As a man, if the only thing that you bring to a relationship is money, Is it OK for the women that you pursue to want a high dollar amount?

[Subarugirl]

[Lionman95]

I think it depends on the question if she is working as well or not because if she is working why does he has to have such amount of money?
But if we are talking about a traditional relationship where she isn´t working or just works half time I think it´s legit since life is expensive and if he doesn´t have the money conflicts will arise soon.
Off topic I generally think it´s dangerous to build a relationship focused on the money aspect. That being said I don´t doubt that money is important it just shouldn´t be the only reason to date or not a guy since it doesn´t say much about a guy´s attitude towards her.
Also it doesn´t seem healthy to me because it takes the room for feelings away and reduces him to a money making machine if money takes the spotlight in a relationship and becomes a future course of conflict that is there from the beginning.

[NewYorkCity]

Man having tons of money and you using them like there is no tomorrow wouldn't last. If there is no physical attraction and I placed physical attraction way before everything else, like chemistry and having same interests etc... You wouldn't last long in such relationship, even if you will have the best, of the best, of the best life has to offer. It is like eating THE BEST 20lbs Ice cream in the world. At first you will be Beyond happy, then you will be just happy, then you will be like, ok, it's just a good Ice Cream, then you will be like, man, this is not as enjoyable as I thought it would be, then you will be sad, angry and depressed and then you will be sick of it and then you will STOP. Money keeps appearing and disappearing, your time on the other hand, just keeps disappearing.

[Red-Blaze]

I think it makes sense if they really only got that
Even that I dont really think anyone should go to someone that all they want to offer is money, beside if its all the woman can give is her looks or something and nothing else

[fembotnpc777]

Men don't marry women for their looks. They marry them for sex. The only time they consider looks in the equation is if the woman looks absolutely atrocious.

[Red-Blaze]

Sure but the looks are very much the first pull for a good sex
I mean his not going to step to anyone and ask for a test drive 😅
or at least not get one

[fembotnpc777]

Access to sex is the initial pull for most men: a woman's availability to sex and willingness to perform certain acts. Being super good looking and average good looking doesn't have a difference when you're a woman.

Basic the guy will screw a warm body first, and get to know them later, and kind of force himself to love that person, even if they don't really have anything in common or she's not the most attractive woman in the room. Basically, the reason they give you any attention is because you're fucking them. They don't care if you're special or beautiful or anything.

A small minority of guys thinks that way, are picky about what they're looking for in a partner and want a connection first, and they're marriage material. It's usually the good guys like this that get snatched up by the toxic women, though, and vice versa.

[fembotnpc777]

For men, "really good sex" is not a beautiful woman: it's multiple women. Men prefer easy to access to sex over beautiful and quantity over quality. Men consume, for example, tons of porn, but none of the women featured in pornos are beautiful. They're average-looking.

I feel like if people meet as friends or acquaintances or get to know each other over a longer period of time and decide to date, that's not the same situation. But most single men are looking for a warm body that they can later rationalize as love.

[Red-Blaze]

I see what you mean, but its all something that comes later, anyway looks was an example for the most part just trying to say its when they only got one thing or very few to offer

[fembotnpc777]

Hon, isn't that out of your league maybe a touch?

[fembotnpc777]

I mean, your head is like a 5, maybe just stick to the rivers and the streams that you're used to.

[Subarugirl]

Lol what are you talking about?

[fembotnpc777]

You really think a rich guy is going to choose you? Really?

[Subarugirl]

I never said that lol. What are you talking about?

[fembotnpc777]

yeah you should probably backpedal that mojo

[Subarugirl]

What are you talking about?

[fembotnpc777]

What are you talking about?

[Subarugirl]

I’m married to a doctor, so I think you might be confused..

[fembotnpc777]

If you were married to a doctor, you'd be fucking him right now, not acting enraged about men online. You're single and alone.

[Subarugirl]

Lol you really are confused then.

[PatriceONeal]

Check her posts where she talks about her 5 yr old son finding "her and her husband's" buttplug that she definitely doesn't use on him 🤣

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal your obsession with other peoples sex lives is creepy

[PatriceONeal]

Hahahaha

[PatriceONeal]

You shared your sex life on this website, while being married to a fake doctor with 2 sons.. Who's creepy?

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal I have one son and a husband who has been in practice for 3 years. If the fact I have sex with my husband is surprising to you, I’d suggest re-educating your self of how babies are made lol

[PatriceONeal]

Well you've said sons. Plural. And this doesn't answer my question about how it's not creepy to share your families intimate details to strangers.. but your deflection says it all. You're ashamed but you have fake pride that keeps you disingenuous.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal my apology that I didn’t use an apostrophe. Happy that helped clarify things for you. The fact that I have a son and that I have sex with my husband are not intimate details. That wouldn’t be surprising to anyone unless they were a prude, which in your case would make a lot of sense

[PatriceONeal]

No you're right. But talking about these topics and sharing details like your son finding you and your husband's buttplug, is.

[PatriceONeal]

What type of husband would even be okay with their wife doing this isn't much of a man. If you're keeping it from him you don't respect him. Sooo which is it?

[PatriceONeal]

It almost like you forgot what apostrophes are used for. Weird how it explains ownership and/or plurality and it's absence can cause confusion 🤔

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal you must have a lot of shame surrounding sex. Which is unfortunate because there is absolutely nothing shameful surrounding a healthy consensual sexual relationship. It’s unfortunate that you feel that way

[PatriceONeal]

No I would just feel shame putting things In my ass. It's unnatural. Are you anal shaming me? 🤣

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal no I just think you are a prude or sexually inexperienced

[PatriceONeal]

If not having sex with my poopshoot makes me a prude, I'm a prude. I'm a goddamn nun.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t have tons of money and even if I did or do one day. I have more to bring to the table then money.

If that’s all you want. Don’t expect anything meaningful if you’re just looking for money.

Decent men don’t like gold diggers. Don’t waste a good man’s time either.

If you’re honest about what you want. Then I guess it’s fine if you agree on it

[Avicenna]

She’d better be awesome then. If both of them are happy with the arrangement, who are we to judge?

[YourFavoriteFriend]

You'll need to give extra info. When you say that the only thing a guy brings is money does that mean that:

A) The woman is not there for the money but that's the only thing the guy can offer (he's terrible in everything else).

B) The woman only cares about the money so the guy has other things to offer but has nothing else that she cares about (so nothing more to offer in her eyes).

In the first case, then I guess yes. But why would you be with a guy like that to begin with? You would fall in the second category if you stayed with him. In the second case, then yes, it's fine. As it's not a "real" relationship but just a deal. You're selling yourself and you can ask for as much as you think that you "deserve".

[inhua]

not really much of an issue but it will make the relationship a lot harder to maintain especially if the physical attraction isn't there.

money is the only one category, the vast majority of men can pursue through various avenues. there's only a limit to a man's status and there's certainly a limit to how physically attractive he can become.

for example 5'6 Jonah Hill at his best is never gonna be 6'3 Chris Hemsworth at his worst. Jonah can't sell the same amount of tickets as Chris and therefore he has less fame and less money overall.

a good personality sounds great on paper but it only matters when one of the three categories i. e. looks, money, status is fulfilled.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

A man with money brings food, protection solitude, advice and a path to lead life in the comfortable ways possible.

If you are pricing yourself were you stands in generic and not you.

the man has many choices with money
As your beauty mat degrade with time but his investments might increase in its profits.

He will change you in a heartbeat

And i believe what's the difference between a prostitute and other ladies and for sure this profession would be popular then.

If you are going to set your value on money why would a guy stay he will earn more and he will try to sleep around with most expensive women and show to others of his accomplishments and richness thats what is happening currently with all the elite people inner circle..

[Tennessee_fan]

I honestly think that's all the woman is gonna want to go for I have a friend that married a girl and she is high class she is always getting new cars and I mean new like bought a brand new Lexus sports car not sure what kind but only kept it 6 months then traded it for a brand new 4 door jeep truck with a lift and all it was like a $60,000 jeep kept it 5 months traded it and got a new Tesla after a few months decided that she wanted another new Tesla but one that was I guess upgraded more so ended up trading it after a few months and getting another brand new Tesla but one that had a whole lot more upgrades so yea

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I don't pursue women and I give away pretty freely, so I don't mind giving out cash sums.

That said, when a woman (or a man) wants to be friendly with me, or wants me to help them out or be their special friend, generally they bring me a gift. It's not about the gift itself, it's a matter of respect.

[PinkRose24]

You give money away? Why?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

When you have more than the others, it is good to share.

[PinkRose24]

Can you buy me a Christmas present? 😁

[Anonymous]

Lol no, let me reverse the question. As a woman, if the only thing you bring to the table is sex, then shouldn't the man be able to demand more sex or get it elsewhere if you don't put out?

Both of those premises, money, and sex, are just inherently bad things to base your marriages on.

Also to suggest that women should say "I'd be interested if you made more money." is to suggest she isn't capable of loving anyone. Which is also wrong. There are women out there that are like that, which are only worth a pump and dump.

[Opinion Owner]

I just read some of your comments.

"men who think all they need to contribute is money" those guys are beyond despicable, and honestly sad. They usually end up without a family and penniless. I still think it's wrong to take advantage of them, but they do the same to women so I have zero sympathy for them when they fail and end up in the gutter.

Sorry I misinterpreted your question. In that one case, yeah it's fine that the woman demand more money.. But if she is that kind they deserve each other because neither is date or marriage material.

[Subarugirl]

Well that wouldn’t apply to be because sex is the least important of all the qualities I bring to my marriage.
I am talking about men who specifically believe that money as all that they need to contribute to a relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Yup see my response to my own comment.

[PatriceONeal]

Sex is probably the best thing you bring. Name the others?

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal You mean apart from contributing an additional 75k a year, health, vision and dental insurance, managing and maintaining the household, taking care of all the vehicle maintenance, managing our son's, education, sports, and socialization, all the grocery shopping and cooking?

[PatriceONeal]

You said you have a husband, guess not. Multiple sons? You're raising 2 boys? Sad. I find your list unbelievable and exhaustive. Like you tried really hard to fit anything in. What woman can do all of those things and be a loving mother? It's impossible. You raise your kids, but you're also working a full time job, shopping, cooking, you're also a mechanic while "managing sports, education, and socializing". And you spend hours on girls ask guys. How many hours are in your day?

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal I’m not surprised you find it it exhaustive, but that’s not surprising coming from you. It’s called being a good parent, having a strong work ethic and time management. My husband appreciates and values my contributions. But if you need a better understanding of how much work being a parent is, you should ask your mother.

[PatriceONeal]

I should ask your father why he never stuck around but I'm sure it has to do with you being a chip off your single mothers block. Your attitude says it all. But the fact you can't relent when exclaiming you're such a busy person with such a busy life is insulting to both our intelligence.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal lol you and your assumptions. My parents are still married. Maybe you'll understand one day if you ever end up being a parent

[Opinion Owner]

@subarugirl I'm on your side here. My wife is similar to you minus the kids, no kids yet. I wish I could kick him off of my comments.

[PatriceONeal]

I've raised more women than your together parents did. Look at you lol

[Subarugirl]

you can. Generally, I just start reporting his comments for spam and trolling and that usually fixes it.

[Subarugirl]

Honestly, I think he just like the attention because no saine woman would willingly give him the time of day.,

[Opinion Owner]

No kidding. You and I disagree a lot, but I also know you're a good person with a good reason for the things you ask. The way he responded is not the way to talk to anyone let alone a mom..

[bamesjond0069]

I do and don't mind. The more demands placed on me the more I place on a woman. Sure I'm well off but if that's why you're here, you MUST non negotiable be and remain model hot as one of many things I expect and just like if I lost my money you would leave, gain a few pounds or act like a bitch and you can walk tf out.

That being said. I don't believe women want money. They want safety and stability. My girlfriend doesn't get lots of money but she lives a nice life without a care about finances and thanks me constantly for giving her such a good life. And always shows me it's not money that keeps her with me. Like if something is canceled or I need her to get her hands dirty, she's not too good to help me or go without. This is what I look for in a woman.

[MCheetah]

Sugar babies and sugar daddies aren't actual "relationships." They're a business transaction, at best. Real relationships don't require money, and only sh*tty people believe otherwise. Speaking of sh*tty people, it was Jennifer Lopez who (lied and) said "Love Don't Cost a Thing."

https://www.youtube.com/embed/4kGvlESGvbs

[Rapport]

Yeah, like someone else said here that's basically like having a sugar daddy.

Money isn't the only thing we offer, don't let people get you into thinking that baloney.

However if a woman wants to be a gold digger then that's all her, she would be the perfect match for a sugar daddy.

[Subarugirl]

I’m not talking about hose kind of people though, I’m talking about men who think money is the only thing they need to contribute.

[Rapport]

@Subarugirl oh, guys who think that's the only thing they need to contribute are probably not the most emotionally available guys then.

At least that's what first comes to mind for me.

[Subarugirl]

That’s is why I specified that when I asked the question lol

[PatriceONeal]

Maybe that's the type of men who are around YOU, but as you say, don't you dare generalize.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal I asked a very specific question

[PatriceONeal]

No you set a divisive premise in the form of a question.
You mentioned beofre that you're married to a doctor. If that's true, are you asking this question In regards to him?

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal I asked a specific question about a specific demographic, if that offends you than one might assume you are a part of that demographic.

Lol no this question has nothing what so ever to do with my husband and everything to do with men who have that mentality.

[PatriceONeal]

No you set a divisive premise in the form of a question.
You mentioned beofre that you're married to a doctor. If that's true, are you asking this question In regards to him?

[PatriceONeal]

Why are you so concerned about any man who isn't your husband? Must be so fulfilling you want to share that love or something.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal I’m sorry you find it so triggering. You’re more than welcome to ignore them in the future

[PatriceONeal]

Keep that mouth shut woman, don't answer my question.
Why are you so concerned about any man who isn't your husband? Must be so fulfilling you want to share that love or something.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal your mother must be so proud of you lol is this what this is about? Mommy never loved you?

[DribbleGodCurt]

what type of question is this?

bc a lot of people absolutely despise people that only think men are supposed to bring in money a relationship goes both ways in my opinion and also there's no way in hell the only thing he brings to the table is money everybody has someone that is interested in them even if the person is a straight menace

[c0mlink]

It is impossible for someone to bring only one thing. Unless this is a transaction of some kind. He will bring his problems, wants, and other things as well.

Just like a woman cannot bring just sex to the relationship, she brings her whole self.

Maybe I just am burned by the gold digger mindset but I say no. thankyou for your honest question though.

[JDavid25]

"if the only thing that you bring to a relationship is money"... That's probably one of the most important aspects of it for a woman... While a relationship is a lot about love its ultimately an intimate business transaction.. The man offers security and protection, the woman offers the man consistent sex and the bearing of his offspring into the world.. Of course throw in the love factor..

[DopeTurtle]

IF the relationship dynamic between them is specifically about his money and her looks, no other form of foundation then yeah sure. If you’re a woman comfortable with that perspective in relationships then by all means go after whoever has the biggest wallet that you think you can get.

[Sixgunsound]

So are we talking about an ugly overweight slob who's an a****** swinging 4" and Is horribly abusive towards you? Because there are a lot of things besides money that men bring to relationships.

[Subarugirl]

Of course there is but that’s not the question

[Sixgunsound]

And my response was a clarification question. I feel bad for you that all men are To you are cash machines, but other women who have a more mature outlook on relationships would seem To disagree.

[Subarugirl]

Oh wow, you must be totally confused. That isn’t at all what I am talking about.

[Sixgunsound]

I don't think I'm confused at all. What am I supposed to take away from "the only thing you bring to a relationship is money"?

[Subarugirl]

No one here is saying that. You are misunderstanding. I’m talking about a specific kind of person not you.

[Sixgunsound]

I was only quoting your statement not personally identifying with it. The question as asked made that statement; what am I supposed to think based on the question as asked?

[CallmeTheKnight]

It wouldn't be much of a relationship at all in my opinion. Gotta have some level of relation amongst other things for it to be a relationship.

But, if the only thing I bring to a relationship is money and would it be fair if she wants to seek a higher amount of money... Depends on the relationship I guess. It still wouldn't be much of a relationship though

[aaron210419]

It's not that money is the only thing that guys bring to a relationship, it's more that a large percentage of women look for that in guys as a high priority. It's very uncommon for a man to require a woman to make a certain amount of money before he will even consider her, it happens but it's less common.

[TheNameIsRob]

• A woman can pursue whatever she wants. I don’t just bring money to a relationship so any woman worthy of my attention is going to have to be looking for more than money. Trust me when I say that if she has the right attitude and personality she won’t be disappointed in what I have to offer.

[Fuentes]

The only thing I care about is money, I would never waste my time in a relationship.

Closest thing a chick will get from me is a BK meal and we fucking in the car. They can't get a dime it's already bad enough uncle SAM tryna take mine.

[PatriceONeal]

Brotha froma notha motha

[Fuentes]

@PatriceONeal ain't no pussy worth a dime of our money, we cutting these chick's dead off. Let's get the bag bro. All grind for the money 💰 hahaha! Fuck we look like lol