As a man, if the only thing that you bring to a relationship is money, Is it OK for the women that you pursue to want a high dollar amount?

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Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the question if she is working as well or not because if she is working why does he has to have such amount of money?
But if we are talking about a traditional relationship where she isn´t working or just works half time I think it´s legit since life is expensive and if he doesn´t have the money conflicts will arise soon.
Off topic I generally think it´s dangerous to build a relationship focused on the money aspect. That being said I don´t doubt that money is important it just shouldn´t be the only reason to date or not a guy since it doesn´t say much about a guy´s attitude towards her.
Also it doesn´t seem healthy to me because it takes the room for feelings away and reduces him to a money making machine if money takes the spotlight in a relationship and becomes a future course of conflict that is there from the beginning.

NewYorkCity · Accepted Answer

Man having tons of money and you using them like there is no tomorrow wouldn't last. If there is no physical attraction and I placed physical attraction way before everything else, like chemistry and having same interests etc... You wouldn't last long in such relationship, even if you will have the best, of the best, of the best life has to offer. It is like eating THE BEST 20lbs Ice cream in the world. At first you will be Beyond happy, then you will be just happy, then you will be like, ok, it's just a good Ice Cream, then you will be like, man, this is not as enjoyable as I thought it would be, then you will be sad, angry and depressed and then you will be sick of it and then you will STOP. Money keeps appearing and disappearing, your time on the other hand, just keeps disappearing.

Red-Blaze · Accepted Answer

I think it makes sense if they really only got that
Even that I dont really think anyone should go to someone that all they want to offer is money, beside if its all the woman can give is her looks or something and nothing else

fembotnpc777 · Accepted Answer

Hon, isn't that out of your league maybe a touch?

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t have tons of money and even if I did or do one day. I have more to bring to the table then money.

If that’s all you want. Don’t expect anything meaningful if you’re just looking for money.

Decent men don’t like gold diggers. Don’t waste a good man’s time either.

If you’re honest about what you want. Then I guess it’s fine if you agree on it

Avicenna · Answer

She’d better be awesome then. If both of them are happy with the arrangement, who are we to judge?

YourFavoriteFriend · Answer

You'll need to give extra info. When you say that the only thing a guy brings is money does that mean that:

A) The woman is not there for the money but that's the only thing the guy can offer (he's terrible in everything else).

B) The woman only cares about the money so the guy has other things to offer but has nothing else that she cares about (so nothing more to offer in her eyes).

In the first case, then I guess yes. But why would you be with a guy like that to begin with? You would fall in the second category if you stayed with him. In the second case, then yes, it's fine. As it's not a "real" relationship but just a deal. You're selling yourself and you can ask for as much as you think that you "deserve".

inhua · Answer

not really much of an issue but it will make the relationship a lot harder to maintain especially if the physical attraction isn't there.

money is the only one category, the vast majority of men can pursue through various avenues. there's only a limit to a man's status and there's certainly a limit to how physically attractive he can become.

for example 5'6 Jonah Hill at his best is never gonna be 6'3 Chris Hemsworth at his worst. Jonah can't sell the same amount of tickets as Chris and therefore he has less fame and less money overall.

a good personality sounds great on paper but it only matters when one of the three categories i. e. looks, money, status is fulfilled.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

A man with money brings food, protection solitude, advice and a path to lead life in the comfortable ways possible.

If you are pricing yourself were you stands in generic and not you.

the man has many choices with money
As your beauty mat degrade with time but his investments might increase in its profits.

He will change you in a heartbeat

And i believe what's the difference between a prostitute and other ladies and for sure this profession would be popular then.

If you are going to set your value on money why would a guy stay he will earn more and he will try to sleep around with most expensive women and show to others of his accomplishments and richness thats what is happening currently with all the elite people inner circle..

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I don't pursue women and I give away pretty freely, so I don't mind giving out cash sums.

That said, when a woman (or a man) wants to be friendly with me, or wants me to help them out or be their special friend, generally they bring me a gift. It's not about the gift itself, it's a matter of respect.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol no, let me reverse the question. As a woman, if the only thing you bring to the table is sex, then shouldn't the man be able to demand more sex or get it elsewhere if you don't put out?

Both of those premises, money, and sex, are just inherently bad things to base your marriages on.

Also to suggest that women should say "I'd be interested if you made more money." is to suggest she isn't capable of loving anyone. Which is also wrong. There are women out there that are like that, which are only worth a pump and dump.

Tennessee_fan · Answer

I honestly think that's all the woman is gonna want to go for I have a friend that married a girl and she is high class she is always getting new cars and I mean new like bought a brand new Lexus sports car not sure what kind but only kept it 6 months then traded it for a brand new 4 door jeep truck with a lift and all it was like a $60,000 jeep kept it 5 months traded it and got a new Tesla after a few months decided that she wanted another new Tesla but one that was I guess upgraded more so ended up trading it after a few months and getting another brand new Tesla but one that had a whole lot more upgrades so yea

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I do and don't mind. The more demands placed on me the more I place on a woman. Sure I'm well off but if that's why you're here, you MUST non negotiable be and remain model hot as one of many things I expect and just like if I lost my money you would leave, gain a few pounds or act like a bitch and you can walk tf out.

That being said. I don't believe women want money. They want safety and stability. My girlfriend doesn't get lots of money but she lives a nice life without a care about finances and thanks me constantly for giving her such a good life. And always shows me it's not money that keeps her with me. Like if something is canceled or I need her to get her hands dirty, she's not too good to help me or go without. This is what I look for in a woman.

MCheetah · Answer

Sugar babies and sugar daddies aren't actual "relationships." They're a business transaction, at best. Real relationships don't require money, and only sh*tty people believe otherwise. Speaking of sh*tty people, it was Jennifer Lopez who (lied and) said "Love Don't Cost a Thing."

Rapport · Answer

Yeah, like someone else said here that's basically like having a sugar daddy.

Money isn't the only thing we offer, don't let people get you into thinking that baloney.

However if a woman wants to be a gold digger then that's all her, she would be the perfect match for a sugar daddy.

DribbleGodCurt · Answer

what type of question is this?

bc a lot of people absolutely despise people that only think men are supposed to bring in money a relationship goes both ways in my opinion and also there's no way in hell the only thing he brings to the table is money everybody has someone that is interested in them even if the person is a straight menace

c0mlink · Answer

It is impossible for someone to bring only one thing. Unless this is a transaction of some kind. He will bring his problems, wants, and other things as well.

Just like a woman cannot bring just sex to the relationship, she brings her whole self.

Maybe I just am burned by the gold digger mindset but I say no. thankyou for your honest question though.

JDavid25 · Answer

"if the only thing that you bring to a relationship is money"... That's probably one of the most important aspects of it for a woman... While a relationship is a lot about love its ultimately an intimate business transaction.. The man offers security and protection, the woman offers the man consistent sex and the bearing of his offspring into the world.. Of course throw in the love factor..

DopeTurtle · Answer

IF the relationship dynamic between them is specifically about his money and her looks, no other form of foundation then yeah sure. If you’re a woman comfortable with that perspective in relationships then by all means go after whoever has the biggest wallet that you think you can get.

Sixgunsound · Answer

So are we talking about an ugly overweight slob who's an a****** swinging 4" and Is horribly abusive towards you? Because there are a lot of things besides money that men bring to relationships.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

It wouldn't be much of a relationship at all in my opinion. Gotta have some level of relation amongst other things for it to be a relationship.

But, if the only thing I bring to a relationship is money and would it be fair if she wants to seek a higher amount of money... Depends on the relationship I guess. It still wouldn't be much of a relationship though

aaron210419 · Answer

It's not that money is the only thing that guys bring to a relationship, it's more that a large percentage of women look for that in guys as a high priority. It's very uncommon for a man to require a woman to make a certain amount of money before he will even consider her, it happens but it's less common.

TheNameIsRob · Answer

A woman can pursue whatever she wants. I don’t just bring money to a relationship so any woman worthy of my attention is going to have to be looking for more than money. Trust me when I say that if she has the right attitude and personality she won’t be disappointed in what I have to offer.

Fuentes · Answer

The only thing I care about is money, I would never waste my time in a relationship.

Closest thing a chick will get from me is a BK meal and we fucking in the car. They can't get a dime it's already bad enough uncle SAM tryna take mine.

OpenClose · Answer

If all he brings to the relationship is money, then trying to make it work by adding lore money is like trying to fix a flat tire by adding more gas. It doesn't hurt, but it wasn't the problem in the first place.

D-Pad_Chad · Answer

So I think I can get to the answer of this by asking another question, if you'll indulge me.

As a woman, if the only thing that you bring to a relationship is sex, is it okay for men to expect to have sex with you?

loveslongnails · Answer

If the only thing I had to offer was money, I'd simply find a woman who is content with the amount I can provide. If other women wanted more financial assurances, why would I care if they by-pass me if I'm not able to support their desires?

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Why would they want to keep earning more for a gold digger? What does she bring?

OneManOnly01 · Answer

Just exactly why would someone only bring money to a relationship? Why do you simply make that assumption even though no one says that’s the case.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

buying sex from beautiful women is a lot cheaper than having a relationship. any man with money knows this

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Haha, I guess. But if I'm overtly rich you're not getting the keys to the Kingdom, your access to my wealth stops the second you piss me off. If you can behave and handle that then it's all good.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

That's the way Gold Diggers think. I'm not going to be with a woman who is just with me for my money. If she wants a guy that makes a certain amount of money then I would respect that, but I'm not an ATM Machine.

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

If money is the only thing he brings find a new guy

NathanDavis · Answer

interesting... what would you call a high amount?

AG900 · Answer

That sounds more of a transactional time of relationship than anything else. But I don’t think there’s nothing wrong with that

Makeushiver · Answer

Stated that way iit seems like a quid pro quo but it doesn't apply to me. In most cases the reason- less pecuniary but perhaps just as sordid the woman someone who turns me on

RealMarek · Answer

Sure it is, if that’s all the guy brings to the table. It’s also okay for the man to require a prenuptial agreement in that sort of arrangement.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If money is the only thing he brings, I would look for a different guy. That would be like a sugar daddy.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I mean how could anyone expect anything else that doesn't revolve around money if money is all they offer in the relationship

DrBanana · Answer

I don’t believe in that mind set personally speaking.  If people wanna chase the money go for it I guess, just writes those kinds off my personal list of types.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Money provides security, luxury, position, power. Bringing money today a relationship is bringing a lot more than sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Fair is fair. And i don't even bring money to a relationship. It all goes away towards making my solo living in a decent apartment and my cooking.

I wonder if i can get girls under these conditions. I don't pretend to be rich.

AdithyaR · Answer

That's a pretty fair point. If you can only bring one thing into a relationship, then you shouldn't complain when a partner is only focused on that.

annabananna · Answer

Why would a guy want a girl that thought that about him?

Anonymous · Answer

True, similar reason men pursue the prettiest women and tend to dump them if they become pregnant, old, or fat. Most women don't bring anything to relationships except their looks. Most relationships are based on guys' money vs girls' looks.

24_7_Amazing · Answer

No man myself included brings only money to the table... sense of humor, kind personality, helpfulness, etc. are all qualities I possess

fonduegirl · Answer

Obviously. If you can't offer me more than a penny, better be a bigger penny!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

All things being equal, I think that makes sense.

AydenHazor · Answer

If the only thing I brought to a relationship was money, then I wouldn't deserve to be in a relationship.

BJP21 · Answer

Money doesn't always bring happiness like most would think, emotional fulfillment has an intrinsic value.

CubaPirate · Answer

No she needs to stop being so shallow and look for more fulfilling and meaningful relationship

Nahid1707 · Answer

Nice selfie  What makes a women toxic or have a red flag?

Guardian45 · Answer

As a man, I would NOT know, because I bring a LOT MORE than money to a relationship! It's OK for the women to earn a high dollar amount.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Theoretically, if that was the only thing that men brought to the relationship, then yes.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

So he has to pay an extra fee to make her stay... like an escort

Sparkie460 · Answer

If they flaunt their money to get women then yes she deserves a high amount

Jouth · Answer

I guess she should also offer a lot in return then. Tit for tat.  And big natural tits

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Whoever wants you is gay. Looks like isaac newton.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

What’s to stop him from finding someone hotter?

dontgofalling · Answer

Don't lead the man on, be straight with your intentions.

jamartheg · Answer

Yes because I want to be billionaires and I will be billionaire

Anonymous · Answer

that's why the guy should bring more to the table then just money

Anonymous · Answer

It would Probably be okay if he had plenty of Money and he got enough Sex.

Noahzaid · Answer

And what do you offer sweetie?

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