Low self-esteem. I deal with the same issue. I highly recommend getting counseling. Often low self-esteem has underlying causes such as emotional neglect from parents or some other forms of trauma, and you need therapy to resolve this. Individual therapy, not couples therapy.
I've been getting help for my mental health issues and while it is a very long-term process and can get frustrating at times because you won't get the results you want as early as you would like it, it is extremely beneficial and I know it has been for me.
If you need someone to talk to, I am always there. Don't hesitate.
America is sodom and Gomorrah. People will not stick around for sex and relationship. They have plenty of opportunities to fool around. Maybe you should fool around together like sex party or swapping. That’s what people did in sodom and Gomorrah
If you're insecure about your relationship then you're insecure about yourself. Which means you need to be worthy of your own standards. Maybe you've disappointed yourself or think you could be doing more in life. Don't get into relationships unless you're confident in yourself. (I know I know, so many "yous", yours, and "youres") If you have to question yourself and the relationship like this, I'd say you're not ready.
You don't have a strong relationship with yourself, and do not love yourself. Therefore you naturally wonder how another could do so. This is why it's more beneficial to find yourself before finding another. To love yourself before loving another, and to know yourself before knowing another.
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you are being influenced by fear or shame. what happened in your past that you are projecting onto your "now"? That or he's doing something that sub consciously you are identifying and makes you feel insecure, but consciously aren't aware of.
What's "wrong" with you is that you don't think you deserved to be loved. Call it low self-esteem, call it anything you like. I'll tell you this much - if you spend your life waiting for the bad thing to happen, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. You will actually help bring into your life the thing you fear most. I don't know "how" you overcome that except to think your way through it, because the alternative is to live your life in fear of the worst all the time.
I think you're just paranoid. Most men can't effortlessly get a partner with personality flaws, like you can. I think you should just be grateful and stop thinking imaginary problems you're projecting onto him.
How did your parents raise you?
you have low self esteem unless he is doing something to make you feel insecure.
Maybe you got something going on within yourself to make u feel insecure n to have low self esteem he choose you because he see something in you n loves u for u
Maybe this is something you need to talk about with your boyfriend. He’s going to wonder what’s going on with you if you start becoming distant.
Just distract yourself, it's all going to work out and disappear when you pay no mind to it and just focus on self-improvement and your happiness
It sounds like there is a lack of security in your relationship. Do you feel like you are at the mercy of fate? Do you feel powerless? Then maybe you need to be proactive and take back some of your power.
I believe you have unresolved issues, is best to address with a mental health specialist. I am not kidding, you need help to understand your interpretation of love.
has he ever given you a reason to believe he won't love you anymore?
He chose you because he saw something that you can't see. He doesn't see your worst traits, because they're so small and only noticed by the person who has them.
You don't have self worth/love. Probably a trauma response from childhood trauma.
Tell him that you wanna break up because you're feeling insecure
You need therapy. All childhood traumas surface when you're in a relationship
Not much you're a typically overly emotional illogical woman that creates things in her head. Congrats you're pretty normal. 🤣🤣🤣
I will tell him to leave you as you don't trust me for love
Sounds like anxiety, not you personally
Emotional baggage
Because deep in you you know she deserves better.
We don't know stupid
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