When its too hot, there's only so much you can take off, but when its cooler you can always layer up. I think if you two can find a happy medium where he can wear another layer if chilled, then that would be ideal... but even if thats too hot for you, I would voice that.
My parents are this way. My mum and I are both like human furnaces. Always hot. But my dad is the opposite. How they make it work is that my dad will wear more layers (which he likes), and we have certain rooms in the house (the ones my mum spends most of her time in) be cooler. And the opposite for my dad. Her office is cool, his is warm. And at night, they have two different blankets on the bed. My dad has an extra on his side. They make it work :)
Depends on how much we're talking about.
I would honestly find it off-putting, almost like a red flag, if he didn't care if I walked around in his home, sweating so much I was uncomfortable, or got dehydrated or something like that.
Then you could find a middle way or something.
Like if I wanted it much colder than they were comfortable with, and they froze, I would want to make it warmer for them. - Also for their health in mind.
Yes, I have done and it’s horrible it’s bearable but horrible none the less 🤣
She’d have the heating on full blast all the time and I’m naturally always warm in like 99% of the weather, I mean this to the extent that even now in winter I sleep on top of the covers with the heating off she was the polar opposite and would cling to me in bed too I don’t mean an arm I mean wrap her legs round mine have an arm under my back and the other across me, I used to just keep a fan on at all times and had plenty of cold drinks lol
I am pretty adaptable, but there are limits. I'm not going to be OK with 90F or 50F indoors just because she prefers to be way outside the norm.
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I used to like a guy who hated hot weather and I hated cold weather, it was not a problem at the time but who knows where we would live if we married one day. Now he’s part of the past.
You find you a transplanted SE Asian girl ⁉️
First of all having it warm would be awesome haha
Then we don't have thermostats, some probably have, I don't, I just have a heater for the winter lol
And then, even if he liked it cold and me warm, It wouldn't be a dréal breaker, if everything else would fit.
If it was too hot to the point that I'm gonna have a stroke then it would be a problem. But otherwise, it would be fine.
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I am the person who prefers 85 - 90 inside during the winter.
Thankfully we all like it colder. Or I would sleep in the garage.
If I could tolerate it, then yeah I guess, but I'd probably let them know about it.
As long as I'm not sweating like crazy or freezing to death I'm good.
No it will be very easy to adjust to my temperature.
If I'm the love of her life too, I'm certain we could work something out. That's not a big deal at all.
Yes, I could live with that.
i meant to click yes, sorry!
Oh, my fucking God!
Too cold, yes.
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