I used those attention getting websites like wizz/wink to get male validation and followers. It worked but now I feel like shit what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I download a bunch of those apps like wizz, wink, Yubo, and hoop where u can talk to a ton of guys because no one approached me in person. At first it was great and I define you gained a lot of followers from it but I’m tired of it now.

I already have them all uninstalled and whenever but I still get dms from a lot of them and I just never feel like responding sometimes I’ll just block them I’ll get so overwhelmed.

But now since I haven’t gone on in a couple days I feel like shit because I’m no longer getting all the attention and it feel awful seeing everyone in real life in relationships and barley even knowing any guys so I just feel unloveable to real people.

how do I rebuild my self esteem?

[D-Pad_Chad]

That's called addiction. You're addicted to attention, you're probably getting your fix right now from gag honestly. You want to truly be rid of it. Be a big fish in a small pond, i. e. uninstall all those apps, AND no social media whatsoever for at least 3 months to a year.

Focus on hobbies, local men, self improvement, lord knows most women I've met here could use improvement 😆 and possibly even talk to a therapist if the addiction is too strong.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Maybe focus on one guy for the attention at a time. You free to chat?

[Anonymous]

Stop putting your self worth in what others think of you. It's pathetic.