my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 years and i’m so insecure being in a relationship with him. he used to follow girls on instagram, like their bikini pictures and DM a few of them complimenting them. i don’t look like any of those girls so it makes me so insecure to the point where i’m no longer nice to him. a lot of the times i just don’t want to hangout with him bc it just makes me so sad. he has apologized time and time again, but i’m so scared to let my wall down to be hurt again. i asked him why he did it and he said he’s sorry he didn’t know who he had in front of him. I don't know what to do. i hate him for doing that to me, but I don't know what to do if i should let him go or let my wall down and give it another chance. he no longer has instagram, instagram deleted his account but he does have facebook still. I don't know what to do.
Why am I always so insecure?
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A bit dramatic by you for him just looking at bikini pictures...
he was liking them and DMing them telling them they are pretty, beautiful or gorgeous while in a relationship with me. is that not bad?
Liking a picture means absolutely nothing. Did he know any of these women?
i don’t think so. maybe just a handful
So they were really no threat at all.
tomorrow is his birthday and we usually spend the day before together to ring his birthday at midnight but he decided to hangout with his friends. his one best friend came back from colorado on Friday so i know they are hanging out and catching up. me and his friend don’t get a long at all. so i’m kinda sad.
i also can’t be all that sad bc he asked me to go to his house earlier but i was giving him a hard time to go over.
Why would he want to spend time with you at this point?
Why would you give him a hard time about going to his house?
All this because of stupid Instagram... fucking ridiculous.
i had plans to go to his house earlier to help him organize his mess but he decided to sleep till noon then i decided to go to the gym with my sister when he decided to call and ask me to go to his house
Sounds like a great time.
oh okay so it’s a smart idea on his end to hangout with his friends than with me?
If you are still affected that much about even after he apologized? What would you do?
Do you understand how tricked up all those stupid Instagram pictures are? It's a fucking joke.
i know it’s ridiculous but it’s horrible to not trust him. bc when i did trust him, he DMed girls behind my back.
He needs to dump you.
why? lol
Because insecure, jealous, women suck to be around.
you think having a boyfriend follow bikini girls, like their pictures and DM them telling them they are pretty is okay in a relationship?
How many ex boyfriend's and fuck buddy's do you follow/still have contact with?
none actually.
Pffffft.
why would i follow and have contact with guys i don’t care about? does that make sense
You are lying.