Why do guys always think I’m not interested?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been told numerous times through mutual friends that a guy has liked me, but wouldn’t make a move because he thought I wasn’t interested. But how do they know I wouldn’t be interested if I don’t know them/they haven’t actually made any moves? This happens all the time and why?

[caring__1]

To show interest, it's important to respond to whatever is happening. Without a response, it is common to assume no interest is present. When you react to whatever is going on around you, you are seen as an active participant rather than just a passive recipient. Let people know the specifics you appreciate. Don't just say "I like it" or "I like you." What is it you like, and how did it impact you? What do you like about the person, and how does it impact you? By being clear and not expecting others to guess, people will see you as more inviting and interested.

[deano1990]

Some girls really would make good poker players.

I've flirted with girls got no response and found at later they appreciate it.

And other times I've flirted the girl has been very open back to me and then I find out she can't stand me haha 🤣.

I hope no one takes offence to this but in our defence a lot of women are hard to read.

Maybe it's just me lol..

[LegendaryIcon]

You might come off as aloof