will pounce, make their move. So it will sound like too much work to have to compete for your attention, and swat away these other guys.

[LazerBean]

If you say it the wrong way, it could make you sound like you are admitting to being a bimbo.

[Asker]

I didn't say in wrong way. But I said that I have lot of friends who are guys. Is that wrong?

[FilmGuy93]

They lose interest because they see that you are only looking at them as options, rather than a priority

[panamared1]

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